Girls IMing While Masterbating ?

[bcbigbadwolf]

I love to IM while I masturbate. It is one of the most erotic and sexual things I can think of doing. Knowing that my words or voice can make a beautiful woman squirm in her chair and soak her panties is such a huge turn on. I would love to chat with some Lit woman out there and see where we lead each other

 

[irishmarie45]

I think IM'ing is very sexy!

Marie

 

[jlss35]

I think I have become addicted to IMing while I masturbate. Its my new favourite way to cum. Any one out there looking for a play mate? PM me!

same, i absolutely love it. did it this morning and hope to this evening... PM me

 

[carlos69]

anyone need a hand or want to chat?

 

[sugra]

I have been checking out sites where you are randomly paired with people online to chat. It is interesting, for sure.

What I am wondering, and I am hoping that this thread will help, is how to get the conversation started.

I enjoy erotic chatting, its quite a lot of fun. But, I am unsure of the Rules of Engagement. The issue is really just that it is hard to tell what someone is looking for and then the careful navigation of the conversation starts, which can be odd.

Any suggestions?

 

[Mr. Show]

This thread should be shot out of a cannon for misspelling 'masturbating'.

 

[amy1969]

Just did it tonight. I thought I'd never cum. I tried for almost two hours. That's why you should never give up.

2 hours !!

 

[malstroem]

I like to IM when masturbating but I prefer PMs

 

[Happy__Guy]

2 hours !!

Hey, it's all about commitment!

 

[amy1969]

I have been checking out sites where you are randomly paired with people online to chat. It is interesting, for sure.

What I am wondering, and I am hoping that this thread will help, is how to get the conversation started.

I enjoy erotic chatting, its quite a lot of fun. But, I am unsure of the Rules of Engagement. The issue is really just that it is hard to tell what someone is looking for and then the careful navigation of the conversation starts, which can be odd.

Any suggestions?

Perhaps make some postings on a thread , quoting someone you may have an interest in - see if you get a follow up post in a similar vein.. and go from there. Yes, Rules of Engagement can be open- just be honest-- sometimes it works out very nice-- other times , well, NOT..
you can usually tell if someone is being honest..

 

[randy123]

I like to IM when masturbating but I prefer PMs

Why PMs? For me, IMing is so much more immediate... and if things start to get hot and heavy, the delay between sending and receiving PMs can feel pretty long...

Just curious...

 

[malstroem]

Why PMs? For me, IMing is so much more immediate... and if things start to get hot and heavy, the delay between sending and receiving PMs can feel pretty long...

Just curious...

I love the delay. IMing is so demanding and I'm always multitasking. And I get asked to IM like 10 times a day, if I said yes to everybody I'd never have the time to actually get to Lit before getting hijacked by IMs (and I'm too stupid to single out the right people, it's easier just to say no to all)

 

[shewantsmore]

I have done yes,i masturbate quite often and it is fun while IMing

 

[TwilightPrince]

It's so strange that I haven't done this in years. I absolutely love sharing my fantasies while masturbating.

 

[bcbigbadwolf]

I love the delay. IMing is so demanding and I'm always multitasking. And I get asked to IM like 10 times a day, if I said yes to everybody I'd never have the time to actually get to Lit before getting hijacked by IMs (and I'm too stupid to single out the right people, it's easier just to say no to all)

I know what you mean about IMing being demanding but if you find that right person it is so much more intense than PMs. You have that quick response and the detail. Knowing that that other person is right on the other side waiting for your response as they pleasure themselves to your words at that very second. I love to IM while I masturbate. I think also when you find a good partner every time gets more and more intimate and raw.

 

[malstroem]

I know what you mean about IMing being demanding but if you find that right person it is so much more intense than PMs. You have that quick response and the detail. Knowing that that other person is right on the other side waiting for your response as they pleasure themselves to your words at that very second. I love to IM while I masturbate. I think also when you find a good partner every time gets more and more intimate and raw.

That's all true but sometimes the details is getting lost. At least they are for me. I feel like I have to reply so fast that the language changes into porn instead of the erotic descriptions that I adore. It is a quick and hot way to get off but it doesn't stimulate my mind as much.

