Has anyone committed/familiar with incest? I'm curious :)

[Farrah]

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[Stella_Omega]

VaGirl07:

You and I both know that some people WILL blame you for having satisfying fantasies about something that messed you up; but you know what-- those people would be wrong and ignorant. You have the right, and the power, to take possession of your sexuality. No question about it.

It isn't all that uncommon. You have never mentioned this to your therapist, I take it. You know better than I how trustworthy your therapist is, but you might consider telling her-- she might be more supportive of you than you would expect.

{{internet huggles}}

 

[Feotakahari]

It's been observed that stories in which someone rapes a family member tend to get very low scores on this site. The popular incest stories are ones in which family members enter into a relationship that's romantic as well as sexual. (After all, love strong enough to overcome social barriers has been a popular theme since long before Romeo and Juliet.)

(This was going to be a more general post about the romance of incest, but after the above post, I'm reconsidering making any statement of that nature.)

 

[Stella_Omega]

It's been observed that stories in which someone rapes a family member tend to get very low scores on this site.

I'm not surprised.

But the fact is, it's the most common form of incestual activity in real life.

 

[Farrah]

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[Farrah]

(This was going to be a more general post about the romance of incest, but after the above post, I'm reconsidering making any statement of that nature.)[/QUOTE]


Thank you for your consideration. I am open-minded enough to accept that relationships of this nature exist. It just wasn't my experience.

 

[HeyAll]

It's been observed that stories in which someone rapes a family member tend to get very low scores on this site. The popular incest stories are ones in which family members enter into a relationship that's romantic as well as sexual. (After all, love strong enough to overcome social barriers has been a popular theme since long before Romeo and Juliet.)

(This was going to be a more general post about the romance of incest, but after the above post, I'm reconsidering making any statement of that nature.)

That's true. In my experience, and both reading comments on other incest stories, the readers want to see love and chemistry between the two characters more than anything- aside from the erotic aspect obviously.

But there are exceptions though; readers love a story where, for instance, a horny son finds a way to blackmail his mother for sex.

 

[Stella_Omega]

That's true. In my experience, and both reading comments on other incest stories, the readers want to see love and chemistry between the two characters more than anything- aside from the erotic aspect obviously.

But there are exceptions though; readers love a story where, for instance, a horny son finds a way to blackmail his mother for sex.

They usually end up in lurve anyways, don't they? And... "breeding."

Incest tropes are plain bizarre to me.

 

[Hans101]

I'm not surprised.

But the fact is, it's the most common form of incestual activity in real life.

I'm not so sure about that. Obviously incest where a child is abused is quite common, or at least widely publicized, but I'm not sure it is the most common form of incest as a whole. Maybe it is wishful thinking on my part, but I suspect that consensual incest is vastly under reported.

Incest isn't just unpopular or socially unacceptable, it's illegal and carries stiff penalties in most jurisdictions. This gives those involved in such a relationship strong incentives to keep it very secret. Also not all sexual relationships are long-lasting or even persistent. If a brother and sister go to bed together once, never do it again, and never tell anyone about it, they've still committed incest.

Much that is called incest involves child molesters abusing children within their own families. But then these same abusers target kids who aren't related to them also. They'll rape any child they can get their hands on. The issue in such situations is that a child is being abused. That the perpetrator of that abuse is a relative makes the abuse worse of course, but it's not like that abuse would cease to be abuse if it were a stranger doing the abusing.

It doesn't make sense to throw situations where kids are abused by child molester who happens to be related to them in with situations where a pair of siblings or cousins in their twenties have a drunken romp together, and then attempt to declare them morally or factually equivalent simply because both can be described as incest.

Abuse is wrong. Abuse is unspeakably evil, especially when a child is the victim. But that has nothing to do with two adults deciding that they want to fuck each other and that they don't care if they're related. Apples and oranges.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hans, you are right-- the two should not be conflated, and I don't.
Two adults who freely choose? I support that.

What I am pointing out, in fact, is the opposite-- that far too many incest fetishists choose to ignore the fact that so much incest comes out of coercion or rape rather than out of consent. And the abuse need not be limited to children either, it's perfectly possible for one adult to bully another.

