Gangbangs from a woman's perspective

It was a fun evening. Not romantic. Just simple sex and pleasure to be enjoyed.
I’ve followed you (admission) and know your hubby is on board with you playing. Curious how you put that event together. Your idea? Girlfriends? A regular fuck buddy? What’s that conversation like…and the anticipation before? What did you share with hubby? Sorry, very curious
 
I second that on DP. Years ago, my buddy Doug and I had a threesome with a woman we worked with named Lara. Doug had a huge crush on her, and she liked him back, but was in a sexless marriage, and MFM was a bucket list fantasy for her.

Anyway, after a few rounds of sucking and fucking, I asked her about DP. She said she didn't like anal, but admitted she would regret not trying both holes at the same time. I sat on the edge of the bed, and she sat I'm my lap guiding my cock up her lubed ass, with lots of cursing and groaning. When she got to the bottom, she put her feet up on my knees, and invited Doug to fuck her pussy. He started easy, but it wasn't long before she wanted harder and faster. After she started to cum, she couldn't string words together anymore, lots of cursing and trembling, then just guttural moans as we continued to fuck her. Although we finished on our sides in bed, to this day she only remembers doing the position we started in, then regaining her senses on the bed some time after Doug and I had both pulled out. She said she definitely wanted to do that again, not anytime soon, but definitely again.
 
I’ve followed you (admission) and know your hubby is on board with you playing. Curious how you put that event together. Your idea? Girlfriends? A regular fuck buddy? What’s that conversation like…and the anticipation before? What did you share with hubby? Sorry, very curious
Actually it was my friend Jan's idea to put the group together. Understand that she has been a swinger for over 20 years and has attended or hosted numerous parties. We already had 3 men available who had been part of previous parties and one of those guys knew a couple of guys that he thought would be good for the group. My husband was part of the process all along. The concept was to have a small group the would focus on group play a couple of times a month and then some one on one time between sessions.
 
Actually it was my friend Jan's idea to put the group together. Understand that she has been a swinger for over 20 years and has attended or hosted numerous parties. We already had 3 men available who had been part of previous parties and one of those guys knew a couple of guys that he thought would be good for the group. My husband was part of the process all along. The concept was to have a small group the would focus on group play a couple of times a month and then some one on one time between sessions.
I’m envious
 
It usually works best when a woman, or a few women arrange things. Like with my experience, Lara used to come hang out with Doug and I after work, and Doug was pining for her something terrible, and she would gripe about being frustrated. We had been in that rut for a couple months until I told her that I would be willing to tag team her with Doug. He was so pissed that I blurted it out like that. Two weeks later, she found me at work, and asked if my offer was still on the table. I said sure. The next week, we all got the same day off. I booked the hotel, and it was a sweaty, tangled afternoon into evening.

My wife isn't into gangbangs. She likes finding other ladies for her/us. Married women are usually less complicated than single women. The only exceptions are when the husband doesn't know his wife is joining us, or the hubby that cries, "but that's not fair" because my wife won't agree to a full swap. His wife's consent does NOT obligate my wife to consent. My wife & I have discussed our terms at length, and I am comfortable letting her work things out with the other woman. I notice that puts the other woman more at ease as well.
 
I have a gang bang fantasy, actually several. I would like to be the fuck slut for a group of guys. Filling my holes over and over again, cum leaking out, chocking on cock and cum.
Also, being the fuck slut for a group of girls with strap ons. Fem doms useing me and laughing at me and my predicement.
I guess I want to be used, I am obviously a bottom.
 
