FLR (Female Led Relationships)

[HumpDayHoratio]

Well, you make a good point. I think it’s me that will struggle, she’ll probably love it! I’ll keep you posted.

 

[Goldenfinger]

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[NancyPan]

Well, you make a good point. I think it’s me that will struggle, she’ll probably love it! I’ll keep you posted.

If you are serious about approaching her and want advice, help, encouragement, support, feel free to PM me with specific questions.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

If you are serious about approaching her and want advice, help, encouragement, support, feel free to PM me with specific questions.

NP, turn on your PM’s.

 

[NancyPan]

An important, essential aspect of FLR is orgasm denial or orgasm management. For one thing, it is very symbolic, and to me, highly erotic, that She may whenever and as often and however She chooses. On the other hand, He decides when or if I am allowed to ejaculate. The rhythm we have been in for some time is that She allows me a spurt about once every 3-4 weeks. This keeps me in a sustained state of arousal, which I have grown to enjoy tremendously, and She finds both useful and amusing.

It is very difficult in weeks three and four to provide oral worship without permission to ejaculate, but it has been good training for me. She enjoys knowing that my focus is on Her, not my selfish little penis.

 

[Anthony1321]

I always dreamed of marrying a .. well off slave who would support me totally while I..lived my life and stuck him with all the chores and errands .. lol

Ha...Good luck with that...

 

[masterslave00]

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[Dearelliot]

Re, FLRs
Stationed in Berlin a long, long time ago, I rented a small one room with a shared kitchen and bath on Handjery Strasse. with a woman who I later married. We were young and not all that worldly.
An older German couple, maybe in their 50s, rented next to us, and on occasion, we would visit each other and have a drink to pass the time.
He was a short balding man,a bit subservient, always bowing his head when we met, addressing me as Ober Feltwebel, Sergeant, and she was a big woman, a bit overweight, heavy, square shouldered. The woman had a hard face and a harsh tone and reminded me of a female prison guard.
Frau Feder was her name, not sure of the spelling, did most of the talking and he nodded in agreement so my wife to be and I felt she was definitely the one in charge. One evening over drinks we discussed something political, Eisenhower was president at the time, and the fellow made a comment, and she turned and slapped his face hard, telling him to shut up! And the poor, embarrassed man did. He didn't speak for the rest of the evening.
I had the feeling he enjoyed being humiliated by her, and they would have gone further had we not been such a naive young couple. I thought that she beat him but that might be my fantasy and not true.
I do fantasize about them sometimes and what could have been

 

[mully_m]

I've been in a FLR for over five years now. It works really well for us. The money side of things hasn't really been an issue. She has control over that and a set sum is available to me each month.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

I think they are very common. They might not be as sexual as the memes or what people say here. But I see a lot of relationships where the women is the boss.

 

[9to5]

its true, mine is more in charge of day to day, not sure she sees it.
now if only I could get her to take charge in the bedroom.
then again isn't the women always in chare of sex, she decides if and when

 

[Mike302]

I asked my wife to take control of the household and my orgasms several years ago. We have always had an active and fulfilling sex life, had role-played some Femdom scenes (especially while on vacation), and she knew that I was turned on by orgasm denial and submission. I found, edited to make it more personal, and gave her an article on The Psychology of The Submissive Male.

We had a couple long talks. She agreed to try it for a month.

At the end of the month she agreed to continue if I accepted two conditions: She would never again clean another toilet or bathroom, and she was done with PIV sex.

I was shocked by the second condition, and hurt when she told me her reasons, but I agreed. It has been several years and we both are much happier. We make all major decisions together, I handle money and investments like I always have, and she has taught me how to do housework to her standards.

Some days I feel like I am living a dream!

Why was she done with PIV sex?

 

[calmlikeabomb]

As long as she understands the difference between Topping from Bottom and being a lazy narcissist, we gucci.

God there are so many evenings I wish I could get back...

 

[NancyPan]

Why was she done with PIV sex?

It started with vaginismus (pain on intercourse), but then proceeded to her revealing, after over 25 years of marriage, that she rarely orgasmed from penetration, that my small size did not provide the same stimulation as ger seven inch vibrator, and that the times (too frequently I am embarrassed to say) that I ejaculated prematurely were “too frustrating” to her. She far prefers my oral service and her vibrator. Now, she has learned that keeping me denied does enhance my submission. She has, very rarely and on special occasions, rewarded me with allowing me penetration. Unfortunately, on each of these occasions I was so excited that I shot my load almost immediately. Although she was sympathetic (these were special times like my birthday) she does sometimes require me to “remind me why you aren’t allowed inside.” I find it next to impossible to maintain eye contact as I recite the reasons.

As I am into erotic humiliation, now being reminded that I am not allowed PIV and/or having to verbalizes the reasons in and of itself drives me to the edge.

Sometimes I wonder whether, if I ever lost her, I could regain the capacity to fuck. I kinda doubt it.