For straight men who have sucked a cock or want to...

The only regret I had after sucking my first cock was waiting for so long to give it a try-I wish I had known how hot it felt to have a thick throbbing cock between my lips
Exactly. I regret waiting so long, for something that feels so natural ... a hard cock in my mouth.
 
I did it as part of a dare. Was supposed to just take a photo but turned into more. Wife shocked I put in my mouth, doesn’t know it went on a little longer…
Was it she who dared you? I can't wait you hear what her next dare is.
 
I always loved looking at cock...then around 50 I was tired of being 'curious'..and finally did the deed...a few times ;-) including bottoming a bunch of times. Then I hit a few year lull and now I'm totally gun-shy to actually meet someone. I've met some men on-line and then at the last minute I literally nearly panicked. Love to just jerk one...and be safe from fluids...but after a few minutes of jerking one...the urge to put my mouth on it is overwhelming...
 
I always loved looking at cock...then around 50 I was tired of being 'curious'..and finally did the deed...a few times ;-) including bottoming a bunch of times. Then I hit a few year lull and now I'm totally gun-shy to actually meet someone. I've met some men on-line and then at the last minute I literally nearly panicked. Love to just jerk one...and be safe from fluids...but after a few minutes of jerking one...the urge to put my mouth on it is overwhelming...
Why have you become gun shy?
 
I always loved looking at cock...then around 50 I was tired of being 'curious'..and finally did the deed...a few times ;-) including bottoming a bunch of times. Then I hit a few year lull and now I'm totally gun-shy to actually meet someone. I've met some men on-line and then at the last minute I literally nearly panicked. Love to just jerk one...and be safe from fluids...but after a few minutes of jerking one...the urge to put my mouth on it is overwhelming...
I am like you... I will jerk off with other guys but I have no desire to suck
 
I suspected as much. The odds of getting HIV are much less for oral sex than anal sex but the risk is still there.
You can catch many other things from sucking a man’s dick that you definitely wouldn’t want to take home to your wife. I have even heard stories of a guy getting VD from having his dick sucked.
 
You can catch many other things from sucking a man’s dick that you definitely wouldn’t want to take home to your wife. I have even heard stories of a guy getting VD from having his dick sucked.
That has got to be very rare but a possibility. Better safe than sorry!
 

For straight men who have sucked a cock or want to...​


Imho, you're not a straight man if you have either sucked or want to suck another man's cock. You're either gay or bi-sexual, and there's nothing wrong with that - both are NORMAL and healthy sexual orientations.

So, why does it matter? ..Why get hung up on definitions and labels? Because our partners deserve to know the truth about our sexuality.

If you're in a serious relationship with a woman and you're contemplating marriage, your bi-sexuality may matter a great deal to her . ..She doesn't have the right to shame you for it but she does have the right to factor it into her decision to marry you. Likewise, she should be honest with you about HER sexual orientation.

People need to be honest with themselves and their partners about their sexuality. It's that simple.
 
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I have a different perspective on this topic. After 20+ years of no sex at home, or anywhere else for that matter, I posted an ad and was contacted by a very fine man who offered to introduce me to some more-than-gentle bondage (a long-felt fantasy) and his talented mouth. He was so patient with me, tried many positions and worked my cock for hours. I could not maintain a steady erection, and although it felt quite nice I never felt any sexual thrills. He really tried, and I apologized sheepishly. He gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek and said "You gave it a fair shot." A good man he was.

Since then I've been so frustrated with my home situation that I've tried again, twice. Same non-reaction. It just doesn't work. Ironically, I spent a miserable set of high school years as a big, burly, sensitive, non-athletic kid who was routinely called a "faggot" by the typical assholes (including by dad). Turns out I'm the most non-homoerotic man I know.
ED with men or in general?
 
you're not a straight man if you have either sucked or want to suck another man's cock. You're either gay or bi-sexual...
So, in your world, it's not a black and white matter? Instead, there's black, white, and one very specific shade of grey (defined by you)?

Real life isn't like that. Sexuality covers a broad spectrum, filled with every shade, and every color, of the rainbow.

Why do many men who have experienced MM sex call themselves straight? As has been discussed ad infinitum elsewhere,
  • Some call themselves straight because there is still stigma in our society— and possibly, quite terrible stigma in their families— attached to the word “gay.”
  • Some call themselves straight because they feel no romantic attraction to people of their own gender, and for many the labels “gay” and “straight” are focused on romantic attraction. Watch any mainstream film or show with gay or lesbian characters in it: it's always about the romance, never the sex. Fact follows fiction— or at least, people's beliefs about it do.
  • And some, my friend, have been seduced or raped at a young age— or just tried it and didn't like it. In your world, even these men are perpetually “bisexual,” because of the one experience?
So, why does it matter? ..Why get hung up on definitions and labels? Because our partners deserve to know the truth about our sexuality.
Agreed, about the need for communication. But a person's sexually is far better communicated through their experience than through a few pat labels.
 
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