Actually it was my friend Jan's idea to put the group together. Understand that she has been a swinger for over 20 years and has attended or hosted numerous parties. We already had 3 men available who had been part of previous parties and one of those guys knew a couple of guys that he thought would be good for the group. My husband was part of the process all along. The concept was to have a small group the would focus on group play a couple of times a month and then some one on one time between sessions.
I have found that the simple reality is that most women have the capacity to please more than one man. Even when I am with a man that I consider to be an excellent lover, there are times that I could keep going well past his capacity. I think it has always been that way, but that difference in capacity becomes greater as we age. So having multiple men in a causal setting can address that craving to be fucked until I am truly sated. Typically it isn't a high intensity gang bang type scene - it is too distracting to try to handle a bunch of cocks all at one. I prefer more of an extended session taking on men one or two at a time. I have one lover who arranges weekends with me and multiple men. It isn't all sex all the time but more of a social vacation with frequent sexual diversions. It takes men with the right mindset, but if you can find them it is amazing. I love being the centre of attention and my commitment is that they will all have their needs fully met.
 
I’ve always thought of it like a massage but there’s several men (which I am very fine with) and best of all, they’re massaging my insides along with my outsides. The combination of their hands, mouths and cocks weirdly makes me feel insulated and loved. 🥰
Savanna I think you deserve a thorough massage
 
I have found that the simple reality is that most women have the capacity to please more than one man. Even when I am with a man that I consider to be an excellent lover, there are times that I could keep going well past his capacity. I think it has always been that way, but that difference in capacity becomes greater as we age. So having multiple men in a causal setting can address that craving to be fucked until I am truly sated. Typically it isn't a high intensity gang bang type scene - it is too distracting to try to handle a bunch of cocks all at one. I prefer more of an extended session taking on men one or two at a time. I have one lover who arranges weekends with me and multiple men. It isn't all sex all the time but more of a social vacation with frequent sexual diversions. It takes men with the right mindset, but if you can find them it is amazing. I love being the centre of attention and my commitment is that they will all have their needs fully met.
I have not really tried a high intensity gangbang. Ours was more of a train. I do agree that 1 or 2 guys at a time is preferable. Your arranged weekends sound like fun. Our group has not done a weekend yet but that may be something to consider. I think once you get into it, a woman can easily enjoy a number of men. I have done 5 in a row with ease and quite enjoyed each of them. Not sure I would want too many more but I could probably handle another one or two. I think the key to keeping the men interested is to make sure that they all get their needs met. I usually get with one or two of the men during the week for my own pleasure but also to keep their engaged in the group.
 
I have found that the simple reality is that most women have the capacity to please more than one man. Even when I am with a man that I consider to be an excellent lover, there are times that I could keep going well past his capacity. I think it has always been that way, but that difference in capacity becomes greater as we age. So having multiple men in a causal setting can address that craving to be fucked until I am truly sated. Typically it isn't a high intensity gang bang type scene - it is too distracting to try to handle a bunch of cocks all at one. I prefer more of an extended session taking on men one or two at a time. I have one lover who arranges weekends with me and multiple men. It isn't all sex all the time but more of a social vacation with frequent sexual diversions. It takes men with the right mindset, but if you can find them it is amazing. I love being the centre of attention and my commitment is that they will all have their needs fully met.
Love this attitude, and the way you present it.
 
I’ve never been in one or any threesome. But I did use to have a strong fantasy of being in a room of guys and being the center of attention and them taking turns with me. Maybe like college and my early 20s. Not sure how it would actually go in real life and is probably best left as a fantasy lol. But the idea sounds interesting and erotic
 
I’ve never been in one or any threesome. But I did use to have a strong fantasy of being in a room of guys and being the center of attention and them taking turns with me. Maybe like college and my early 20s. Not sure how it would actually go in real life and is probably best left as a fantasy lol. But the idea sounds interesting and erotic
Don't forget about it entirely. Never know when and opportunity might arise. I was in my 60's before I got to try some of these things.
 
As a male who has been fortunate enough to have participated in two gang-bangs, with 2 separate women, I'd love to read how women have reacted to their encounters. However, I've seen threads like this before and even in a liberated and safe community/environment like Lit I've found that women are reluctant to admit to a fantasy about being subject of a gang-bang let alone recount their experience of actually participating in one.
Hopefully this time a few more will be encouraged to open up, so to speak.
I think you should tell us how those two women felt and if they enjoyed it.

