JoeSmith2022
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You should just go for it. The earlier the better.
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I totally understand! It is not something that you take lightly, especially in our world these days. I think a very close friend that you can build trust with is the key!It took several years of looking to finally find someone I could suck off and not worry afterwards.
"That's what queers do" is all the butt stuff, kissing, nip stuff.... All things that cross a line or are dangerous from my point of view. Can't bring anything home. I still get laid and want my home life to remain even if parts I took for granted no longer exist. You still would have to keep it a secret. Finding someone mutually satisfied with the simple, innocent, erotic pleasure of sharing a blow job for the fun of it is more the issue. Not disturbing or even destroying relationships you have now remains the same. Generally people continue to view mutual male nudity, a hand job or blow job as a gateway drug.The first few times I sucked dick was a friend in high school (1970s). Then he learned "that's what queers do" and refused to suck me or let me suck him anymore. The last time was in 2006 or 2007 with a hookup from the college where I was working. That's the last time. It's been FAR too long but as much as I don't like it I can't be open about it without disturbing or even destroying relationships I have now. If I could find someone on the down low and super discreet, then hell yeah I'd be doing it all the time.
I'm not racist. No question about it. When considering the possibility of this kind of this kind of promiscuity I despise when I am accused of being bi or gay or when others assume I want my ass violated. What makes them think I want to see their ass? I guess I am not willing to believe I am racist because I understand the existence or non existence of an Y chromosome. I just want a blow job and to enjoy showing my dick to someone who wants to see it or fellate me/it. If he or she wants me to return the favor I will. If I made it that far that was not a deal breaker. It has nothing to do with gender today. Gender yesterday when there were two, yes.I don't think I'm a racist, though others might disagree or even might be, themselves, and I honestly don't have a problem with people being the gender they're comfortable with. I just want someone to suck my dick, and if they have one, allow me to reciprocate...LOL
I hope I didn't offend you. It was not my intention and if I did I apologize.I'm not racist. No question about it. When considering the possibility of this kind of this kind of promiscuity I despise when I am accused of being bi or gay or when others assume I want my ass violated. What makes them think I want to see their ass? I guess I am not willing to believe I am racist because I understand the existence or non existence of an Y chromosome. I just want a blow job and to enjoy showing my dick to someone who wants to see it or fellate me/it. If he or she wants me to return the favor I will. If I made it that far that was not a deal breaker. It has nothing to do with gender today. Gender yesterday when there were two, yes.
I am not offended. I was compelled to write in case I inspired your comments. So much seems to go to the extreme here anymore. I feel sorry for those who need those extremes to get off. That does not make me racist.I hope I didn't offend you. It was not my intention and if I did I apologize.
I’m in thr same situation. I’ve had a strong interest for a few years, but am so worried about getting caught.I'm 55 and married (my wife has no idea about my bi curiosity; and she would but be ok with it if she was). I have wanted to try being with a guy for some time - especially giving head. The tricky thing for me is my schedule and having to be discreet so the Mrs doesn't find out. I also get nervous about being "caught" - as well as just nervous about crossing the line from curiosity to actual man sex.
I'm hoping to do something soon. I have had contact on line with a couple of guys that I feel comfortable
Don't know how you can resist knowing him so well. I'd simply tell my wife it's going to " boys night out " and I'd get a room so I'd finally be able to suck on his cock?! Easy peasyI haven't yet, but I have a friend I found on here a few years ago that at some point I'll suck his cock. We've been chatting for about 4 years now, we're somewhat local, but just haven't been able to line up schedules. We both work, have stay at home wives, and kids. We're friends on social media at this point as well. Just can't seem to plan anything around our busy schedules.
I think for guys like us, we just have to take the plunge and give it a try....I’m in thr same situation. I’ve had a strong interest for a few years, but am so worried about getting caught.
AgreedI think for guys like us, we just have to take the plunge and give it a try....
I wish it was that easy. At this point in my life, it's been many years since I've hung out with friends that didn't include my wife. Her and I both working from home makes it even more difficult to get away and be off the radar for a bit. It will happen. We're both being patient. For the time being, I think we both feel relieved we at least have a friend in real life that know each other's "secrets."Don't know how you can resist knowing him so well. I'd simply tell my wife it's going to " boys night out " and I'd get a room so I'd finally be able to suck on his cock?! Easy peasy![]()
I have never sucked cock, but dressed in my lingerie and fondling myself , I dream of sucking one off…especially if he was dressed as me! Of course , being 68 I would rather it be someone close to my age..This old daddy has never sucked a cock, but I've been jacking off thinking about for a long time now. I see a guy that I'd LOVE to suck off, but don't know if they'd say, "get out of here faggot." I just think if it ever happened with me, it would probably be another older guy 50's+ that I'd get to talking with and knowing a little then hint about my cock sucking fantasies. I do have a few guys that I know that I think about being on my knees for. I say, " if they only knew." I can't say 100% that I'd love but MAN the thought of it gets me so hard and excited. I love jacking off to gay porn, and say "take my virgin mouth, make me a cock sucking bitch."
No worries. You're secret is safe with me. Shame we're not closer or we'd be good friendsI wish it was that easy. At this point in my life, it's been many years since I've hung out with friends that didn't include my wife. Her and I both working from home makes it even more difficult to get away and be off the radar for a bit. It will happen. We're both being patient. For the time being, I think we both feel relieved we at least have a friend in real life that know each other's "secrets."