Shanes_OralOrations
Really Really Experienced
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As a guy who successfully took my wife from "it seems gross to have a penis in my mouth," to a regular blowjob queen (oral is the centerpiece of all our sex now) who allows semi-regular facials I can give a few tips. No magic formula and might not work for everyone, but a few things that worked for me:
1- Patience. Took a few years to get there
2- Excellent non-sexual relationship- all the romantic and real life supportive husband stuff, not faked.
3- Prioritized her pleasure and orgasms in sex for years, making sure she really loved it and knew I would try lots of different things to see how they felt for her.
4- Slowly worked up to it step by step (facials were my goal from day 1) by asking her when we were both very turned on during sex if we could try something new (get her as turned on as possible, and bring it up then). Examples: Kiss my shaft, lick it, put it in your mouth, suck it for a while, bob your head while you do that, keep me in your mouth right up until I'm ready to cum. Can I spray your tits? Sorry I got some on your chin- was it okay? Okay if it happens again, maybe a bit more on your chin and cheeks?
5- Every time we got a bit closer to what I wanted I'd thank her profusely, express how good it felt/looked, how much it turned me on that she let me do that, offer crazy rewards as a thank-you, and some borderline desperation to do it again sometime. Examples: I can't believe how hot you look with my sperm on your chin- it's driving me crazy! Can I film this so I can watch it later because I find it so hot? I'm so lucky to be with you, I bet your friends would never do that for their husbands. (and you have to apologize for getting it in her hair or eyes, even though there's really no way to avoid it when your having a really good load. Eventually she got used to it as just part of the experience).
6- As we started doing facials from time to time, make flirty inside references to it afterwards, like a joke about her being sprayed, or rub a little whipped cream on her cheek and get all handsy at the sight. Bring it up from time to time like a sexy little secret that everyone around us has no idea about. She likes that sort of thing, so it played well with her.
7- At the same time this is going on, be finding out what things SHE likes best during sex, and do them just as often (or more often). We have at least 3-4 other things we do regularly because she loves them so much. I enjoy it too, but the frequency is for her.
I don't think it was manipulative cuz it was all genuine, but it was effective and slowly our sexual relationship involved to be very oral based (helps that she loves receiving too), and she's well aware that facials are my favorite thing, and provides them regularly as part of our general relationship of reciprocity as a couple. Seeing me so turned on by it helped too, and she grew to associate giving head and taking my sperm as very sexually fulfilling acts, and became more and more turned on at doing it for me. She's just as wet after giving me a BJ now as she is after getting one from me.
Good luck!