 

[Happy__Guy]

That's all true but sometimes the details is getting lost. At least they are for me. I feel like I have to reply so fast that the language changes into porn instead of the erotic descriptions that I adore. It is a quick and hot way to get off but it doesn't stimulate my mind as much.

Yeah, you have to make it a lengthy conversation for it to work. And none of that "I'm running my tongue down your thigh" bullshit.

I mean, no you're not! Trust me, I'd know if there was a tongue running down my thigh. I'm sitting at my desk typing on IM. No tongues involved. I'm certain of it!

Now if you wanted to tell me how you're hot and bothered and what you're doing about it....that's different. At least it's real.

Of course since both typing and masturbation heavily rely on fingers, just pick up the damn phone!

 

[malstroem]

Yeah, you have to make it a lengthy conversation for it to work. And none of that "I'm running my tongue down your thigh" bullshit.

I mean, no you're not! Trust me, I'd know if there was a tongue running down my thigh. I'm sitting at my desk typing on IM. No tongues involved. I'm certain of it!

Now if you wanted to tell me how you're hot and bothered and what you're doing about it....that's different. At least it's real.

Of course since both typing and masturbation heavily rely on fingers, just pick up the damn phone!

If it's detailed enough, I actually like the "I'm running my tongue down your thigh" thingy. Then it's as a fantasy instead of masturbation. But when people write "I fuck you hard", nothing more nothing less, I'd much rather just watch some porn.
After the first 10 IMs I'm out of things to say regarding masturbation.
There's of course a third way that can be cool too, "If I was there, I'd love to...." That's like a compromise between the two

Some of us can multitask and write with one hand while the other is busy (like right now)

 

[Happy__Guy]

Some of us can multitask and write with one hand while the other is busy (like right now)

Well judging by this thread you get a good deal of practice...

 

[malstroem]

Well judging by this thread you get a good deal of practice...

You should judge based on the "currently masturbating" thread instead, that's afterall a place where I always type one handed

 

[ForeDP]

have done it cam to cam with my girlfriend but if I do it with someone else I would only prefer them to be on cam. So far havent found to many takers on that.

 

[malstroem]

Disclaimer:
Just because I love dirty PMs doesn't mean I'll be friendly to strangers who expect me to spend my time getting them off.
At least use an original pitch and make it a bit more personal. I'm not here to supply porn.

 

[mellowyellows]

If it's detailed enough, I actually like the "I'm running my tongue down your thigh" thingy. Then it's as a fantasy instead of masturbation. But when people write "I fuck you hard", nothing more nothing less, I'd much rather just watch some porn.
After the first 10 IMs I'm out of things to say regarding masturbation.
There's of course a third way that can be cool too, "If I was there, I'd love to...." That's like a compromise between the two

Some of us can multitask and write with one hand while the other is busy (like right now)

True...and I hate when its one sided.....men get stuck with most of the work....lol

 

[randy123]

True...and I hate when its one sided.....men get stuck with most of the work....lol

I get that feeling, too, sometimes. But sometimes I'm totally in the mood to type and let her read and play, commenting if she wants, telling me how she feels.

 

[Wyld52771]

True...and I hate when its one sided.....men get stuck with most of the work....lol

*laughs*

Typically true, in my experiences, too...although it IS nice when you occasionally find that woman that doesn't fit the norm, and is more vocal and descriptive. It's a very big turn on. Haven't found that for awhile, though....typical responses I get are "Mmmmmm" or "Ohhhh", because I'm doing all the typing.

*chuckles*

I get what malstroem is saying, though. Any man can say "I'm fucking you hard" or "I'm eating your pussy"...and any woman can say, "I'm sucking your cock" or "I'm riding your dick". Know my typical response in that situation would be, "And?"

If there is no elaboration or detail to what you're typing, it just shows a lack of creativity. Being creative and using a bit of description is what makes it enjoyable....kind of like painting an image in their mind through your words that can get them aroused. As for myself, I enjoy the idea that I can get a woman off by using my words to make their imaginations go wild, and I like it when it's mutual and the woman shares that same attitude.


~Wyld