Guys who Get a Grip: let's talk COCKRINGS, steel, silicone, leather, all

[Bigspurt]

The issue you raise is at the heart of how critical it is to find the exact right size, I'd say. Yeah for me personally, 48mm does it: Very pleasant hold when flaccid; minor arousals through the day have longer consequence; The grip during full erection is severe and yet always extremely pleasant how ever long the sex session; the magic of enhanced girth and solidity right up into the glans is awesome for me and for her; as to ejaculation, for me spurting is indeed reduced and it's more a flow-release and it takes longer, but I am ok with that at my age. A critical factor of having the right size is that post ejaculation a guy remains comfortable; a too tight ring will suddenly after ejaculation become extremely uncomfortable, whereas the right size I find means that I can really enjoy [as can she] a prolonged period of post-ejac heft and sturdiness, in complete comfort.

Just remembering a time and I'd turned 60 when solo, lying on my back, ring on, I still managed to spat one of my nipples so I guess that counts as "spurting"!

Same for me. 48mm is about 1 7/8 inch and the non stretch silicone "O" rings I use are that size. If I want a bit more pressure, I'll use 2 or 3 at once. I also have a heavy steel ring. 2" ID and it is heavy. It works just as well.

 

[ChuckWolf]

In one of my future stories, the protagonist is subjected to force-field cock-rings that constantly vibrate and coax him to the edge of orgasm and then constrict and prevent him from cumming at the last moment. One of the scenes is in my sig.

 

[Rivvie]

As a woman that appreciates both the beauty of a well adorned cock and the effects they have... kudos for sharing.

King Rings- simply stunning. If I ever have another husband or long term partner... I think I may go for a non traditional wedding ring

 

[Smoothshavendad]

As a woman that appreciates both the beauty of a well adorned cock and the effects they have... kudos for sharing.

King Rings- simply stunning. If I ever have another husband or long term partner... I think I may go for a non traditional wedding ring

That’s just sexy as hell, Robbie.

 

[ScottKing]

King Rings- simply stunning. If I ever have another husband or long term partner... I think I may go for a non traditional wedding ring

I love how you think Rivvie! There are already lucky men who have received my rings for Anniversaries and Birthdays. For a long time now, in my head, I have had photo ideas for a white gowned bride on one knee with a giant ring box in front of her groom. That will be an expensive shoot.

"Gifts for Grooms" is a market I would love to break into but (sadly) women online are typically hyper-sensitized to anything penis related being pushed upon them. I haven't given up on the idea, of course, and you a definitely encouraging me!

Have a great day Rivvie!

 

[Rivvie]

I love how you think Rivvie! There are already lucky men who have received my rings for Anniversaries and Birthdays. For a long time now, in my head, I have had photo ideas for a white gowned bride on one knee with a giant ring box in front of her groom. That will be an expensive shoot.

"Gifts for Grooms" is a market I would love to break into but (sadly) women online are typically hyper-sensitized to anything penis related being pushed upon them. I haven't given up on the idea, of course, and you a definitely encouraging me!

Have a great day Rivvie!

I mean... I still have my old wedding dress

 

[newengland07]

Question for the group I am new to cockrings and am enjoying it very much I have only used a silicone ring...has anyone ever had a silicone ring that stretched out and thus my balls or cock would slip out not all the time just sometimes

 

[ericandshannon]

Question

 

[ScottKing]

Question for the group I am new to cockrings and am enjoying it very much I have only used a silicone ring...has anyone ever had a silicone ring that stretched out and thus my balls or cock would slip out not all the time just sometimes

"Stretched out" ... like it lost some of it's elastic quality? If so, you likely got an inferior or defective ring. If you are slipping out of any ring then it is likely too large or too damaged.

 

[ScottKing]

So if you have a large scrotum and used a ring that went around both one your package swells how do you get it off?

If you stretched the ring to get it on then you can simply stretch the ring to get it off.

If it is a rigid (i.e. metal) ring then you will need to wait for arousal and erection to wane. If a metal ring is tight enough to prevent loss of erection then you made a poor decision to put on an improper size. Call for help within 30 minutes.

