Guys who have bottomed

[OceanviewFtLaud]

My first time..

I always thought that it would hurt, that it was a pleasure for the top guy. When I was so turned on with a guy who wanted me, I let him because playing with a dildo in my ass felt good. After the initial entry, which was ok, it felt so good. I wanted it again......

 

[jackstud]

Getting naked after a day skiing or hiking chatting about what makes you horny and getting a hard cock in youre paints is a great thing , Taking a hot shower together and soaping up his cock and ass and sticking a finger up his ass or getting one up yours and sucking cock and leading up to getting youre ass bent over the bed all lubed up and slowly sliding it into youre ass while chating about how good it is going in realy slow ..It makes a great evening to go out after for social play talking about the next one

Your my kinda guy

 

[SuperSissy]

As a sissy, the submission to a man is a huge part of the act. That is mental, and can be achieved both with oral or anal. But anal brings physical pleasure that oral does not! Topping does not, of course, bring the submission. Also, anal is safer with strangers. So...yeah, I bottom as much as possible.

 

[hex2112]

The first time I tried it in my teens I was hooked. Just giving myself to another is such a turn-on. From that time on I have been a total sub. My panties just complete me.

 

[oxfordsea]

Not Yet

I have not, but I'd never say I would not. I don't know exactly what the right situation would be, but I'd bottom for a buddy.

 

[KeithD]

My first (and second and third--all in one long session) time was by an Indian doctor who had something on hand to take most of the edge off the pain. Otherwise I think it would have been painful, and I'm sure even more painful if he had been thick rather than just long.

 

[sunshine9]

My first (and second and third--all in one long session) time was by an Indian doctor who had something on hand to take most of the edge off the pain. Otherwise I think it would have been painful, and I'm sure even more painful if he had been thick rather than just long.

Tell us about your Indian Doctor.

 

[meflash]

my first experience with receiving anal was 7 years ago. I was exploring my Bi feeling after my long time marriage ended. I set up a home massage thru a CL add. He showed up on time and with his oils and after paying for an hour massage we went to the bedroom and I undressed and laid face down as he got his thing together and I saw he also got naked. He oiled my body up and was massaging me from top to my feet and each time at my neck his cock was just an inch from my face. then the next pass it touched my lips. I was so horny from the massage I opened my mouth to let his cock in. Now by focus was sucking his cock which got rock hard. He pulled out and got between my legs and the massage with on my butt now. He caressed my balls and probed my hole and felt the cool lube being used now not the massage oil and soon his cock was pressing on my hole. I pushed back like i did with my toys to get them to slid in easier and then his cock fully entered me. It was wonderful and I was so surprised how easy he went in and fucked me for about 30 minutes. Just as he was about to cum he asked if he should pull out and I told to finish in me, and I was filled with his cum.
After this experience I have been fucked many time but only if I,m cross dressed. This has made my submissive feeling grow so much I just love it!!

 

[tomtom80]

From bottom to top

In my experience, it is the younger guys who seek out and begin their gay adventure as bottoms to older men. Inexperienced guys tend to be submissive and they want their sexual desires satisfied by an experienced older gay man. There comes a time, eventually, when that youthful bloom begins to fade, and the younger guy then draws upon his experience and becomes a top himself. An experienced top can penetrate his partner in a relaxed and knowing way, causing a minimum of discomfort. This results in the bottom returning for more, and a regular relationship developes for as long as it satisfies the two partners. Then, the wheel turns, and new partnerships are formed, unless a deep affection occurs, when a permanent partnership results. I have always preferred the thrill of casual meetings as being capable of renewing the intensity of excitement that gay men seek in pleasuring others.

 

[KeithD]

Tell us about your Indian Doctor.

Quite a few aspects of:

https://www.amazon.com/Indian-Docto...895449&sr=1-1&keywords=habu+the+indian+doctor

Or, even closer, this, changing the Egyptian to Indian because at the time I didn't want to admit that the first had been an Indian.


https://www.literotica.com/s/egyptian-initiation

 

[bimori]

My first experience was in my teens I was at a friends house and we had been playing with each other’s cocks I came from his hand job. He told me to lay on my stomach. I felt his cock rubbing my ass his cock head pushing to the opening of my ass. It felt so good. He went and got some Vaseline and put it on his cock head. He slowing push his cock into my ass. It hurt so bad but felt so good. He pumped my ass for a few minutes until I felt his cum filling my ass. It felt so good. After this night I was hooked on cocks. He was also the first guy that I gave a blowjob to and let cum in my mouth. Mmmmm. You know how quick you can recover when your young.

