handjob/ blowjob techniques

[portafilter249]

First tip --- always bring your energy and *get into it*. Guys know when you are just doing it to do it. It's not as fun. I've done it before by just going through the motions but it's not good that way. I love sucking cock so I am always into it with my energy and excitement.

My tip that I believe I have posted before is to FOCUS on the skin underneath the head. Every guy that I have sucked has went crazy for it. They want movement but I start with the tease under the head. There is alot of feeling in that area. I've had success. Then I'll stop and dip my head entirely down the cock and lick slowly all the way back up, down again and lick again in a different area. I do this until all the areas of the cock have been licked. The guy is like wanting more but they can chill because I've got a plan. I suck cock well. I take him in my mouth stop lick around the underneath of the head and then take him all the way deep. My goals is start riding up and down swirling underneath the head. My husband has told me it's perfection. A FWB has told me it's the best they have ever had. Another guy I know still remember college days when we fooled around when drinking. That description is for giving a regular blowjob.

If it gonna be rough play / getting mouth fucked it is so different because the control is switched. Above tip is ME giving the bj. Here is the guy fucking my mouth ( which I am also a fan of ). Best position (favorite of mine) is to let your head fall off the bed. Open and let them in. Gives them some access to your tits. Happy guy fucking a woman's face likely loves tits. I like them to slide deeply in my mouth to the not choking place and start riding it in and out. Use hands if he needs additional stimulus at the bottom of his cock ( based on size ) do as much or little with hands based on what he wants. This is *his* thing. If I'm getting my mouth fucked, my goal is to make sure it's the best possible for the guy.

Additionally, I recommend you swallow. Every time. Always. Unless they want it somewhere else but guys have always told me it feels the best nestled in my mouth. So I swallow. Always. Once I swallow and this is *important* clean his cock completely. Lick him completely until no cum is left and he's clean / ready to go back in boxers /clothes. It is a very appreciated thing. Some guys will kiss you after ( I mean, the cum is gone, you swallowed it) but some will not until you have some water (whatever)

These things work for me. I've always been complimented.

If this was a Jimmy Fallon lip sync battle I would say spartygir just killed it and "dropped the mic"!

 

[SexyAlison]

In my experience, men love a good loud "pop" technique. Where you're sucking him hard and then you quickly pop it out of your mouth, making a loud sound. Do it repeatedly and so many guys seem to love it.

 

[SueAnne443]

face fuck...

Face-Fucking, it's amazing. You basically let him control you and all you have to do is keep as still as possible and keep your mouth open, of course. So if he's sat on the bed and your in his lap just let him hold you head as tightly as he can with both his hands and then he just fucks you in the mouth. It feels like your going to choke a bit at first but once you get into a rhythm it's incredible. The key thing is to let him completely control you and not to move. If you've never tried it I seriously urge you too. It's def be your new favorite thing for sure!

Not a first date thing...

 

[SueAnne443]

hand jobs..

Are ok sometimes....

 

[Bigcoat]

Are great first date/ first shower experience, especially with a body wash lotion. Love the feel of cock, balls, and buns with slippery clean body lotion and warm water, a little finger tease to the anus...then rinse off and taste test to ensure all soap is gone..

Sueanne, forward I know, but may I take you dancing this Saturday night

 

[dacoach44]

Thanks, Sparty

If this was a Jimmy Fallon lip sync battle I would say spartygir just killed it and "dropped the mic"!

I have a date with Daddy manana. Will do his cock right.

 

[bone251]

For a hand job try using Ponds cold cream. It never gets sticky. It does slow really good. Tease and denial is fun for me and a slow hand job be so nice. With the ponds the difference between the tip and the shaft is more apparent. Somehow for me the shaft gets me close and the tip makes me want it. Spend two hours doing this keeping him within a few strokes of cumming............
There will be results when he blows.
I am a lucky guy.

 

[BiAsianGirl]

For oral:
Deep throating is definitely a skill to look into learning (especially if you have a narrow throat, and can't easily swallow even small pills, like me... it makes it that much better for him). The 69 position is good, however, if he's fairly straight and is thicker-than-average horizontally (or, you have a smaller mouth), I feel from the side is better- that way avoids the teeth a lot easier in case of a sudden withdraw.

