Spouse/SO admits a secret fantasy—did you love it or hate it?

[dz2681]

Loved it. Confided in me all her taboo desires

would love to hear about those

 

[Raybies93]

would love to hear about those

yeah. dont leave us hanging

 

[ZeroXv13]

 

[dr2brd]

Many years ago, when we were young and not too experienced my wife once came home after girls party at her friend's house. She told me thoughtfully: 'Guess what, G. was totally drunk and confessed that she and her ex-boyfriend sometimes have had sex in a bath and pissed on each other. Could you imagine?' That was a brilliant idea I should say

 

[Raybies93]

Many years ago, when we were young and not too experienced my wife once came home after girls party at her friend's house. She told me thoughtfully: 'Guess what, G. was totally drunk and confessed that she and her ex-boyfriend sometimes have had sex in a bath and pissed on each other. Could you imagine?' That was a brilliant idea I should say

I’d love to piss on you and your wife

 

[dr2brd]

I’d love to piss on you and your wife

Good for you but you could start practicing on yourself for the beginning

 

[Solsurfer]

Mine told me she wanted a bunch of guys to jerk off on her covering her in cum. Then I had to lick her clean!

Wow! That’s nuts. Sounds like some hot pillow talk.

My wife recently told me she wants to spank me followed by licking and finger fucking my asshole

Damn. Will she do that for real? Or just sexy fantasy? Would you let her? That sounds kind of fun. I’d at least let her do that once and see how it goes.

 

[Raybies93]

Good for you but you could start practicing on yourself for the beginning

hahaha.

Wow! That’s nuts. Sounds like some hot pillow talk.

Damn. Will she do that for real? Or just sexy fantasy? Would you let her? That sounds kind of fun. I’d at least let her do that once and see how it goes.

I’d let her

 

[Texguy84]

Definitely have a fond memory of my wife riding me cowgirl when she decided to tell me this would be the perfect time for the second man to walk into the room and take her ass.

 

[TonyF862]

Two women with whom I've had detailed discussions have told me they had no fantasies. How their minds work I do not know because one of them "worried" a number of times that the wind would blow her skirt up around her head and loved to tease the neighbors by appearing on our deck in a bikini doing "things". The other woman denied having fantasies but got very aroused when a male companion told her he'd like to lick all over her body. Go figure.

Sounds like these women don’t know what a fantasy is!

 

[TonyF862]

(I’ve posted this story multiple times in various forms but here it goes again as it goes directly to this topic)

After a particularly great play/fuck session, as wife and I were in that post-coitus cuddle (she’d probably had a drink or two as well), she whispered in my ear “I’d love to see you suck a cock”

What the…?? Who the…?! I was speechless.

Nothing like this had ever come up. I’d never considered a third for any playtime, man or woman, not had I ever expressed or even thought about a third person in our bed!?

Would I actually do that for her? For me? Did she know something about me that I didn’t know myself? (I had never had any desire for men or sucking cock).

But, this little revelation implied so much: she’d be open for a “third” joining us! If this fantasy, what else? (I knew she had a very, sexy imagination as we fucked the first night we met and had a relatively good sex life for nearly 30 years).

Well, that was 2 1/2 years ago. Since then we found our way to a (light) swinging lifestyle. We have had threesomes, foursomes. Been to LS clubs, watched people fuck all around us, lifestyle resorts, where she sucked my cock on the side of the pool w dozens of people all around (no one seemed to notice!!)

I’ve even watched her eating pussy, sometimes while I was fucking her silly!

But, that cock she wanted to see me suck?? It’s still out there somewhere. I’ve yet to suck one. But suffice it to say, if the opportunity “arises”, and the Mrs is with me, I’ll take it all!! And be sure to share it with my bride

 

[Winchester3030]

(I’ve posted this story multiple times in various forms but here it goes again as it goes directly to this topic)

After a particularly great play/fuck session, as wife and I were in that post-coitus cuddle (she’d probably had a drink or two as well), she whispered in my ear “I’d love to see you suck a cock”

What the…?? Who the…?! I was speechless.

Nothing like this had ever come up. I’d never considered a third for any playtime, man or woman, not had I ever expressed or even thought about a third person in our bed!?

Would I actually do that for her? For me? Did she know something about me that I didn’t know myself? (I had never had any desire for men or sucking cock).

But, this little revelation implied so much: she’d be open for a “third” joining us! If this fantasy, what else? (I knew she had a very, sexy imagination as we fucked the first night we met and had a relatively good sex life for nearly 30 years).

Well, that was 2 1/2 years ago. Since then we found our way to a (light) swinging lifestyle. We have had threesomes, foursomes. Been to LS clubs, watched people fuck all around us, lifestyle resorts, where she sucked my cock on the side of the pool w dozens of people all around (no one seemed to notice!!)

I’ve even watched her eating pussy, sometimes while I was fucking her silly!

But, that cock she wanted to see me suck?? It’s still out there somewhere. I’ve yet to suck one. But suffice it to say, if the opportunity “arises”, and the Mrs is with me, I’ll take it all!! And be sure to share it with my bride

Very fortunate man!

 

[Solsurfer]

My wife’s fantasy is getting fucked on the beach. Has never happened. She said she once jerked a random one night stand off on the beach. I asked her if he came she aaid, “Mayyyyyyybe.”

I want to take my wife down to the beach late at night, find a dark area, spread out a big blanket and go at it under the stars. Summertime, of course. Need it to be a warm night if we’re getting naked outdoors. Fantasy that could and should be fairly easy to make happen. Thanks for the reminder.