 

[jackstud]

Quite a few aspects of:

https://www.amazon.com/Indian-Docto...895449&sr=1-1&keywords=habu+the+indian+doctor

Or, even closer, this, changing the Egyptian to Indian because at the time I didn't want to admit that the first had been an Indian.


https://www.literotica.com/s/egyptian-initiation

very hot start for you Keith, nice story

 

[none2_none2]

In my experience, it is the younger guys who seek out and begin their gay adventure as bottoms to older men. Inexperienced guys tend to be submissive and they want their sexual desires satisfied by an experienced older gay man. There comes a time, eventually, when that youthful bloom begins to fade, and the younger guy then draws upon his experience and becomes a top himself. An experienced top can penetrate his partner in a relaxed and knowing way, causing a minimum of discomfort. This results in the bottom returning for more, and a regular relationship developes for as long as it satisfies the two partners. Then, the wheel turns, and new partnerships are formed, unless a deep affection occurs, when a permanent partnership results. I have always preferred the thrill of casual meetings as being capable of renewing the intensity of excitement that gay men seek in pleasuring others.

In my experience, young guys run the gamut. I myself bottomed when I first got started. However, it had absolutely nothing to do with being submissive or some youthful bloom before the fade. Rather I was absolutely naive and gullible. I fantasized about masculine, hairy, muscular guy's asses way before I was legal. I didn't act on it because I didn't know how, and I was afraid that such an adult would beat the crap out of me if I came on to the wrong guy. In hindsight, I'm also glad I didn't because I wanted an older man's love -- not some old guy's fetish for young meat. I wanted him to want me for who I was. So my first fuck wasn't until I was 23, but it was the first time I realized just how wonderful m2m sex/love could be. I'm forever thankful for that older man who let me get my feet wet. I took to fucking like a duckling takes to water. (Before him when I tried to fuck, these older guys I was with would say only the hung can be tops, or that I was too much for them to take -- yea right. Over time I realized just how average my equipment was. They just simply took advantage of my naivete.)

Likewise, a younger man can become a good top if he cares about the the man he is fucking, and listens to all his signals -- breathing, moans, eyes, muscle tension, etc. Actually, I think the best bottoms are older guys. They have enough experience to know how to slow down a top who is too overly ambitious to race for the finish line. Except for perhaps not being as limber as a younger bottom, they can make a fucking encounter into a night to remember. They have also learned more about the importance of being clean over the years. Also as men get older we simply deal with aches and pains better than a younger man. It is simply part of life's experience.

I hate what aging has done to my top skills. For one thing, I have ED. When I was younger (as true for most young men), ED was no problem. I could also go for seconds and thirds without much recovery time. Also if a bottom loves cum, I produced plenty of it, and I shot pretty far -- though I'm sure most bottoms may not be able to tell that unless they have their younger top pull out just prior to orgasm. Another advantage to fucking an older man is that it always seemed like an extreme act of love on the behalf of the older man -- kind of like experiencing protecting the inexperienced under their wing by putting them where they are most protected -- inside of them.

I also have another embarrassing thing to deal with as an aging top. I've not been able to find anything about this online, but I seriously think my prostate has gone to hell. I j/o since I cannot stay hard to get inside my better half, so I J/O to have an orgasm. Since I had my near death experience with West Nile a couple of months ago, every time I j/o my ejaculation is the color of urine, and splatters all over like someone spraying urine all over the place. I feel the orgasm, but what comes out looks gross like urine. I know some like water sports, but that is NOT what I'm shooting for (no pun intended). It is bad enough that I cannot stay hard to fuck, but now if I could, I would feel so ashamed if I ended up pissing in side my wonderful man. I see a urologist tomorrow afternoon. I'm scared to death that he is homophobic, but I have to bring this up as it could be something serious I would think.

What I would do to be a young top again. They have everything going for them: Erections, volumes & pressurized cum to no end, and a driving need to be lovingly inside a daddy figure. Older bottoms are the closest thing to angels on earth.

 

[JayGardner]

N2N2, Good luck with the visit to your doctor. Best thing to do. Find out & take whatever action is necessary. I'm getting older & softer too. Not the best feeling when you think that you are losing your mojo. Let us know how you make out.

 

[Dkskier]

Similar to a few responses on here, I waited, and longed to bottom for the right cock. Fingers, toys, butt plugs, scratched the surface, and prepared me for the desired connection. A nice meal, an upscale casino room, a feminine appearing transitioning male who loved to top all set the tone. To say it was life altering when her dick sank deeply in my eager hole. The expression of lust, and contentment on his face. Her hair draped over both our faces. Her tender kiss. Her dick burried to her balls, filling me completely. His pace quickening, building, using my ass for his pleasure. And, ultimately, his climax. Muscles contracting, cock swelling, face contorting. Her seed planted deep inside my stretched hole. The intimate after glow!
The next day, unexpectedly, I'm sitting alone in my room. It dawn's on me. After all the women I have been blessed to have sex with, going all the way back to my teen years.I now was feeling something most felt (I would hope), in the after glow of having sex with me. I wondered if I was truly good for him. If he would want me again. Should I call him, or play it cool. The dynamic had flipped. DAM RIGHT I WANTED MORE!!!!