If you're into piercings, seriously consider getting a tongue ring. While some guys don't respond to it, some do... and there's lots of little tricks you can do with it that can increase or change what he feels, such as urethra play (the elongated bar you wear when your tongue is initially swollen is really good for this!), biting against the bottom of the barbell to press it deep into his skin, 'double flicking' against the cleft in the crown of his head, and so on.

Learn to manipulate your tongue into different shapes. While some scientists say "it's a genetic thing", I honestly don't believe that, as I was taught how to make my tongue twist in either direction, and turn into a U shape. If you can't already, stand in front of a mirror, and, using your finger as something to press up against, push your tongue upward against it... you will likely, in time, start to feel the muscles in the edges of your tongue as you watch them attempt to grip your finger. Likewise, to twist it, manually grip your tongue, relax it, and then twist it... your tongue will naturally want to pull-back in a normal position. By watching it, you can learn how to manipulate those edge muscles to twist on their own. While I don't think my husband knows what exactly I do down there, I do know he gets a little extra enjoyment out of it when I do it.

Swallowing. I have yet to meet a guy who doesn't think it's the Hottest. Thing. Evar. Learn to enjoy it to make it that much better for him. Or, learn to fake enjoying it even after he's eaten some spicy carne asade and it winds up tasting like a 9-volt battery. And if swallowing doesn't come natural to you, have a 'chaser' ready on the nightstand to help it go down (I find soda, smoothies, and other thick drinks work really well).

The soft palette on the roof of your mouth has a lot of little ridges on it. While sucking, try to have the edge of his head run along it (if you can manage it without scraping off a couple layers of skin, of course). It tickles insanely, but it offers a different texture for him to feel.

Regarding eye contact... I suppose that's a matter of opinion... I've found that some do find it creepy, while some really go for it, but some only like it when you're doing "this" or "that", and some really don't care one way or the other. You would have to find out what works best on your bf.

For Manual:
My husband loves the feeling of simultaneous climaxes... so when he gets close, I gently, but rapidly, squeeze just my thumb and middle finger together, so it emulates the feeling that I'm getting close too.

Long nails. Once he's hard (but you have yet to do anything worthwhile), use your nails to *gently* stroke the underside of his shaft, starting at the base and working your way up in slalom-like paths. Likewise, *gently* drag them around the crown of his head. It's a massive teaser, and really gets the blood going.

For Both:
Don't forget the balls. Kisses, licking, sucking, nuzzling, gently squeezing, caressing, running your nails along the ridges... they need their attention too.

Combo hand/blow job... After he is well lubed, use your middle finger and thumb to encircle him right in front of your mouth, and use more pressure than what your mouth is offering. Makes it feel less like either a hand or blow job, and more like actual penetration.

Thank you for sharing this; it's such an informative and pleasurable read.

 

[SueAnne443]

ponds

For a hand job try using Ponds cold cream. It never gets sticky. It does slow really good. Tease and denial is fun for me and a slow hand job be so nice. With the ponds the difference between the tip and the shaft is more apparent. Somehow for me the shaft gets me close and the tip makes me want it. Spend two hours doing this keeping him within a few strokes of cumming............
There will be results when he blows.
I am a lucky guy.

This is facinating. I always thought of giving a handjob was something of a consolation prize to guys i did not want to be intimate with. I never considered the difference between sensation and desire from the shaft and the head. I would so want to carry a jar of ponds in my hand as we walked into the movie theatre. Some people would not notice, some people would roll their eyes, but there might be that weird guy who would follow us and sit on the other side of me.

 

[bone251]

This is facinating. I always thought of giving a handjob was something of a consolation prize to guys i did not want to be intimate with. I never considered the difference between sensation and desire from the shaft and the head. I would so want to carry a jar of ponds in my hand as we walked into the movie theatre. Some people would not notice, some people would roll their eyes, but there might be that weird guy who would follow us and sit on the other side of me.

