Have I been banned?

accept feedback i clicked yes, turn off all feedback i clicked no - maybe the email is old could that be the reason - havent used it in awhile.
 
Dazed and confused elder. I don't know where to go with this. I've been banned from Chat. Is this permanent, without recourse? Sorry, If I am asking in the wrong place.
 
Yes you are banned....and no it will not be reversed. You can pm to know but there is no recourse for what you have been banned for.
 
Now...I have found a few good things with the gentlemen of Lit.

I do agree with you Pia...it can be like uhh what? We have never spoken before?

But well the ones who I will say no thank you and then they say Ok and have a good night. They don't try and explain why they are the best thing since dildo's and ice cream. They simply go ok I am not welcome to continue my advances and then move on. It's nice. I have also had entire conversations with them with no sex mentioned. Or if they do want to they will not just shove it in your face. That's nice too. Yes there is a room for this type of play but gentlemen...consent is a good thing...enthusiastic consent is even better.

what makes me want to talk to people? I am somewhat of a geek...I enjoy being able to nerd out on things...like movies I love...tv shows...I play D&D every friday with an amazing group of people. I was a sickly kid and I would read alot...nerding out about books also makes me happy...I mean hell message and tell me something you are passionate about (thats not sex) and I will probably smile and ask you to tell me more.
 
Now...I have found a few good things with the gentlemen of Lit.

I do agree with you Pia...it can be like uhh what? We have never spoken before?

But well the ones who I will say no thank you and then they say Ok and have a good night. They don't try and explain why they are the best thing since dildo's and ice cream. They simply go ok I am not welcome to continue my advances and then move on. It's nice. I have also had entire conversations with them with no sex mentioned. Or if they do want to they will not just shove it in your face. That's nice too. Yes there is a room for this type of play but gentlemen...consent is a good thing...enthusiastic consent is even better.

what makes me want to talk to people? I am somewhat of a geek...I enjoy being able to nerd out on things...like movies I love...tv shows...I play D&D every friday with an amazing group of people. I was a sickly kid and I would read alot...nerding out about books also makes me happy...I mean hell message and tell me something you are passionate about (thats not sex) and I will probably smile and ask you to tell me more.
That’s a good one actually! Having a passion for something! I love learning new things so even if it’s something I don’t have a particular interest in I love hearing about what makes people tick and why they love something. It shows there’s something going on up there and that’s an attractive quality!
 
Well I mean I love seeing someone just get excited about it. I know its a thing that some say like a woman not wanting to hear about your D&D character but me personally I think its adorable that my husband just gets giddy when he tells me about leveling up his wow character or he gives me the same smile as I tell him about my D&D game. I know he does not understand some of it...but he will let me blather on about it because he is a nice nice man. lol
 
That is because you were banned. You have been messaged as to why.
 
Why can I not log into chat? was my account banned. IF so I have screen shots of "mod" saying i was spamming for saying Hi and replying to those who greeted me. Also of the same mod mentioning toddlers in chat room and other members messaging me about the mod. "LookingForAMindatWork"

I have been a member for 8 years with no problems until now..

Laurel please help
Hi Maria.
Tried to pm you after chat. But unable to.
Message said not able to PM. You?
 
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This thread has some great input, thanks everyone!
Really? Which ones?
 
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