Handjobs

Ah, handjobs. So under-appreciated.

There is something so sexy about the first time a woman grasps your hard cock. How their hands feel. How they grip it. The way they stroke it. The speed.

And if it's 'premeditated' then maybe there is oil, lotion, or KY handy to lube and that opens whole new areas. Does she 'twist and pump'?

And bless those women who understand that attention to the balls is part of a good HJ.

I love that a woman could be completely clothed and stroke you off in your pants.

I love that a woman's mouth is not full and she can whisper nasty things in your ear as she jerks your cock.

I love if a woman is nude or topless, I get to watch her body move as she works on my cock. Those tits move, her muscles move.

I love how a woman wants to make you really come hard, really see a fountain of cum. And when you do come hard and do blow a huge load, bless the women who love the cum.

(Why work so hard to get a man to ejaculate a load of cum if you are repulsed by the cum? How do you think the man feels? "Wow, that was great! Why are you dry heaving in the corner? I guess I'll clean up this mess?")

As a porn viewer, I think I enjoy seeing a woman give a HJ more than a BJ for some of the reasons given above.
well said
 
I haven't given very many of them because typically, if I was going to get a guy off, I was going to either fuck him or suck him or both.

But I'll never forget the first one I ever gave. A local Church took a bunch of us up to Willamette Pass to go tubing; it was the first year that the small ski resort also had an inner tube run.

We were in a Dodge van with 4 rows of seating, and -- as one of the oldest in the youth group -- I claimed the back seat. I sat in the back row with a guy who I had met before but didn't really know on my left and a girlfriend from school on my right.

We had been flirting on the way up and occasionally making out up on the slopes. On the way up, the van's heater hadn't kept us warm enough, so on the way back, we covered in a blanket.

Almost immediately, I started fondling him under the blanket. I whispered to him something to the effect of "stay cool". Eventually, I unzipped his ski pants and took him out and stroked him until he came.

My friend knew what I was doing to the guy and barely contained herself. But we'd got away with it because of the darkness, even after he grunted softly at his orgasm.

We used something to clean up, a shirt or stocking cap or whatever, I don't recall. We never talked about, not in the van or at the church when we got back. He gave me him phone number, but I wasn't interested in dating him and never called.

Word got around later and even got to one of the counselors, but I denied it all when I was "interrogated". Still, I didn't go on another trip, although I did do local group activities for months to go.
 
OK, I know I've spoken before, but I don't know if I've ever made the statement I'm about to make.

First, let me say that I love PIV sex, it's great, no complaints about it at all. PIA, also great. Blow job to completion? Wonderful.

But to be honest, the most intense orgasms I ever had were from handjobs. There's something about when you're being stroked, and it's somewhat familiar, like when you're masturbating, but you aren't in control of it at all. The pace might be different, there's a different twist happening, maybe. The grip is different. Maybe they're using both hands in a way that you can't. The angle is different than you're accustomed to. It all adds up to an experience that is very different.

Everything is up to the person giving you the handjob. They might try to tease you right up to the edge, or slow down just enough so that it feels incredibly good, but won't get you to orgasm yet.

Even what lube is used can make the experience different. Are they using their own spit? Some other lube? Oil based vs. water based?

When it's being done right, it's hard for me to keep watching, because I just want to just lean back, close my eyes, and enjoy what's being done to me. Maybe she will say something as she's working your cock with her hands about how hard you are, or how it feels to have you under their control. If you look and you see that she's enjoying doing this to you, it's even hotter.

And when they finally get you there to orgasm, it's intense in ways you don't experience otherwise. They can keep stroking you because they aren't having that feedback that something feels really good and yet too much at the same time. Maybe they put their mouth over the head to catch the cumshot, maybe they're using their hand, maybe they point you straight up in the air to see how high it goes.

Then they slow down, there's still a lot of intensity and a lot of sensitivity, and it feels so good you almost want them to try to get you to orgasm a second time, but you don't know if you could handle it again that soon. Your entire body feels relaxed, it's like you're on a drug, and all you want to do is lie there and breathe and luxuriate in the afterglow.

Now, would I want a sexual diet of just handjobs? No way! I like having the variety! But sometimes, there's just nothing like it.
 
