girl going to a strip club

I'm in Canada and I'm pretty sure the dancers here get paid very well since the smallest denomination in paper currency here are $5 bills.
 
I've heard some strip clubs don't allow women in particularly not women on their own. I've also have female friends mention having a fairly awkward time with some of the clients assuming they must work there. Maybe look up reviews first to get an idea.
 
my wife has been a few times. she goes with a girl friend. women in a strip club seem to be a novelty but the dancers really enjoy performing for them and give them a lot of special attention. and here in ontario the dancers are allowed to be totally nude. that may change of course

I love totally nude places. The g-string is never any fun. Glad you let your wife do that ,
 
As a former dancer and someone who still frequents clubs from time to time, I offer my advice to any woman who may be interested in going to a "gentleman's club":

- The best advice I can give a newcomer: research clubs in your area before going. Don't just "drop in". I say this because first impressions make a big impact. There are a lot of great clubs, but there are some duds too. If you Google the club's name and don't find a website or at least a Facebook page, chances are you don't want to go there anyway. This is also a good way to figure out if a club is couples/ladies friendly, if they have a dress code, if they have anything special about them like feature shows, amateur nights, or costume parties for certain holidays. Summoning the courage to go to club is stressful enough without having to walk away from the experience disappointed. Trust me, I've been there.

- Don't be nervous! Girls in strip clubs are treated with respect and courtesy and dancers want to make them feel comfortable. Dancers are always happy to accommodate them regardless of their own sexual orientation. This isn't because all strippers are gay/bi-sexual, but because when people are having a good time, they spend more money. Guys seeing a girl getting a lap dance from a dancer gets them riled up -- and when guys get riled up, they get dumber with their wallets. ;)

- Your mileage will vary depending on where you live. Laws for adult oriented businesses are regulated at a state level. Therefore, some states are stricter than others. States like Ohio, Michigan, Texas, and Kentucky are among the strictest while Pennsylvania, Illinois, Nevada, and Maryland tend to be the most lenient. Some states have no touching, some states have no alcohol, some states require pasties, some states don't care. If you are unsure of the laws, look up a club in your state that has a FAQ section or email. They are usually more than happy to answer your questions. Also, just because a state has a law, doesn't mean everyone follows them.

- Etiquette: There are a few simple things you can do to make a dancer's night easier. First of all, if a girl asks you for a dance the absolute worst thing you can say is "maybe later". If you have no interest, just say so. You won't hurt their feelings and they will appreciate you not wasting their time when they come back to you again and again. Be honest! If you are unsure, simply say, "I'm unsure because (insert reason here)". They will be MUCH more understanding and may help you decide. Another simple thing: avoid clothing with open zippers, large buttons, or other rough surfaces like jackets. Those things scratch and hurt when grinding bare skin against it. If you are sitting near the main stage DO NOT "turkey neck". What is turkey necking? This is when a person sitting by the stage leans forward in their chair and prop their elbows on the stage itself. One, it makes you look like a chump. Two, you're not going to get a better view. Three, it's possible you can get kicked in the face if a girl is spinning on the pole. Just don't do it!

- Above all else, treat dancers like you would like to be treated. They are performers and entertainers who's objective is to sell you a fantasy. They are not there to fulfill your sexual desires. Things can get very heated at times, especially in VIP rooms, but don't go into it expecting "more" to happen. Sometimes they happen naturally, other times not. Dancers are only human, after all.

Definitely worth reposting!
 
I'm in Canada and I'm pretty sure the dancers here get paid very well since the smallest denomination in paper currency here are $5 bills.

Hubby told me he went to a strip club in Canada (Rimouski, Quebec to be specific) and in the VIP room the stripper encouraged him to touch her bare pussy. He had an *explosively* good time with that although all I could think about when he told me is if he doused his hand with alcohol afterwards! Definitely different rules there or at least one dancer who had weak boundaries.
 
I haven't been lately, obvious reasons I hope, but I do remember seeing women there. Seeing them as a couple, a small group and occasionally a single. In every instance, the women were accepted. They were treated as paying customers and given a great amount of special attention. Almost always the women had their panties off and enjoying themselves, beautiful to see !!
 
Hubby told me he went to a strip club in Canada (Rimouski, Quebec to be specific) and in the VIP room the stripper encouraged him to touch her bare pussy. He had an *explosively* good time with that although all I could think about when he told me is if he doused his hand with alcohol afterwards! Definitely different rules there or at least one dancer who had weak boundaries.

He was in Quebec, there are no boundaries!! Here in Ontario the 'dancers' are almost totally nude but they had to wear an article of clothing. doesn't have to be big, could be a cutoff t-shirt and no g-strings required.
 