 

[suckonsimon]

Good news and now

Several of us visiting the thread, me included, have been awed by the craftsmanship and beauty of the King Rings which have been discussed in recent posts. Scott, responsible for these artworks, great to have you onboard on this thread! Anyway guys and gals, there's a promo of King Rings just launched and you take a good look like I am folks! Go to it here: enjoy!
I keep changing which is my favourite. But as a whisky lover and a black-at-my-package fiend, I keep looking at this one.

 

[suckonsimon]

So if you have a large scrotum and used a ring that went around both one your package swells how do you get it off?

Worth adding to Scott's wise words: Learning the art of fitting and removing a rigid cockring takes a while for most of us but is worth doing! Putting it on it's first off some scrotum sack, then one ball, then more sack, then the other ball, then your flaccid penis. Taking off it's first your flaccid penis to be 'folded' out of the ring, then you pop out first one ball and then the other.

 

[suckonsimon]

Sleeping with Steel?

After quite a long break from doing this I am back to keeping a steel ring on through the night. I find if it's one of my slightly more generous internal diameter rings, with nice curvy internal edges, it's altogether pleasant as I wake once or twice nice and bigged up, and then wake in the morning with full glory.

Health warning here! Not with a squeezing silicone ring! Not with a tighter size ring!

That said, other guys doing all-night wear?

 

[Bigspurt]

2" ID Steel, but not all night. 1 7/8 silicone ring or rings depending, but also not all night.

Has any one tried the C-Sling?

https://www.bettystoybox.com/products/c-sling-cock-ring-and-sling-by-tantus

 

[Bigspurt]

Question for the group I am new to cockrings and am enjoying it very much I have only used a silicone ring...has anyone ever had a silicone ring that stretched out and thus my balls or cock would slip out not all the time just sometimes

The silicone rings that I have are "Industrial O rings" and do not stretch at all

 

[newengland07]

I don’t know if it stretched but it feels sometimes looser. I put the next size down and it wasn’t uncomfortable. Might look at another brand or something

 

[Armyvet23]

I read that you shouldn't wear a cock ring for more than 20 minutes at the most. How do you guys wear it all day for a bulge without doing damage?

 

[suckonsimon]

I don’t know if it stretched but it feels sometimes looser. I put the next size down and it wasn’t uncomfortable. Might look at another brand or something

Mate my experience with several silicone rings at the pricey end of the market even is that they do eventually stretch out to some degree. If you want to be absolutely sure that you won't get a ball slip out while you're flaccid, I'd recommend you take the plunge and learn how to size and fit on [and take off!] a solid ring whether steel of whatever. That way the internal diameter is precisely the same years later so you know exactly what you've got.

 

[suckonsimon]

I read that you shouldn't wear a cock ring for more than 20 minutes at the most. How do you guys wear it all day for a bulge without doing damage?

Rings designed for around the shaft only need to come off like you say mate. Rings made of stretchy silicone which have a really good grip to give a total max to you when erect also need to come off like you say mate.

One of the many beautiful things about fixed diameter rings such as steel, designed to hold out balls as well as cock, is that given the right size in terms of each man's correct 'internal diameter' for his ring, is that it gives the magic when you're aroused in terms of an enhanced erection, but also when flaccid or semi there is just no problem at all wearing it for long periods.

 

[ScottKing]

I read that you shouldn't wear a cock ring for more than 20 minutes at the most. How do you guys wear it all day for a bulge without doing damage?

This is a valid rule of thumb but lacks the context to be meaningful. It is true, you should avoid going over 20 minutes when fully engorged with blood flow restricted. Silicone, rubber, metal, whatever ... more than 20 minutes of restricted blood flow can lead to damage.

Stretchable rings have a tourniquet type effect, creating some pressure when you are flaccid and even more pressure when erect. As you try to lose the erection they shrink back to their original size and may continue to restrict blood flow.

Rigid (i.e. metal) rings properly sized exert no outside pressure of their own. The only restrictive constraint is driven by enlargement of erectile tissue pushing outward against the ring. This offers a gentle erectile boost but does not force an erection. As arousal wanes, erectile tissues soften naturally, the ring does not constrict in the process, and blood escapes readily. Blood flow remains unrestricted until arousal returns.

