Fuck or get fucked?

I cling to the idea that the men do the fucking and we girls get fucked.
This thread is very heteronormative so far. I agree with you in spirit: the one doing the penetrating is the one doing the fucking. If I insert my hard penis in someone, I'm doing the fucking. If some guy (or my ex with a strap on) puts their cock up my ass, I'm getting fucked.

That said, I've noticed both both on Lit and other places that more and more women use the two terms interchangably
 
No surprise that most of the women who replied like "getting fucked." I don't view that as submissive, although sometimes it is, but rather as receptive. Fucking is (usually) an active verb, and we men are the ones doing most of the work. I saw a fun cartoon, one girl fucking another with a strap-on, and saying, "This takes a lot of energy. I wonder how guys do it?" Well, I'm a tall 160 pounds of solid muscle. That's how.

My favorite position is a variation on missionary, where she is on her back on the edge of my high bed and I'm standing on the floor. I love seeing my cock easing in, to see her tits bounce or play with them, to see the smile on her face, or the pleasure as she cums and cums, and that "freshly fucked look" after I cum deep in her, with my cock still fairly hard inside. Most women like this a lot, and like watching. Mirrors can add to the fun.

Check out my stories, such as this on The Female Orgasm: https://www.literotica.com/s/the-female-orgasm
 
I saw a fun cartoon, one girl fucking another with a strap-on, and saying, "This takes a lot of energy. I wonder how guys do it?"
I don't think it's rude or sexist to say that Nature, at least, has contrived to make penetration desirable to both sexes for the sole purpose of getting the male to ejaculate as often as he can.

I love, love, love the female orgasm, chase it at every opportunity and always will, but if I am being honest, logic dictates that mine is essential, hers admirable.

And "receptive" is the best word, though it hasn't acquired any of the naughty patina "submissive" has, and it really ought to. It fits better with the description so many women have shared: That a good sexual encounter is usually a congress of equals, and even if it ends with one party postorgasmic it's good still for her if it's him. (Consider the shitstorm that blows up if he cannot or simply does not come!)

Many are the times I wasn't in need of getting off myself, but I wanted my lover to. Usually (not always!) she was game and appreciative, but it always seemed she was left out-of-sorts if she didn't get an opportunity to reciprocate.

Anyway, at the risk of droning on, I remember many years ago reading a first-person journalism piece about a woman trying a strap-on with a willing girlfriend. Her conclusion was twofold: That she would ever after have more sympathy for the effort men made for her and that there was an odd, psychic "responsibility" she felt, as the active partner, for her friend's pleasure. Not the frenzied "make her come" desire, waaaaaay more subtle (and complex) than that.
 
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Both, i like to be on top so move my hips just the right way back and forth side to side and bounce to ride a guy but also like on my back and just FUCKED and rocked hard as well
Ohhhh damn YES PLEASE🔥🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍😍
 
Both, i like to be on top so move my hips just the right way back and forth side to side and bounce to ride a guy but also like on my back and just FUCKED and rocked hard as well
I love the way you think young lady 😘
 
Both, i like to be on top so move my hips just the right way back and forth side to side and bounce to ride a guy but also like on my back and just FUCKED and rocked hard as well
Perfect way to fuck. Love the way a woman rocks her hips. Especially with my hands on her hips or her breasts
 
I see fucking as being a type of sex where there's more emphasis on thrusting and less on touching, caressing, kissing etc. Where the line is I'm unsure but getting fucked feels a lot different to having sex. Your concentrating more on the feeling downstairs rather than it being a whole body experience.
 
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