 

[Solsurfer]

I fucked an ex girlfriend on the beach once. It was nice but gotta keep the sand out! My wife knows I fucked an ex on the beach so there’s a little jealousy there! Not a bad thing!

Of course sand is an issue. Need a really big blanket. It’s crazy to me that my wife and I have never had beach sex when we’ve live near the beach for 20+ years. Lol! This summer I’m going to try and make it happen.

 

[TonyF862]

I want to take my wife down to the beach late at night, find a dark area, spread out a big blanket and go at it under the stars. Summertime, of course. Need it to be a warm night if we’re getting naked outdoors. Fantasy that could and should be fairly easy to make happen. Thanks for the reminder.

The only time I’ve had true beach sex was in 1990 in the Bahamas.

I’d just graduated from business school, and treated myself to a long weekend in the Bahamas with a good buddy of mine. We were both single, so you can imagine our radar was on constantly.

As luck would have it, I struck up a conversation with a woman about my age, who happen to be there vacationing with her parents. As you can imagine, she was bored to tears and looking for a little action.

We hung out during the day and that night. managed to find a hammock on the beach in an isolated spot. We started fucking there, and then moved to a nearby lounge chair.

I must say, and in all honesty, it was underwhelming. The logistical challenges offset the excitement of being out in the open. We ended up back at my room, and I kicked my buddy out so I could finish fucking her. (Note: i’ve given up the room the night before to my body so he could fuck the lady that he met so felt fully justified doing it to him ) She had an incredible body. Sadly. she wanted nothing to do with me the rest of the trip lol.

Fast forward 36 years, and wife and I are going on a swingers cruise later this month. So, although not at the beach, I do plan a lot of fucking out in the open, where others can watch us!

 

[bumpinthenight2022]

Lucky you! My wife has always claimed not to have any sexual fantasies
(As opposed to me)

Exact same here, which is so frustrating.

 

[TonyF862]

Exact same here, which is so frustrating.

You’ve both married liars - or simply two women who don’t understand what fantasies are!

 

[MamaBitte]

You’ve both married liars - or simply two women who don’t understand what fantasies are!

I keep asking myself how anyone can believe they can judge others from a distance.

 

[TonyF862]

I keep asking myself how anyone can believe they can judge others from a distance.

It was said in jest. No judgement

 

[ladventures]

So my very conservative and somewhat prudish wife were playing one of those card games for couples and the card “Share a secret fantasy” got drawn from the stack. Now, my wife is very self conscious and very tame these days, but in the last (before kids) has let loose a few times. So to get her talk about sex topics and fantasies…it’s extremely rare and difficult to get her to open up. So it was her turn and she tells me that she’s fantasized about bringing another woman into our bed. that’s just the beginning. She continues hinting that she’d want to play with herself while watching me and this mystery woman go at it. Wtf?! Now I’m getting hard. Lol! I asked her, “you get turned on thinking about me messing around with another woman right here in our bed next to you while you touch yourself watching us??”
“Well I’d join in after a bit, but yes.”
Holy shit! Told her that’s the sexiest thing I’ve heard her say and that she had gotten me super hard. I pushed my luck a little further and told her how hot it would be if she directed our play by telling us what to do to/with each other while she watched. Suck him here, lick her there, fuck her harder, etc etc. She said “yeah, that’d be fun.” My wife said this. Crazytown. It will never happen in real life, but so super sexy to talk about.

So my question to you people of Lit…has your spouse or SO every disclosed a fantasy to you and how did you receive it? Did it turn you on? Turn off? Did you share your fantasy with them and what was their reaction? (Side note: my disclosure of fantasies with her have not always gone this well. )

This thread encouraged me to buy one of those card games for Valentines Day. I will try to make sure my similarly “somewhat conservative and prudish” teacher wife pulls the share a secret fantasy card and see what happens.

 

[Solsurfer]

This thread encouraged me to buy one of those card games for Valentines Day. I will try to make sure my similarly “somewhat conservative and prudish” teacher wife pulls the share a secret fantasy card and see what happens.

I love this! Just don’t start with the fantasy card. Lol! You gotta build up to it. Start slow and easy. “What position is your favorite” or “what do I do that turns you in?” Simple easy questions to get in the flow of things. A half a dozen questions in, you both are having fun, then sneak in that fantasy card. I hope it works out for you and she opens up some. Let us know how it goes. We’d love updates.

 

[jchtlit]

What he said!
I don’t understand how someone can Not have fantasies but according to my wife, she has never had a fantasy

Sounds like my wife, she claims she does not have any fantasies.
I wonder what her fantasies are really about.

 

[Winchester3030]

Sounds like my wife, she claims she does not have any fantasies.
I wonder what her fantasies are really about.

Really makes me wonder!
I’d love it if she would tell me, I’d love to make something cum true for her!

 

[Solsurfer]

Really makes me wonder!
I’d love it if she would tell me, I’d love to make something cum true for her!

They don’t even have to actually happen in real life. Just talking about something so naughty and forbidden is a huge turn on. And my wife is more willing to talk about something that will never happen in real life than something that could happen. We can talk about bringing in a hot stranger into bed with us or going to a sex club but don’t you dare mention the sexy neighbor or anything with her sister. Lol!!

 

[redcaddydaddy_1]

What he said!
I don’t understand how someone can Not have fantasies but according to my wife, she has never had a fantasy

I wonder if she actually does have a fantasy, but thinks it's so shocking that you'd be shocked or disgusted; 'I want to be (gently) raped by a (freshly showered, muscular, oiled) motorcycle gang!'... Or could be a sexually repressive upbringing- just guessing here, but maybe try a counselor for either or both.