Key to general misconceptions about cock rings (I believe) is that they are assumed to force an erection. The good ones don't and I have no interest in wearing one that does. I do like to wear my metal rings all day though.

 

[Armyvet23]

Ok, I bought a package of 6 cock rings on Amazon, TCSR is the brand. They are rubber and they don't seem to help much, I think I need more stretchy smaller ones.
any advice? Does wearing them around your balls and penis help more? I am all new to these, I need to use them to maintain an erection.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[suckonsimon]

Ok, I bought a package of 6 cock rings on Amazon, TCSR is the brand. They are rubber and they don't seem to help much, I think I need more stretchy smaller ones.
any advice? Does wearing them around your balls and penis help more? I am all new to these, I need to use them to maintain an erection.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Hey Armyvet I don't know those rings nor do I know the degree of ed you are living with but I'll try and offer something.

I believe that for most guys wearing a ring around his whole package, that is behind his balls and over the base of his shaft, is the best erection enhancement. A ring on just the shaft can be so uncomfortable that erection is lost by distraction!

I'm not so keen on "more stretchy smaller ones" as you want to avoid an uncomfortable restriction going on. slightly larger and no stretch at all, ie steel, is what I find most effective.

A ring alone will not sort erectile dysfunction. I suggest it can be a really useful tool along with the other stuff: healthy lifestyle, reduction of anxiety, and either medication or herbal supplement regime as appropriate. In a word, a cockring will enhance the erection which you achieve by other means, it will not 'give' you one.

I hope this might give you some pointers as to where to go with this pal. Best to you. Simon

 

[badonkadoku]

Ok, I bought a package of 6 cock rings on Amazon, TCSR is the brand. They are rubber and they don't seem to help much, I think I need more stretchy smaller ones.
any advice? Does wearing them around your balls and penis help more? I am all new to these, I need to use them to maintain an erection.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Rubber & silicone pull pubes, OUCH.
But yes, around the full package. Commit to hard metal, preferably steel (just because of the satisfying extra heft.) If you have a Home Depot or Lowe's nearby, you can browse the hardware aisle & get a package of 2" inner diameter rings. I started out wearing 3 or 4 at once. Then I got lucky & found an amazingly generous friend who offloaded his extras (actual factual cock rings) to me, but I expect this would be a rarity for most men.
2" begins to do the trick, but the next size down they sold in that product line (NOT intended for the purpose we're talking about) was only 1.5" and that was TOO small for the whole package -- could only get 1 testicle through.

 

[Bigspurt]

Rubber & silicone pull pubes, OUCH.
But yes, around the full package. Commit to hard metal, preferably steel (just because of the satisfying extra heft.) If you have a Home Depot or Lowe's nearby, you can browse the hardware aisle & get a package of 2" inner diameter rings. I started out wearing 3 or 4 at once. Then I got lucky & found an amazingly generous friend who offloaded his extras (actual factual cock rings) to me, but I expect this would be a rarity for most men.
2" begins to do the trick, but the next size down they sold in that product line (NOT intended for the purpose we're talking about) was only 1.5" and that was TOO small for the whole package -- could only get 1 testicle through.

I started with 1 7/8 ID non stretch silicone "O" rings. Yes one does pull a pube or two but that's not a big deal for me. I discovered a 2" ID steel ring in my garage and it works well also. I plan to buy a C_Sling soon to see if the back side really works on the perineum. They are 1 7/8 ID and according to the listing, have some stretch.
Yes getting the "Boys" through is a challenge, especially the second one. I think 1 3/4 would be too small.

 

[Bigspurt]

Just to add a comment:

"A ring alone will not sort erectile dysfunction. I suggest it can be a really useful tool along with the other stuff: healthy lifestyle, reduction of anxiety, and either medication or herbal supplement regime as appropriate. In a word, a cockring will enhance the erection which you achieve by other means, it will not 'give' you one."

My rings are "loose" when I'm flaccid and only tighten up when maybe 3/4 hard. I know what too hard feels like and that kinda scares me.