I love them, I think it is awesome to have a woman who is skilled with her hands and knows just how to make that cum shoot out. So ladies... tell us if you like giving them and what are some of your special skills.
Sometimes I prefer it over sex. Especially if she edges me a couple of time. I prefer easy soft strokes until I’m about read then king fu grip hard strokes to finish. My longest measured shot was past my head over the head board and up the wall a bit. I have this tiny shot before the big one come like a warning shot and that fucker flies
 
I haven't given very many of them because typically, if I was going to get a guy off, I was going to either fuck him or suck him or both.

But I'll never forget the first one I ever gave. A local Church took a bunch of us up to Willamette Pass to go tubing; it was the first year that the small ski resort also had an inner tube run.

We were in a Dodge van with 4 rows of seating, and -- as one of the oldest in the youth group -- I claimed the back seat. I sat in the back row with a guy who I had met before but didn't really know on my left and a girlfriend from school on my right.

We had been flirting on the way up and occasionally making out up on the slopes. On the way up, the van's heater hadn't kept us warm enough, so on the way back, we covered in a blanket.

Almost immediately, I started fondling him under the blanket. I whispered to him something to the effect of "stay cool". Eventually, I unzipped his ski pants and took him out and stroked him until he came.

My friend knew what I was doing to the guy and barely contained herself. But we'd got away with it because of the darkness, even after he grunted softly at his orgasm.

We used something to clean up, a shirt or stocking cap or whatever, I don't recall. We never talked about, not in the van or at the church when we got back. He gave me him phone number, but I wasn't interested in dating him and never called.

Word got around later and even got to one of the counselors, but I denied it all when I was "interrogated". Still, I didn't go on another trip, although I did do local group activities for months to go.

Did you like giving him a hand job?
Would you include it in your sexual routine?
 
Did you like giving him a hand job?
Would you include it in your sexual routine?
I did like it. It was exciting and erotic and dangerous. And I'd felt like I'd done something few if any other girls could do: a hand job, in a church activity van full of people, to a guy I'd only really gotten to know that day. None of my girlfriends had ever talked about doing that before or knowing someone who had, even the ones having regular sex.

Would I include it in my sexual routine? Well, I didn't, not that I wouldn't have. I've only driven men to orgasm via hand job maybe a handful of times (no pun intended).
 
The best handjob I received was when I came home from work one day. I kissed my wife hello and she imediatly started making out with me. She slipped her hand into my pants and with her tongue still in my mouth proceeded to make me cum in my pants. Still had my work boots on.
 
The best handjob I received was when I came home from work one day. I kissed my wife hello and she imediatly started making out with me. She slipped her hand into my pants and with her tongue still in my mouth proceeded to make me cum in my pants. Still had my work boots on.
Welcome home honey!

That’s a wonderful way to greet you home!
 
I love giving a handjob. Lots of oil. Asking what he likes. Then letting my hands take control. Playful. Tease. Long strokes. Short strokes. Fingers dancing along the tip and down the shaft. Twisting strokes. Fast. Slow. One hand. Two hands.

While telling you how much I like playing with your cock. Kisses. Telling you where I would like to put your penis. Letting you know how wet I am getting while enjoying the feel of your cock in my hands.
:kiss:

Evening Spencer..
Now this girl really enjoys giving a (in My imagination) a helluva hand job
 
When we were first dating my wife was very clumsy with handjobs. They were not very pleasant. Over time however she became quite skilled and there were times when she would ask if I wanted to fuck now and I would say no, keep going.
 
My most incredible handjob was when I was 22 and my girlfriend was 18. She had gone back home to South Africa the month earlier and I flew out to Durban the middle of January. I arrived about 10am and as soon as I saw her i wanted to fuck her. Nothing could happen as we were at her parents and she knew i needed to cum and it was so painful, but worth it. It wasnt until after everyone else had gone to bed and i snuck into her bed and her hand went straight onto my cock and she began stroking me. It was so fucking incredible. She kissed me as I moaned not to wake the rest of the house and i came into my boxers and whispered that we would be cumming a lot that holiday and we both did. She was incredible.
 
If he has a nice looking package they are lots of fun:devil: My personal favorite is to tease for a long time maybe gently raking my nails on him as well and let him look at me and we make lots of eye contact the whole time. No tv no porn on in the background just us two... lots of slow edging as almost to give him a “ruined” orgasm not that it’s really ruined.. than when he’s at his most sensitive I like to keep playing with his cock and he will squirm but usually let me do it anyway. I like how powerful that makes me feel, that afterwards he’s so clowdy he will let me almost what seems like torture him for a few moments
Lovely description…. Come to me !
 
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