Guys, what do you like best about sex with a man?

[tallyguy]

easy answer

Straight Sex:
Anal? Eww!
Oral? Maybe.
3 Way? No way.

Gay Sex:
Anal? YES!
Oral? YES!
3 Way? YES!

 

[UnderMyKilt]

Straight Sex:
Anal? Eww!
Oral? Maybe.
3 Way? No way.

Gay Sex:
Anal? YES!
Oral? YES!
3 Way? YES!

Clear, concise, and to the point !! Sheer genius....!

 

[Astroman72]

"Or something more in the process...you don't have to buy him dinner and a movie, or promise to call him again."

While it's not exactly the specifics mentioned here, since all these things can be a part of meeting and continuing with someone, it's certainly what's implied; an attitude, I suppose, and most importantly, that it's shared by both men.

For me and many of the men I've talked to over the years, when we're discussing the differences between male-to-male relations, as opposed to male-female, we almost all agree that the most wonderful, liberating, and wonderfully liberating aspect of it all is the overall lack of complication; the relative simplicity of the arrangement or relationship, which of course translates into a huge reduction in stress levels for both.

And of course there's generally an inverse relationship between stress levels and the quality of the experience. Less stress means far better sex on every level.

Sure, if there's someone whose company you enjoy, then why not enjoy a couple of drinks, dinner and a movie, or any or all of those, along with some playtime? The big and beautiful difference is, with perhaps the majority of male relationships, whatever the level, that there's no requirement or expectation for any of that, either implied or inferred. There's none of that strange and often undecipherable subtext needlessly complicating your lives, whether by accident or design (that's an argument for another time). Unless of course one of you is doing his best to imitate female behavior, but that's not at all my bag, so it's never a problem in my experience.

With most males, especially bi-males, it's essentially about the sex, whatever form it takes, and anything else is ancillary. Generally speaking, as with so many other things with males, this need not even be stated. It's just a given for both of you, so you simply don't angst over it and it therefore doesn't rate a lot of unnecessary discussion. There's playtime, and then you go your respective ways until next time - if there's to be one. If not, well no harm / no foul.

And that's one of the things I most enjoy about male-male sex; the straight-ahead nature of it. And so that needs to be there for me, right from the jump. Now we can talk about all the delicious variations in the playtime itself....

Yep, that's definitely a factor in my gay sex urges. I've had a few bad sexual experiences with women early in the relationship, because I love women TOO much. I've never dated a lot and am not wired for casual sex with women, and usually by the time sex comes around with a woman I'm dating, I'm REALLY into them emotionally--then there's stress and pressure and anxiety for me about where the relationship is going, and what they want, and what I want.

But with my gay sex fantasies, it's just pure, blissful physical pleasure without even the possibility of emotional complications.

(Of course, that's also why I could never really have a romantic gay relationship, but that's a different subject.)

 

[klippert]

"Or something more in the process...you don't have to buy him dinner and a movie, or promise to call him again."

While it's not exactly the specifics mentioned here, since all these things can be a part of meeting and continuing with someone, it's certainly what's implied; an attitude, I suppose, and most importantly, that it's shared by both men.

For me and many of the men I've talked to over the years, when we're discussing the differences between male-to-male relations, as opposed to male-female, we almost all agree that the most wonderful, liberating, and wonderfully liberating aspect of it all is the overall lack of complication; the relative simplicity of the arrangement or relationship, which of course translates into a huge reduction in stress levels for both.

And of course there's generally an inverse relationship between stress levels and the quality of the experience. Less stress means far better sex on every level.

Sure, if there's someone whose company you enjoy, then why not enjoy a couple of drinks, dinner and a movie, or any or all of those, along with some playtime? The big and beautiful difference is, with perhaps the majority of male relationships, whatever the level, that there's no requirement or expectation for any of that, either implied or inferred. There's none of that strange and often undecipherable subtext needlessly complicating your lives, whether by accident or design (that's an argument for another time). Unless of course one of you is doing his best to imitate female behavior, but that's not at all my bag, so it's never a problem in my experience.