 

[Hans101]

Hans, you are right-- the two should not be conflated, and I don't.
Two adults who freely choose? I support that.

What I am pointing out, in fact, is the opposite-- that far too many incest fetishists choose to ignore the fact that so much incest comes out of coercion or rape rather than out of consent. And the abuse need not be limited to children either, it's perfectly possible for one adult to bully another.

I don't like to think about abuse at all, and I find it extremely disturbing when I find someone who gets off on the idea, especially when they are getting off on children being abused. That's just sickening and unthinkable to me.

You are also right that abuse can happen between adults. That too is something I want nothing to do with.

The only kind of sex I want anything to do with is open and loving sex between informed and competent adults.

If those adults happen to be related, I don't see that as a reason not to have sex, only as a reason to be especially careful to avoid pregnancy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

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If those adults happen to be related, I don't see that as a reason not to have sex, only as a reason to be especially careful to avoid pregnancy.

Well, I'm still with you there. I can't see it myself, but I'm perfectly willing to believe that some folk happen to be attracted to a family member in a perfectly healthy way.

These guys though that you see posting on this forum-- are so focused on incest that it takes the place of any other possible relationship-- at least, in their fantasies.

it's the difference between a preference and a genuine fetish.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

pics?!?!
i want to see the videos!

there was one site i visited that had a couple pictures of a man and a woman claiming to be mother and son. they really looked a lot alike. if they weren't related, they did a heck of a good job finding two adults that look very similar.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

I was molested by my older brother

i don't condone any of that. those who prey on young innocent kids should be shot, or should be in prison and becomes someone's bitch. here in pennsylvania, we are still reeling from the fact that joe paterno knew one of his assistants was a predator.

thank god he was fired.

 

[Farrah]

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[goodsonformom]

Forgive me for being gushy, but you are all lovely people. I love that this has developed into a real conversation. And I completely agree, molestation and consensual love-making should not be grouped together, no matter the gender or familial situation. Abuse is abuse, and should be labeled as such. But 2 (or more) adults who understand the situation, the risks, the rewards... well, that's a horse of a different color.

This is issue is so conflicted and most situations are not good ones. I continue to speak positively regarding my incestuous relationship, but even in that very positive and nurturing situation, there were many "pot holes" along the way. And frankly not obvious to me until much later in my life.

 

[mcafee]

i have

females that would like to hear the details pm me

 

[LindsayRae]

females that would like to hear the details pm me

Why? Have you forgotten the purpose of a bulletin board?

 

[mcafee]

no. i just dont want my experience ridiculed

 

[LindsayRae]

no. i just dont want my experience ridiculed

The one where you popped your niece's cherry in the bathtub with your finger while your other neice was in the tub with you two? (Boy, that must have been a large tub!)

Or the one where your girlfriend masturbated with your son's toothbursh, then watched him brush his teeth with it, and......?

 

[goodsonformom]

Then one where you popped your niece's cherry in the bathtub with your finger while your other neice was in the tub with you two? (Boy, that must have been a large tub!)

Or the one where your girlfriend masturbated with your son's toothbursh, then watched him brush his teeth with it, and......?

Did that all really happen?...........Yikes!

 

[mcafee]

no it didnt happen

 

[LindsayRae]

no it didnt happen

What didn't? Those pervious stories you've claimed true in your older posts?

 

[Farrah]

This is issue is so conflicted and most situations are not good ones. I continue to speak positively regarding my incestuous relationship, but even in that very positive and nurturing situation, there were many "pot holes" along the way. And frankly not obvious to me until much later in my life.

I am new to the forum, so I don't know your story. But thank you for sharing your view point. I hope the potholes have been cemented over and am sincerely happy for you that, overall, your's was a positive situation.

 

[goodsonformom]

I am new to the forum, so I don't know your story. But thank you for sharing your view point. I hope the potholes have been cemented over and am sincerely happy for you that, overall, your's was a positive situation.

Welcome VaGirl.....Yes my experience overall was wonderful. I had a very loving and nurturing mother. She was sexually hungry and she was a wonderful lover....there were some other issues and relationships within the family that at times caused conflict and guilt.....go figure.