Get a guy at a bar

[CelticBadboy]

I tend to agree. If your going to a bar, you're definitely going to find some random dude I'm sure will bang you, but if you're already shy and nervous wouldn't you rather find a more long term partner, then you can have sex regularly without having to go scout someone out all the time. Plus the lack of STDs etc. Goes way down.

Solid thinking, but occasionally women do just want a quick fling, and a bar is a great place to find it. You can find a guy who looks good and rings your bell without any real substance behind him. I've been that guy and I get it.

As far as STDs go, it goes without saying protection should always be used for these kinds of encounters.

 

[Sweet_Cupcake]

Pick one out, make eye contact, look down while giving half smile, as if you both just shared a private joke. His wheels start spinning, he is curious what you were thinking. Works almost every time.

I think this is good advice. Also, dress nicely, but not trashy (too much skin) and don't overdo make-up. Natural and approachable. Smiles are good. Chatting up the bartender in a friendly way. And, don't drink too much.