With most males, especially bi-males, it's essentially about the sex, whatever form it takes, and anything else is ancillary. Generally speaking, as with so many other things with males, this need not even be stated. It's just a given for both of you, so you simply don't angst over it and it therefore doesn't rate a lot of unnecessary discussion. There's playtime, and then you go your respective ways until next time - if there's to be one. If not, well no harm / no foul.

And that's one of the things I most enjoy about male-male sex; the straight-ahead nature of it. And so that needs to be there for me, right from the jump. Now we can talk about all the delicious variations in the playtime itself....

Nailed it...."and then you go your respective ways until next time - if there's to be one. If not, well no harm / no foul."
To put it in a Nut Shell....it was all about getting off. Pull out cum on his face or in his mouth. then leave

 

[Hitchiker69]

I like that I have a nude man in my bedroom, and it's totally OK to look at him. Unlike sneaking a look in the locker room, I can stare at his cock as long as I like, and he will appreciate the attention. He may even show off.

 

[suckonsimon]

Receiving oral. Oh yes.

Decades of sex in marriage and my good woman has spent delicious hours sucking me and worshipping my package … gently. I have adored her for it, and a superb lead-in for the main course of fucking her.

But man on man, with a fellow who presents himself as a Cocksucker:

Gentle beginning, knowing that he's gonna work it work it until his lips are pressed into my pubes. Knowing that when he's in the zone he'll want energy and drive from me, gripping his head and forcing him onto me, his slaver spattering out everywhere. A break from it while I slap his cheeks and smear his face before … the Skull-Fucking that builds in me a great Roar of release and I pump, pump pump down his throat.

Oh yeah. Masculine on Masculine oral. Addicted.

 

[PanDandy]

Receiving oral. Oh yes.

Decades of sex in marriage and my good woman has spent delicious hours sucking me and worshipping my package … gently. I have adored her for it, and a superb lead-in for the main course of fucking her.

But man on man, with a fellow who presents himself as a Cocksucker:

Gentle beginning, knowing that he's gonna work it work it until his lips are pressed into my pubes. Knowing that when he's in the zone he'll want energy and drive from me, gripping his head and forcing him onto me, his slaver spattering out everywhere. A break from it while I slap his cheeks and smear his face before … the Skull-Fucking that builds in me a great Roar of release and I pump, pump pump down his throat.

Oh yeah. Masculine on Masculine oral. Addicted.

That's hot.

 

[hex2112]

Guys just know how to please each other. Most guys I have blown have told me I'm better than most females. I take my time and do everything I can to please him. If he wants anything I am usually willing. I want them to talk dirty and tell me what to do. I just love licking and kissing a hard dick.

 

[Marty Fisher]

What do you like best about sex with a man?

Is it the way it feels when his soft knob first slips past your lips? When his shaft fills your mouth and probes the entrance to your throat?

You love the taste and smell of a musky cock?

Maybe you like to feel a muscled, hairy body in your arms?

You like to surrender to one man, then dominate the next one?

The way he just KNOWS EXACTLY how to suck you off?

Or something more in the process...you don't have to buy him dinner and a movie, or promise to call him again.

I like all that and more...how it feels to have his cock enter my ass, then plunge deep into me. I like that we can take turns fucking each other.

How when we're 69'ing it's almost like sucking myself.

How we can be gentle or not...kissing is an option, not a requirement.

I love that line ...when we're 69ing it's almost like sucking myself" - YES!!! That is exactly how I described my first cocksucking experience at a very early age! Not only did I love the feeling of his bigger cock between my lips, I love his big lips wrapped around my smaller cock and every time we sucked, it felt like I was sucking my own dick! Pure heaven!!!!

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[woman_inside]

-The sheer lust I feel for men's bodies.
-The comparative ease of no-strings sex, it's exciting.
-The fact that I could in principle not cooperate or even resist and could still get fucked.

 

[sunshine9]

-The sheer lust I feel for men's bodies.
-The comparative ease of no-strings sex, it's exciting.
-The fact that I could in principle not cooperate or even resist and could still get fucked.

