Happy endings…

[sftopbottom]

I get lots of massages from individual male, female, mtf, and ftm therapists, usually at their home studios. There is almost always a happy ending and or mutual touch, and quite often full blown intercourse.

It's almost always discussed in advance in email or texts. I am in San Francisco and realize the culture is a but more liberal than most.

 

[sftopbottom]

I get lots of massages from individual male, female, mtf, and ftm therapists, usually at their home studios. There is almost always a happy ending and or mutual touch, and quite often full blown intercourse.

It's almost always discussed in advance in email or texts. I am in San Francisco and realize the culture is a but more liberal than most.

I have also appreciated the vacation masseur/masseuse who says, "The massage portion of our session is over, but we can continue with some mutual touching and XYZ..." which allows for a legit massage for a fee. The sex then feels more chemistry inspired. It's a thin veil, I suppose.

 

[Nekidinaz]

I love to be massaged and I go to the same masseuse I've been going to for a couple years now and she always enjoys masturbating me to climax at some point during our massage.
Not sure how it started with her masturbating me but when I initially booked my first appointment I asked if I could be massaged totally nude with no drape or cover and she said "...of course, whatever you like..."
I don't know how long it was before she simply started massaging my groin and ultimately my penis but I never asked her to do that, she just did it and has masturbated me every time since...
You may just have to check out a few different massage therapists before finding the best one for you ...

 

[Nekidinaz]

I think happy ending only exist in certain given massage parlors where there is no real massage therapy being practiced ... I may be wrong

I know there are massage studios where happy ending massage is common place however, I know a lot of massage therapists will provide happy ending massages to clients who have established a somewhat regular massage routine...it's a relationship building thing that happens over time...and not with just anyone but more often with regular, respectful customers who become their clients...

 

[Wylie3]

Before Brothels became legal we had massage parlours which in all other sense were brothels, non sexual massage establishments would be called sports massage or physios and still advertise that way to create the distinction.

 

[magicalmoments]

Some of the messages here seem to reflect a total lack of understanding of the fact that requesting a hand job from a massage therapist is asking them to commit a crime. A hand job is a sexual act, and performing a sexual act for money is called prostitution. Try asking your doctor or nurse for a hand job. They are in a position to touch your naked body. You would end up thrown out of that office faster than you get dressed. Why do you think it is OK to ask a licensed massage therapist for a hand job? They are professionals, not prostitutes. Ask your accountant to commit tax fraud for you, and see what happens. Or ask your lawyer to help you embezzle from your employer and see if you are not shown the door immediately. It is not OK to assume that massage therapists are sex workers and and may be propositioned because you are horny.

Haven't checked where you are from but obviously some backward and repressed society. Prostitution is not a crime in NZ, neither it should be. The society goes along quite nicely without a totally unecessary crime listed on its law books

 

[Dorc]

I’m currently retraining to become a massage therapist and a few people have asked about how I will deal with customers asking for happy endings .

Being a bit naive I didn’t really think this happened outside the bedroom or porn, but I’d be interested to know how common people think this is. I’d love to hear from customers that have received them (how on earth did you broach the subject?!) and those that have received the requests - how did you react.

I want this to be my new business so I don’t want to be getting the reputation that I’m some sort of prostitute, and the idea that I’m going to be continually propositioned is now giving a whole heap of anxiety

I am a customer who, for 35 years has been on the receiving end of many happy endings. I’ve been massaged by both men and women. Why I do it is a different topic.

Ultimately, if I’m solo I love a good massage with a HE. Through the years I’d look on CL, Rub ratings, city vibe, massage ratings, Preferred 411, The Erotic Review & Skip the games. So, where you advertise makes a difference.

As a client, I knew the HE was off the table, from square one two times. First when my yoga instructor, who also did massage (she was very hot) told me during my first session “my husband is an FBI agent. The other time, the masseuse handed me a clip board which had bold print, “this is a legitimate business and massage done for health improvement only”

Other less subtle hints were heavy draping and never exposing my bare ass while massaging my upper leg region.

For 6 months now, I’ve seeing a women for a monthly 90 minute massage now. I love being totally naked for massage, always have. She is very hot and gives an outstanding massage. I’ve never asked her for a HE but as we have moved forward she moves the towel lower and lower every visit. Last visit, my cheeks were exposed 100% and she massed my cheeks and between my thighs…. BUT after 6 months I don’t want to betray a trust and will not ask her for a HE.