 

[getntwoknowme]

my first experience with receiving anal was 7 years ago. I was exploring my Bi feeling after my long time marriage ended. I set up a home massage thru a CL add. He showed up on time and with his oils and after paying for an hour massage we went to the bedroom and I undressed and laid face down as he got his thing together and I saw he also got naked. He oiled my body up and was massaging me from top to my feet and each time at my neck his cock was just an inch from my face. then the next pass it touched my lips. I was so horny from the massage I opened my mouth to let his cock in. Now by focus was sucking his cock which got rock hard. He pulled out and got between my legs and the massage with on my butt now. He caressed my balls and probed my hole and felt the cool lube being used now not the massage oil and soon his cock was pressing on my hole. I pushed back like i did with my toys to get them to slid in easier and then his cock fully entered me. It was wonderful and I was so surprised how easy he went in and fucked me for about 30 minutes. Just as he was about to cum he asked if he should pull out and I told to finish in me, and I was filled with his cum.
After this experience I have been fucked many time but only if I,m cross dressed. This has made my submissive feeling grow so much I just love it!!

Sooo HOT....mmmmm

 

[SteveBrad1]

I have read quite a few stories about a guy getting penetrated for the first time and him loving the feeling so much that he cannot wait to do it again.
My question is for those who have bottomed, is it really like that? Once you have had a cock in you do you crave it more and more? Not ever having done it, although wanting to try, I can see where it might be like that.
But is it?
Just wanted to hear what others think.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Oh gawd yes!!!

I wasn't so great for me the first few times, but it got better. I relaxed. So did he really. I've only been with one guy. Gotta say I was lucky.

It's not just the stroking (altho that is great). I really loved a lot of the touching. Like just grabbing his waist in missionary. One of the best was when laying and he on top of me. I loved the feel of his weight on me. Just dominating. Pinning down while thrusting.

My favorite was riding him while he was sitting. I loved grabbing his shoulders and sliding my hands down his biceps. Even thrusting and moving and rubbing him while thrusting.


Did I mention missionary??? How I loved to grab his butt and almost sink my fingers into him. I miss him now. You're going to make me call him I want him now!!!..................

 

[2wayroad]

You have to get used to being penetrated and know how to be. I started with a life size dildo. After a few times using it, it starts to get easier. Years ago, I would use the dildo several times a day.

I got to the point where my ass would get wet and start dripping when I was anticipating it. I could take it without lube then if I wanted.

I have since slowed down and tightened up quite a bit. My ass dosn’t get wet anymore.

 

[partsecond]

You have to get used to being penetrated and know how to be. I started with a life size dildo. After a few times using it, it starts to get easier. Years ago, I would use the dildo several times a day.

I got to the point where my ass would get wet and start dripping when I was anticipating it. I could take it without lube then if I wanted.

I have since slowed down and tightened up quite a bit. My ass dosn’t get wet anymore.

I love a silicone lube.

No, you have to not only lube up for your man, but get a but plug and get ready for his arrival.

When he knocks, I open the door and say, I have had a butt plug in my ass for an hour.

 

[Underherthumb247365]

I’ve bottomed for a dominant wife before but nothing further. Start out slow! Lots of lube, over the course of a few years we have went to fingers to plugs to smaller generic looking dildos to life like dildos to a Mr Marcus and finally we are in to more novelty items like Bad Dragons, there lube is the best!!!! A lil cleaner doesn’t hurt either.

 

[Astroman72]

I have mixed feelings about anal.

I've never taken a real cock, but I've used realistic dildos since my early 20s, although fairly infrequently.

It just seems like the times that my body is totally feeling right and ready for anal play is pretty rare--maybe once very couple of months or so. And even then, it's often a disappointment.

But I have to say that the most powerful, earth-shattering orgasms I've had in my life came from riding a dildo--when everything is right, it really is fantastic, and I can only imagine that a real cock would be even better.

So yes, I totally get the appeal, but for me it's a once-in-a-great-while pleasure.

 

[sutherngent985]

I just recently turned 60 but am looking for a daddy, someone who will slowly, gently and lovingly take my virginity. I am so looking forward to it...I can imagine the feel of his cock sliding in and out of me then cumming inside me. God I was to go bareback but not sure how I can do that. If there is anyone who would like to chat about this or anything really, drop me a PM.

 

[bicuriousnc]

My First time

Well I just had my first time getting fucked this weekend after thinking I wanted to for years. And I'm like "Why did I wait so long???"

Yeah it hurt at first... but that's when I let him control the beginning. Once I got on top and controlled lowering myself onto him it was amazing. Then after riding him a while like that I let him get behind me and OMG... even better. We did it this way 5 times over 2 days. Started on top then once we were rolling he had whatever position he put me in

So I still love women but... the feeling of emptiness I felt after he was done and he slid out of me (even just to change positions) remains. I need him or something or hell anyone in me now... I'm hooked...

 

[Pkbnewbie16]

I bottomed for the first time about a month ago, and I loved it. My top was very gentle at first, but pounded me good and hard after I had relaxed. I will never forget feeling him get larger, tense up, then release inside of me! I cannot wait to do it again.

 

[sweettalk4u]

It’s in the training and the relationship. If your top has trained , is patient with you and cares about you the results can be so good that you will indeed not want it to stop.