What he said.

 

[Shavedallover]

Guys just know how to please each other. Most guys I have blown have told me I'm better than most females. I take my time and do everything I can to please him. If he wants anything I am usually willing. I want them to talk dirty and tell me what to do. I just love licking and kissing a hard dick.

Suck the cock, lick the balls and rim his ass..then fuck my face.

 

[yukonnights]

There's a lot said above that I can second. But on another level, with the right guy I can experience a true emotional connection. For me, this emotional connection ramps up any physical pleasures ten-fold. As has so often been said — the best sex in in the mind. To reach that place with another man is both rare and very powerful...to truly be intimate, to trust one another, to be able to cuddle, to kiss, to make love not sex... all of these are something that has to be experienced because a few words here cannot do it justice. But that deep raw intimacy is primal and feels so perfect and natural. It is a self confirming experience that validates the same-gender attractions we all have at varying degrees. In short; if my heart and mind is into it, our bodies are just instruments to be played.

 

[stargame]

There's a lot said above that I can second. But on another level, with the right guy I can experience a true emotional connection. For me, this emotional connection ramps up any physical pleasures ten-fold. As has so often been said — the best sex in in the mind. To reach that place with another man is both rare and very powerful...to truly be intimate, to trust one another, to be able to cuddle, to kiss, to make love not sex... all of these are something that has to be experienced because a few words here cannot do it justice. But that deep raw intimacy is primal and feels so perfect and natural. It is a self confirming experience that validates the same-gender attractions we all have at varying degrees. In short; if my heart and mind is into it, our bodies are just instruments to be played.

Beautifully said

 

[goodsonformom]

Being able to be vulnerable......

 

[rickdickerson]

Inexperienced

What do you like best about sex with a man?

Is it the way it feels when his soft knob first slips past your lips? When his shaft fills your mouth and probes the entrance to your throat?

You love the taste and smell of a musky cock?

Maybe you like to feel a muscled, hairy body in your arms?

You like to surrender to one man, then dominate the next one?

The way he just KNOWS EXACTLY how to suck you off?

Or something more in the process...you don't have to buy him dinner and a movie, or promise to call him again.

I like all that and more...how it feels to have his cock enter my ass, then plunge deep into me. I like that we can take turns fucking each other.

How when we're 69'ing it's almost like sucking myself.

How we can be gentle or not...kissing is an option, not a requirement.

I am inexperienced with Men, but everything you mentioned here is what I masturbate to regularly... except domination. I am submissive and crave to surrender to a Man.

 

[yukonnights]

Beautifully said

I think true deep intimacy is not for everyone, but for those who "get it" the experience can be really wonderful. I'm to the place that deep connection is a requirement and thus the casual kind of things just don't cut it. I'm glad you seem to understand this and chimed in with your kind comment ~

Also, as goodsonformom said; Feeling safe enough to be vulnerable is a wonderful thing. He didn't elaborate on what being vulnerable meant to him, but to me it is trusting someone enough to simply be honest, open and willing to let the real me come out and be seen. For me at least, this takes that 'deeper connection' built on trust.

But I have also come to understand that we are all unique in most every way. Thus, for some a casual thing in the bookstore booth is just the thing they need. It's not for me, but I can wrap my head around the fact it is what works for them.

 

[goodsonformom]

Beautifully said

That's what I love about you stargame......

 

[Lricky]

Guys just know how to please each other. Most guys I have blown have told me I'm better than most females. I take my time and do everything I can to please him. If he wants anything I am usually willing. I want them to talk dirty and tell me what to do. I just love licking and kissing a hard dick.

I am an older dude that has been a married cocksucker for many years. I just absolutely love the many different cocks that I have had to suck. I find most guys are average in size and I can handle with ease in my mouth. I find most all “hard cocks” are soft to touch and taste. I love to service a guy but not into dom or rough stuff. I like to be told that I am a cocksucker and a cumslut etc. if the guy and I make a connection then I don’t mind kissing and cuddling. I have had more guys the girls by a few. Never in a group only one at a time. I think I would like to try 2 guys at a time.

