Guys, how long do you last?

[SweetJen1970]

How long

Oops! Hub can last About 20 minutes the first time longer the 2nd and 3rd

 

[Eyereadtoo]

An ex once asked me, "I'm not gonna have 4 or 5 in me every night; can't you cum faster than that?" after about a little more than an hour when I finally climaxed. For some reason it seems it just takes me quite some time to finish, always has. Maybe there's a psychological reason for it, I dunno.

 

[more_snow_plz]

I can go for a while, not be choice really. I have to focus really hard on something in order to get there, otherwise I'm just pumping endlessly until she either starts reading a book or I wear out. It's gotten better lately . . . I'm around 30 minutes usually.

 

[Elixxxher]

I can go for a while, not be choice really. I have to focus really hard on something in order to get there, otherwise I'm just pumping endlessly until she either starts reading a book or I wear out. It's gotten better lately . . . I'm around 30 minutes usually.

Man, your not doing it right then buddy. I'm a bit of a mixed bag. Recently I've been get longer if we're more frequent, but if we don't do it a while, like while she's on her period, then it's pretty quick the first time back. Like to keep it hard by doing her a bit, then she sucks me and plays teasingly for a while and we also like to do each other at the same time, but not always the same position. By taking a break for a few minutes at a time I can go on for an hour or so, but it's not all just banging away at her until she falls asleep or something stupid like I've heard other dudes experience. Sex is fun and you should do a few different positions and take turns driving each other crazy with pleasure before you cum. She regularly cums about 4 times before I do.

 

[Sheana_V]

I'm curious...

Do you guys tend to cum faster during one night stands?

Because I've found one night stands are more frequently disappointingly quick.

 

[Litoname]

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[Sheana_V]

It depends on the build up before hand. If there is a lot of flirty and teasing than that might cause it. But that also makes it so the second time happens quicker.

Well, that might explain it since I do lots of teasing...

 

[Litoname]

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[GBPFan1975]

I'd have to say it all depends on many different factors.

Have I cum recently
Have I been drinking
Sex position
Oral sex vs. vaginal vs. anal sex
First time cumming vs. 2nd time cumming and 3rd time cumming
Was there a lot of foreplay
Was there a lot of teasing earlier
How wet/warm her pussy is

To be honest, there have been times where I have cum very quickly after sexual penetration. Hence the reason why I love to give oral sex until she has cum over and over and over and over and over again, sometimes bringing her to the point of orgasm before I penetrate. I want to make she gets gets satisfied before I get satisfied. The saving grace factor to that is, is that I can maintain an erection and cum a second time and sometimes a possible third time. The second time and third time last much longer.

If I have been drinking, I've also been known to last much longer with the first orgasm. If I have recently cum, that will also help with the delay of the first orgasm.

For some reason sexual positions also play a role into how long I can last. I don't cum that fast from oral sex and being in the bottom position with her riding me. If I am on top in the missionary position, I have a little better control over things, but tend to cum faster than when I am on the bottom. In the doggie style position (my favorite) I tend to cum fastest and if there if any time when I'm taking much longer than she wants to go, then if she has me go to the doggie style position it is a go to position to get me to cum faster. That position also helps me cum a second and possible third time. Now with anal sex, that is almost an instant cum because of the excitement build-up, tightness and the infrequency of actually getting to have anal sex.

So as you can see, there are a few different factors that go into how long I will last before my first orgasm.

 

[lukewarmaussie]

Im the same. I could cum within a minute if I wanted to but I try to out ride that initial wave and then I can go at least another 10-20 minutes. It would be very selfish of me to pull the 2 stroke manoeuvre even though 95% of the time I stay hard after cumming. A lot has to do with position and mind control I believe

 

[MrRetro]

I'm curious...

Do you guys tend to cum faster during one night stands?

Because I've found one night stands are more frequently disappointingly quick.

In my experience, I tend to come much faster when I have a connection with the woman...

 

[tkinsc]

I'm curious...

Do you guys tend to cum faster during one night stands?

Because I've found one night stands are more frequently disappointingly quick.

I think the first time with any woman is quicker. Probably due to the excitement of it being new and different, although nerves could cause it to last longer.

 

[Aabeowulf]

Depends... sober - 20-25 min. After a few drinks - hours

 

[DirkPitt06]

My record to date is 5 hours. On the average, about 1 and a half to 2.

 

[Mulnik82]

Depends how long do you want me to last?

 

[ilovetoeat42]

So I'm kind of an anomaly. I cum quick, like barely make it in quick...but I stay hard after I cum so there really isn't a refractory period.

 

[muycurioso]

matters on a few things

how hot she is! how into it she is. Have I been drinking or taking drugs. How long since last orgasm.

 

[boomer177]

An earlier poster said it depended on how long you wanted it to last. So, apart from "as long as possible," how long might that be?

 

[asp81]

So this one time I was on top of a friend of mine going fast and furious and she was grinding her hips into me. I was getting close so I told her to slow down but she wouldn't and just kept milking my cock with her very tight pussy until I just lost it. Didn't last very long but oh so hot!

 

[boomer177]

An ex once asked me, "I'm not gonna have 4 or 5 in me every night; can't you cum faster than that?" after about a little more than an hour when I finally climaxed. For some reason it seems it just takes me quite some time to finish, always has. Maybe there's a psychological reason for it, I dunno.

That’s quite a role reversal, Eyereadtoo. All too frequently one hears of fellow males, primarily concerned with getting themselves off, who lay such insensitive, not to mention counterproductive, crap onto their female partners but not often of an experience like yours. You should have made her your ex right on the spot!

That said, if you have never had yourself thoroughly checked out medically as to this, do it. And, if it is psychological, deal with it. We only have one go-round or so I hear.

 

[vidiman]

I'm curious...

Do you guys tend to cum faster during one night stands?

Because I've found one night stands are more frequently disappointingly quick.

I suppose the 'urgency' of a one night stand will speed things up - but second or third time around it should last a little longer (surely)

I think the answer all depends upon the urgency and the desire - if I had the vision of your avatar in front of me - I think it may be quicker (creeps!)

 

[jakereeder22]

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[yellowrocket]

All depends on how tight she clamps down. Cause if she starts early, it's all done. She's capable of milking it right out of me with out any other motion. Makes for a great feeling, but I'll be damned if I haven't learned there can be too much of a good thing. How long it's been since the last one makes all the difference in the world. Over a week, I'm making sure she gets hers first. We already did that day? I'll last as long as she wants me to.