I’m interested to know.
 
I think you should tell us how those two women felt and if they enjoyed it.

I’m interested to know.
OK, this will be fairly brief.
The first one I answered a personal advert in an adult contact magazine from a couple who were looking to find a dozen guys for a gangbang. They were experienced swingers but she had never been with more than two guys at the same time. I was lucky enough to be selected from about 120 replies they received. They hired a motel room, gave us all a date and time and the dozen guys showed up. The husband explained the ground rules, he was going to video tape the whole event. She selected one guy to go first, one on one, and after he finished we could all join them on the bed. So there were a dozen guys surrounding this woman lying on her back on the bed and we slowly rotated around her as we all took turns. She was sucking cock and stroking dicks, all the while there was a guy fucking her. She seemed to be in constant orgasm. She seemed to be enjoying herself immensely. I only ever saw them that one time.
The second one was when a women who was a friend with benefits asked me if I would like to go to an adult party weekend with her. Basically the intention was that a group of couples who were prepared to pay $100 could get together for an adult party. We signed up and were led to believe there would be a half dozen couples and a handful of single guys. We turned up and found that we were the only couple and that a group of hookers that they hired to come for the weekend let the organizers down and there were about 8 single guys there. Anyway, long story short we went off to our bunk room as a couple and started fucking. One of the guys came in and watched us perform. Once I finished he very shyly and politely asked if he could fuck my friend. She said yes so he started fucking her, then a couple of other guys came in and they got the others so there were all of them around the couple, cocks out and stroking, watching them screw. When he finished the next guy mounted her and a train was formed. They all took turns, some went around two or three times. My friend loved it, she had been in gangbangs before, although this was my first with her, and she always thought the more the merrier. She was absolutely buzzing the next day. Most of the guys took off after the gangbang but about 3 stayed the night and fucked her again in the morning, That was individually though, not a train. We left before lunch time on the second day.
 
I have not really tried a high intensity gangbang. Ours was more of a train. I do agree that 1 or 2 guys at a time is preferable. Your arranged weekends sound like fun. Our group has not done a weekend yet but that may be something to consider. I think once you get into it, a woman can easily enjoy a number of men. I have done 5 in a row with ease and quite enjoyed each of them. Not sure I would want too many more but I could probably handle another one or two. I think the key to keeping the men interested is to make sure that they all get their needs met. I usually get with one or two of the men during the week for my own pleasure but also to keep their engaged in the group.

I don't really know what my limit is in terms of how many men I can handle. I've never really hit that point and have done several (although eventually a girl has to sleep). The key is pacing and taking my time to enjoy them with reasonable breaks and a generally casual and fun social interaction environment. I've done several at once - high intensity - and found it was less enjoyable. There is just too much to focus on such that it all becomes a bit too distracting. I am not really enjoying the cock in my pussy if I am busy trying to jerk off two guys and suck a cock and I am not really doing a good job of it anyway. There is perhaps a psychological intensity that appeals, but the physical is less appealing than one or two at a time.
 
For the longest time, I didn't understand the appeal of having more than two men at once. I have always loved threesomes, but it seems like anything more that with almost be like a waste. Those thoughts all changed when I got pregnant. My hormones were going crazy and I was hornier than I had ever been. I started watching a lot of gangbang porn and at one point I made a comment to my husband that I would love to be one of those women. That was enough for him to begin planning a gangbang for me. About 4 weeks later, I was a hotel suite with eight guys surrounding me. It was one of the most lewd, exciting, and satisfying experiences I've ever had. I ended up having two more gangbangs in the coming months at my request and have enjoyed them ever since.

As far as the ideal size and type? I don't really have one. I've enjoyed ones where I am completely overwhelmed with cock and I'm just there to be used and tossed around, and I've also enjoyed ones that are a lot smaller in scale and more focused on me and my pleasure. It's great to have a variety.
 
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