Bottom line. Most guys are after one thing. Me, a respectable, guy, raised my 2 kids, adopted a third child (nephew), married 32 years, tons of good friends but along the path of life, shit happens. Guys NEED to get our rocks off. If we don’t get it at home, we’ll get it somewhere else. Me, because I’ve paid for every HE massage, I feel it’s more of a business transaction and less of stepping outside my marriage.

Hope it helps.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I know there are massage studios where happy ending massage is common place however, I know a lot of massage therapists will provide happy ending massages to clients who have established a somewhat regular massage routine...it's a relationship building thing that happens over time...and not with just anyone but more often with regular, respectful customers who become their clients...

That’s definitely the case for me,I do feel like the place I go to probably offers them to everybody who knows how to ask. I’ve been going to the same spot for over a year and very frequently so they know me well and I tip very well too.
They still ask me if I want “hard,medium or soft” to which I always request “soft” and that’s the secret password essentially for the happy ending. Not much of a massage but straight to the erotic touching into the handjob,fondling,etc.

 

[shrek100]

Only yesterday
In a town in the south east of uk.
I have genuinely hurt my shoulder/neck. Very early for a meeting.
Went for a walk around the town. Massage parlour “sports massage”
Walked in and said I haven’t booked but any availability.
Yes, and she called a lady up.
“We can do 45 minutes” £45
Ok I responded.

In to a room we go “you get naked, face down she said” I stripped off
A great massage. Very good. She kept allowing her nails to gently run over my balls. I was getting hard (only human)
You should roll over now she said. I did and she must have noticed my embarrassment. Cock well over half mask.

She gripped the base hard “you pay for massage, extra HE £25, topless £40.00, naked £60.00
I laughed and said I only have £50.00 - ok she said you don’t cum on me.

She stripped off naked. Very nice body. Lovely nipples.
She climbed on top of me and poored oil on herself and took my hands and used them to rub it in.
She then used her whole body to massage me and I mean the whole body.

Very skilled, kept me on the edge tbh.

She then moved off and allows me to touch her properly. “Make me cum darling”
One fake orgasm later
She gave me an amazing happy ending.
She cleaned me up and I payed the extra £50.00 and left.

Great experience but a little hollow tbh.

 

[markchamberlain]

Some of the messages here seem to reflect a total lack of understanding of the fact that requesting a hand job from a massage therapist is asking them to commit a crime...

That's not a universal "fact" at all. In many places, it is formally legal. In others it is de facto legal, including open advertisement through normal channels (newspaper, billboards, sports team sponsorship, etc.)

 

[wankerholic42]

Many years ago while in between jobs I took a course in massage from a gay friend who was a professional masseur and passed, receiving a diploma to prove my status. I advertised my services in a gay newspaper. Needless to say, I was prepared to give a happy ending to my prospective clients. I charged a fixed price for the massage with no additional fee if “extras” were required.
For about six months I gave massages to countless of customers and all but two men asked for a happy ending. Those two were quite happy to just receive a body massage. In fact, one of them looked well into his eighties and a happy ending might have proved too much for him!
Most of my massages were given in my own home, but I did visit a few London West End hotels to provide my services.
One of the most erotic sessions involved visiting a married couple’s home to give the husband a massage while his wife watched. Towards the end of the normal massage the inevitable happened: a strong erection from my subject. To my surprise the wife said. “I think my husband needs you to finish him off.” As I started wanking him, his wife masturbated herself and brought herself to orgasm as she watched the cum spurting from her husband’s hard cock in my hand. I received an additional bonus to my usual fee on that occasion! And I would have been more than happy to service the wife for no extra charge!
Happy to give anyone who would like explicit details of my massage technique to a typical male customer. Just PM me in Conversations. You can massage yourself while you read!

 

[MiaDani80]

I've received many massages, mostly at hotel spas but never had a happy ending, never asked for one but never offered one either. Maybe hotels are the safest places to be. Either way, stand strong for what you believe in!

 

[Will527]

I think that the men (and women?) who go for a massage with the expectation of getting a happy ending are probably going to approach it directly with the masseuse, male or female. They might overly respond to certain touches to givec a hint that they want more in that area, etc.

