Is honesty the best policy

[luvslingerie200]

Mine must never know. She would not take the news well at all.

^^^^^^This^^^^^^

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

I think I am safe in saying most bi married guys have not come out to their wives. This question is addressed to you, but all are welcome to comment. If your wife asked you point blank if you were having gay sex, how would you respond?

I am not having gay sex, but if I were, I'd have obtained permission, by first telling my wife I had bisexual feelings

And then confessing I dream about bisexual fantasies

And then asking her for her explicit permission, as I made marital vows suggesting I would only be with her forever. Not even suggesting, explicitly.

So, it's up to her if I can or not.

I would absolutely tell my partners before I even got involved about my kinks. It's why I am on here.

I need some place where kink discussion is normalized and women are encouraged to be frank about their sexual desires and needs and not hide them.

I am then free to do the same.

 

[Horndauwg]

Mine must never know. She would not take the news well at all.

Mine either

 

[CharlieBoker]

I’m out to my wife, she knows I’m bisexual.

I have to repress my primal urges and strong desire for cock though, as she insists on monogamy.

I have so much to lose for just a little sexual fun so most of the time I see it as a fair compromise.

Sometimes though it does create inner conflict for me as I’m a free spirit at heart and would prefer to explore sexually.