First of all, I'm not a lesbian, I guess I could be classified as Bisexual, though I have to say, heterosexual is my first preference. Mr. T and I recently had a little romantic getaway, and on Saturday night, as an early birthday present, he took me to a strip club. It was about a 45 minutes drive from where we were staying.
I was a bit nervous about going there, didn't know what to wear, but in the end..lol..I could have worn pretty much anything, as long as I didn't look like I was trying to look like one of the dancers. I have never been to a strip club, can you believe it! Mr. T couldn't believe I'd never been in one.
We walked in, to a sparse crowd, which surprised me, because it is a well known club in the area, but we got there kinda early, I guess for "club time". I was immediately struck by the number of cute, young women walking around with barely anything on, as well as a couple BIG breasted (and big all over) women sitting at the bar, looking all cozy with a couple guys, with their boobs practically spilling out onto the bar surface (turned out they were dancers). We ordered drinks at the bar, which weren't nearly as expensive as I had been led to believe. Smart bartender gave us change in all one dollar bills.
As we sat there, and Mr T explained to me about how things worked there, a cute, young woman came up to us...Clad in a bikini bottom, and some straps (couldn't really call it a bra) around her pert breasts, she leaned in, asked me if I minded if she said hello to both of us, and then proceeded to gyrate and quietly talk to us (lol, well mostly to Mr. T). She was "working" the bar, so she didn't stay long.
I tried not to look or act shocked or surprised, but it was hard. As she wound down her "visit", Mr. T grabbed some one dollar bills, rolled them up, and held them between his lips and leaned forward, pressing them in between her breasts, as she pushed them forward and pressed them together.
My first encounter with a stripper...oops, "exotic dancer". Lol
After a couple of drinks, we noticed that other customers were trickling in, so we decided to move to a table very near the side of the raised stage. The stage was raised, near the opposite end of the room from the bar, with a floor to ceiling pole In the center, with room for seating all around it...in some places there were just a row of chairs...in other areas there were small tables, all within a couple feet of the stage.
We brought our drinks over, and settled in at the table, and as we were sitting, the entertainment on the stage began. The girls seemed surprisingly (to me, anyway) talented and able to work the pole, as well as being able to work the crowd. Quick stageside lap dances, lots of body teasing, including rubbing their boobs in the faces of some of the guys sitting stageside all resulted in lots of dollar bills being tossed onstage, and stuffed in to g strings, cleavages, and bags that each gal had hanging on stage.
We sat there with our drinks, watching and quietly talking. After we'd been there for a while, a couple of young girls came up to us..turns out they were sisters. They talked to us, danced and gave us some attention..one gal rubbed her boobs on my face, and told me I could touch if I wanted. They seemed to have a pretty much "keep-your-hands off" policy when I saw them with some of the guys around the stage, so as Mr.T said, "you should feel special that they said you could touch".
Within the hour, they came back to our table, and told me not to go anywhere, as they had plans for me.
Turns out Mr. T had paid for a VIP (private room) "lapdance" with both of them at the same time as a special birthday gift for me. That was pretty cool..2 cute young girls, and me in a little room. They gyrated all over me... Squeezed my boobs, invited me to suck on theirs, just "no fingers in the pussy", they warned. We laughed and talked a little bit...it was fun!
I did get some looks from some of the guys in the bar/club as I walked out of the little VIP room, and across the room to the table where Mr T sat waiting for me. He had a big grin on his face, and asked how it was. He could tell from the expression on my face that I had enjoyed it...a lot!
We got back to the house late, both of us hornier than two peckered billygoats, and had a night of great sex, and bonding.
 
I can't wait until the pandemic is really over and it isn't risky to go to strip clubs. I hope they are still open.

Strippers, the forgotten victims of the pandemic...
 
I can't wait until the pandemic is really over and it isn't risky to go to strip clubs. I hope they are still open.

Strippers, the forgotten victims of the pandemic...

I just read this whole thread, and your story about your first time to a strip club several years ago was fantastic! Your husband with his lingerie under his clothes and the "wet" spot when he emerged from the VIP room, and the dancer who grinded against your hand while you masturbated...WOW! What an incredible experience. I can't wait for COVID to end too, just so I can read your stories! Thanks for sharing!
 
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I have been to strip clubs with other women as a part of party night. I have been with my husband. And, I have danced on amateur night. I was a terrible striper/dancer but it was a huge turn on to strip in front of a room full of strangers. I think that some of the guys appreciated that I was a true amateur and that I was sooo embarassed.
 
I have been to strip clubs with other women as a part of party night. I have been with my husband. And, I have danced on amateur night. I was a terrible striper/dancer but it was a huge turn on to strip in front of a room full of strangers. I think that some of the guys appreciated that I was a true amateur and that I was sooo embarassed.

That must have been a thrill to slowly reveal your body to a large audience. It sounds like they enjoyed it. Are you sure that they were all strangers?
 
Vaccinated. Now can I push my hubby to take me to the strip club? He can just drop me off, that's fine. ;)
 
The laws in our state are weird. If the women get nude, the club can't serve alcohol but can let you haul in all you want. Strippers can touch you, but you more or less have to be passive.

We're getting old now, but many years ago Ms Bottom was curious and we went to a total nudity club in a big city a couple of times. The first time, we were both stone cold sober, and it was really fun showing her how to hold a bill in your teeth and let the stripper wrap her tits or ass cheeks around your face and slowly pull the bill away. She really got into flirting with and tipping the dancers who were receptive, and later in the night one of them pulled up Ms Bottom's T shirt and sucked her tits (Ms Bottom is a curvy woman and never wears a bra). There had to be 100+ people watching. Just before closing time, 2 of the ladies thanked us for letting them have a little fun and for being respectful.

We got back to our rural place after 4 AM, and played until almost 7 before falling asleep. We were both charged to the max.

When we woke up around noon, Ms Bottom told me she had no idea that she would become part of the show, and also said she had touched another woman's tits for the first time - with her face! We went back a few weeks later, and Ms bottom got her titties sucked again and had 2 good lap dances.

She's never taken the plunge to be intimate with a woman, but she did get to explore the fantasy a bit.
 
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