Have you ever run into someone who instantly turned you on?

in regards to the O.P:

There were four women, of which, one was my wife, she was also the only one of the four who made me wait more than the night we met to have sex with me.

There were also three guys but only one of which I had oral sex with, the only guy I ever gave road head.
 
Yes, instant connection from across the room. We brushed past each other several times, then finally managed to sit at the bar together. Very intense connection and then she reached over and picked up my hand. I felt a zing from her touch all the way up my arm.

Just then my then wife came up and told the woman if she wanted my phone number to ask her - my wife. Instant buzz kill....
 
Several men but one in particular. We met at what was billed as a swinging singles party. This tall and handsome man asked me to dance and it was "on" from that point on. Both of us were divorced and very horny. We left the party early and he took me to his place where he did things for me that my first hubby never did. He's a great lover to this very day.
 
I feel it’s natural that if you see characteristics or qualities that you like, to be left turned on. I’ve taken plenty of second looks in my lifetime.
 
Phew, yeah. Years ago, I came across this blonde girl, she had the bluest eyes, the nicest smile, a soft voice, and sharp as a tack.
The moment I saw her, I wanted her. The more time we spent talking, the more my attraction grew.
Turned out she was into older men and as usual that meant older than me.

Fuck.
 
I use to go dancing, and if I am not somewhat turned on after 2 songs, well then there's no point even trying. (Assuming I am single - if I am happily full with oxitocine from all the cuddling and sex with a husband/boyfriend, it doesn't work that way with others.) It is not quite as dramatic as for some men, though.

But just seeing some stranger has never affected me so. It may be enough for me to be interested, but not to turn on. Need to get close enough to smell, it has something to do with pheromones.
 
My submissive makes me feel like a 13 year old boy going through puberty again... uncontrollable boners, stumbling on my words, I just want to fuck like a bunny rabbit around her...
 
Yeah!

A couple of years ago at work... She was about a decade or so younger than me, short, blonde (I'm usually a brunette person myself) and very curvy... Gorgeous smile.

Unfortunately she'd not long been married. 🤷
 
Oh absolutely! I think it must be a pheromone thing. It has happened a few times-conversation is casual, group setting nothing suggestive and then it just flips. I become increasingly aware of his smell, become aroused-hard nipples and wet, conversation seems to switch. I crave closeness. I have never cheated on my husband but in these instances-the attraction becomes mutual and I must leave quickly because I don’t trust myself.
The interactions left me aching and needy and led to some of the best solo sessions I’ve had.
 
Oh absolutely! I think it must be a pheromone thing. It has happened a few times-conversation is casual, group setting nothing suggestive and then it just flips. I become increasingly aware of his smell, become aroused-hard nipples and wet, conversation seems to switch. I crave closeness. I have never cheated on my husband but in these instances-the attraction becomes mutual and I must leave quickly because I don’t trust myself.
For me this has never happened when I have been happy in my relationship. And even if wasn't happy but there was enough cuddling, even then only twice.

But while single.... well it has led me to dating and sometimes even casual fucking (though the latter cases were utterly disappointing as it was physical only).
 
There was a Scottish surgeon at a Physician's conference who was stunning. Long red hair, green eyes, and nice compact little figure. When I heard her accent I could moisture forming down below. I couldn't take my eyes off of her. I'm not normally attracted to redheads, but I wanted to take her into an empty conference room.
 
Oh absolutely! I think it must be a pheromone thing. It has happened a few times-conversation is casual, group setting nothing suggestive and then it just flips. I become increasingly aware of his smell, become aroused-hard nipples and wet, conversation seems to switch. I crave closeness. I have never cheated on my husband but in these instances-the attraction becomes mutual and I must leave quickly because I don’t trust myself.
The interactions left me aching and needy and led to some of the best solo sessions I’ve had.
@The_Ghost_Man I wonder what my irl reaction would be to you…
 
Wise? Probably not.

Instant? You know I like to fan a spark, not light an instant bonfire. But definitely a spark.

Tempting? You already know the answer to this.
 
Wise? Probably not.
Agreed
Instant? You know I like to fan a spark, not light an instant bonfire. But definitely a spark.
But that’s the whole question, is it not?

Have you ever run into someone who instantly turned you on?​

I’ve had instant visceral reactions that don’t follow rhyme or reason and don’t give time to choose spark or bonfire..

Tempting? You already know the answer to this.
And this dear Ghost is where the fun lies.
 
So to answer the whole question, most definitely.

Three times that I can remember. Twice when I was single and once married.

The married one remains one of my fondest memories.
 
Maybe three times in my adult life, including one particular time at 18 where a biological reaction happened in a pair of sweatpants in an office, damn sexy glasses wearing, pen tip touching her tongue, cleavage showing milf 🙈
 
I feel the same way with this man I run into at a cafe near my work. The first time I saw him, I thought I has having hot flashes. 😆 The way his lips curve into a smile. His arms bulging under his shirt. His cologne and piercing blue eyes. Even the way he tolds his briefcase. My heart skips a beat every time.

I could devour him right there and then. Pure animal lust.
 
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