Maybe not a movie

Ponds = Vocal

You can find every spot that lights up the room and .................

 

[coachdb18]

You'd be amazed

This is facinating. I always thought of giving a handjob was something of a consolation prize to guys i did not want to be intimate with. I never considered the difference between sensation and desire from the shaft and the head. I would so want to carry a jar of ponds in my hand as we walked into the movie theatre. Some people would not notice, some people would roll their eyes, but there might be that weird guy who would follow us and sit on the other side of me.

You'd be amazed how much guys, myself included, appreciate either a good handjob, blowjob, or more likely a combination. Things already mentioned that should not be overlooked, and some personal favorites include, in no particular order:

1) the groove under the head .. long tongue strokes especially
2) the rim behind the head .. lips and a circling tongue are ecstasy
3) the head .. licked, sucked, and rolled in the mouth and hand
4) the right grip - I like snug but not a handlebar death grip, so hands slide freely
5) some tension toward the balls on the shaft skin, makes the shaft more sensitive
6) nice eye contact - especially at the point when I'm about to cum
7) some attention to the balls, massaging, not crushing... they get lonely!
8) the peephole... don't miss this possibility, I enjoy having it teased

Never take for granted the additional pleasure of the handjob/blowjob. It's not in place of a cock in a vagina, but it's IN ADDITION TO.

One more thing I prefer, may vary from guy to guy, but leave the lotion and just use your mouth and your dry hand. Be creative and adjust your grip so that it's a nice traction, not a slip-and-slide. Friction is good, just not so much the guy needs bandages and an IV when you're done!

 

[Moxon10]

Are great first date/ first shower experience, especially with a body wash lotion. Love the feel of cock, balls, and buns with slippery clean body lotion and warm water, a little finger tease to the anus...then rinse off and taste test to ensure all soap is gone..

Could't AGREE More

 

[WatcherRob]

Early in our marriage 50 years ago my wife asked if I would like her to play with my penis with her mouth and how she should do it. I told her to imagine my penis was a popsicle. You first approach the tip with your lips pursed and insert the popsicle between them. Then you begin sucking the juice moving the popsicle in and out. When the popsicle begins to melt and get juicy you lick it to get the liquid off. Then go back to where you started.

She mastered that and developed her own variations that have served her and me very well though the years.

Age causes erectile difficulties but that never stopped her from enjoying sucking me because she can orgasm just giving me oral pleasures

So go for it. Just do it, sometimes gently, sometimes vigorously, just do it. His reactions will tell you when he likes it.

 

[SweetCupcake]

You'd be amazed how much guys, myself included, appreciate either a good handjob, blowjob, or more likely a combination. Things already mentioned that should not be overlooked, and some personal favorites include, in no particular order:

1) the groove under the head .. long tongue strokes especially
2) the rim behind the head .. lips and a circling tongue are ecstasy
3) the head .. licked, sucked, and rolled in the mouth and hand
4) the right grip - I like snug but not a handlebar death grip, so hands slide freely
5) some tension toward the balls on the shaft skin, makes the shaft more sensitive
6) nice eye contact - especially at the point when I'm about to cum
7) some attention to the balls, massaging, not crushing... they get lonely!
8) the peephole... don't miss this possibility, I enjoy having it teased

Never take for granted the additional pleasure of the handjob/blowjob. It's not in place of a cock in a vagina, but it's IN ADDITION TO.

One more thing I prefer, may vary from guy to guy, but leave the lotion and just use your mouth and your dry hand. Be creative and adjust your grip so that it's a nice traction, not a slip-and-slide. Friction is good, just not so much the guy needs bandages and an IV when you're done!

You sound like very sophisticated man -- your descriptions are very clear and helpful. I really enjoy giving blowjobs and handjobs, and like to continuously improve. Men should not hesitate to say exactly what they want and provide feedback. Believe me, pleasing a man and his cock are high ideals.

 

[SueAnne443]

and yes...

Girl, use that cleavage. Sandwich a sloppy cock in there and lick and kiss the tip