I think the people who go just for the massage are not going to think about it unless the masseuse either verbally hints, offers, or makes physical contact that is inappropriate. Then it would be the client to decide how to proceed.
In all probability, those masseuses who encourage happy endings are looking for very large tips.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Haven't checked where you are from but obviously some backward and repressed society. Prostitution is not a crime in NZ, neither it should be. The society goes along quite nicely without a totally unecessary crime listed on its law books

I am not making a value judgment here. I am pointing out a few basic facts. Prostitution is illegal in 99.99% of the United States. Treating a licensed massage therapist as a sex worker is highly insulting to the vast majority of massage therapists who do not engage in providing sexual services for money. I say this is as someone who is married to a licensed massage therapist and who has reviewed many of the training and licensing materials with her both during her initial training and licensure and during her subsequent license renewals. These materials include legal and ethical guidelines massage therapists are required to follow. Massage therapy may be the equivalent of sex work where you live, but it is not in the United States.

 

[magicalmoments]

I am not making a value judgment here. I am pointing out a few basic facts. Prostitution is illegal in 99.99% of the United States. Treating a licensed massage therapist as a sex worker is highly insulting to the vast majority of massage therapists who do not engage in providing sexual services for money. I say this is as someone who is married to a licensed massage therapist and who has reviewed many of the training and licensing materials with her both during her initial training and licensure and during her subsequent license renewals. These materials include legal and ethical guidelines massage therapists are required to follow. Massage therapy may be the equivalent of sex work where you live, but it is not in the United States.

Massage therapy is not the equivalent of sex work in New Zealand, massage therapy is a legitimate business/industry. Those who seek a sex worker do not have to go to massage therapists to have their needs fulfilled, they go to brothels, another legitimate business/industry. Unlike your repressed backwater, sex workers in New Zealand do not have to pose as massage therapists and massage therapists are thereby protected from the problems your wife faces.
As an aside, is it prostitution or soliciting that is illegal in the USA or is it both? Hard to keep up with the number of freedoms that you are losing over there. I hear compulsory headcoverings for women is being touted by the evangelical christian types, as required by the Bible.
Just bear in mind when you are not making value judgements that Literotica is an international site, it has members from all nations, all cultures and all ethnicities. Not all of these are tolerant societies. Some repress those who seek the freedom to be the person they want to be, force them to live a double standard, some criminalise them, and some lynch them. I give thanks that I live in a society that is tolerant of all lifestyles and allows people to live the lives they want to live as long as they do not coerce others into their choices.

 

[Fisher0382]

My last job took a toll on my body so I would get massages. I would never ask for anything sexual but most of the time would get aroused and I always prefer to be nude for my massages. One day last minute I really needed a massage was having a hard time finding anywhere that had any availability so I went to Craigslist. Found a woman that had a small studio and could fit me in. I got there and we discussed what I wanted never brought up anything sexual she said it was up to me if I left my underwear on or if I was nude. I felt myself get hard and go soft as she was working my back. Then I rolled over and as she starting working up my leg I got a raging hard on. There was no hiding the tent in the sheet. She briefly rubbed her hand along the side of it. Nothing more happened that time. The second massage with her she “accidentally” brushed up against my balls. I opened my eyes and could see how hard her nipples were. The third time she got braver and rubbed me a little but I didn’t push anything. I did notice that time she grabbed her crotch as she turned to get more oils. The fourth time she started stroking me and I grabbed her hand and said please don’t stop this time. And she stroked me to completion. I still see her from time to time to this day!

 

[Hipshot1554]

I’m currently retraining to become a massage therapist and a few people have asked about how I will deal with customers asking for happy endings .

Being a bit naive I didn’t really think this happened outside the bedroom or porn, but I’d be interested to know how common people think this is. I’d love to hear from customers that have received them (how on earth did you broach the subject?!) and those that have received the requests - how did you react.

I want this to be my new business so I don’t want to be getting the reputation that I’m some sort of prostitute, and the idea that I’m going to be continually propositioned is now giving a whole heap of anxiety

You either will, or you won't!

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Sadly many men are dense and can't tell the difference between a legit massage place and a rub n tug, and will solicit handjobs etc. I think the right advertising and proper signage should go a long way though.

I've never even asked, I just knew where to go and the masseuses asked me. Or, in countries where it's legal, the places advertise without shame (as there should be none) that they offer erotic massages. This is always better because both parties are in agreement, there's no fear of a police raid, and you can choose your masseuse(s) and relax.