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

"try 2 guys at a time"

I am an older dude that has been a married cocksucker for many years. I just absolutely love the many different cocks that I have had to suck. I find most guys are average in size and I can handle with ease in my mouth. I find most all “hard cocks” are soft to touch and taste. I love to service a guy but not into dom or rough stuff. I like to be told that I am a cocksucker and a cumslut etc. if the guy and I make a connection then I don’t mind kissing and cuddling. I have had more guys the girls by a few. Never in a group only one at a time. I think I would like to try 2 guys at a time.

I too am a married (heterosexually) older guy. I have been Bi my entire life. I didn't allow it to "come out" until after I was retired. Now although I have have had less than a dozen men, I have enjoyed a married couple. We were all in the bed together one afternoon. They both had me... IT WAS AMAZING! They both sucked me, and me them. One had an average cock the size of mine, and the other was larger in girth and length. When we were finished I was so sated it was just fantastic. I would love for this to happen again. Maybe with mixed races... my ultimate dream fantasy.


Note: Men are such passionate kissers... I adore kissing men.

 

[rickdickerson]

I too am a married (heterosexually) older guy. I have been Bi my entire life. I didn't allow it to "come out" until after I was retired. Now although I have have had less than a dozen men, I have enjoyed a married couple. We were all in the bed together one afternoon. They both had me... IT WAS AMAZING! They both sucked me, and me them. One had an average cock the size of mine, and the other was larger in girth and length. When we were finished I was so sated it was just fantastic. I would love for this to happen again. Maybe with mixed races... my ultimate dream fantasy.


Note: Men are such passionate kissers... I adore kissing men.

That's very hot. I fantasize about deeply and passionately kissing Men while being fucked... Makes me very hard to think about. Very passionate... Yum...

 

[dacoach44]

Mmmmmmmmmm...

That's very hot. I fantasize about deeply and passionately kissing Men while being fucked... Makes me very hard to think about. Very passionate... Yum...

I am a gay bottom for a cute smart prof. He is the only man to ever fuck me. Outside its all 50/50, but in the bedroom I am the thirsty cocksucker and he is the macho cock. He is the one who has to get hard and fuck, and now on cardiac meds, I need Viagra to get hard. I am horny for cock, and we have a weekend next month.

 

[csdan69]

Sex with a man

Watching him undress, gently taking his cock in my hand and slowly stroking him.
dropping on my knees with his cock inches from my mouth pushing his hardening
Cock up against his belly and very slowly running the tip of my tongue from his
ball up the underside of his cock and slipping the head into my mouth. The first
taste as I start to suck him. And ultimately the taste of his cum as it rushes down
my throat. Sucking every drop of his cum and the feel of him going limp in my
mouth. All of this excites me so much I have been known to cum without ever
having my cock touched.

 

[M1das12]

For me its being completely submissive to their needs and desires. I love a much older man that is taller and chubby with lots of silver hair all over that just takes me and makes me his. I live to make sure he is pleased in anyway he desires even if that means i dont get to cum

 

[BBCfan]

Being that I'm just into cock in a more fetishistic way, the guy is secondary to that.
There is a brotherly understanding of male sexuality women just can't understand that creates an unspoken bond which is comforting.

The lead up to the encounter, anticipating what his cock will look like. The excitement of finally seeing it, and feeling it harden then throb in my hand.

The mental excitement of totally letting go into the role of being a hungry cocksucker. The unique mix of being able to revel in the understanding of oral pleasure from the male and female perspective.

When the reality unfolding meets or exceeds my fantasy the raw sexual thrill of penis envy and adoration of playing with a larger cock than mine. how thrilling it feels in my hands and mouth and the contrast of my white hand around the dark silky skin.

Being verbal and open in my appreciation of the cock, and getting verbal feedback and commentary of who I am in that moment.

Rarely did all those elements come together but when they did there was nothing more exciting. It's like sexual crack .