Help! sub trying to get her bf to be a dom

Juicy Details

K here it is.
I know its late, I'm sorry, work was crazy busy and my boss is an ass. As promised, I am going to give ya'll the juicy details of my weekend with my bf. First I feel I should let ya'll know what was left out. He wasn't comfortable with me calling him Sir (him being prior military, it just gave him too many bad memories). Which made it almost impossible for me to respond to anything since it didn't seem right to just call him by his name. So if you notice I say very little, that's why. We are going to work on a name he is comfortable with being called at a later date. And there was a part in my letter where I disobeyed him and he punished me by fucking my ass. From what I've read on here, normally that wouldn't be considered punishment, but since it hurts A LOT for me, it was definitely punishment for me. He wasn't cool with that because he knows how bad it hurts and he can't stand to see me cry. Oh, and since I hate the names people come up with for their ass holes.. i am just going to refer to it as my ass. I am also going to shorten his name to just J. All that being said, On with the show!

Grabbing me by the hair he pulls me close and breathes into my ear,
"Now you little slut, go to the bedroom, strip naked, kneel and wait for me." I nod softly and stand up to leave. As I walk away he smacks my ass hard and says,
"Did I say to go slowly slut? I think not. Now go!" I hurry down the hallway and go into the bedroom and strip as fast as I can. I kneel on the floor and wait for him.
After about five minutes he comes in and smiles a little at the sight of me waiting eagerly for him.
"Good girl, now undress me." He says. I stand and remove his shirt and shorts and underwear. He then pulls me close, kisses me, grabs me by the hair and forces me back to my knees.
"Get me hard." I take him into my mouth and begin to work his cock. I hear him moan softly when the blood starts rushing into his cock.
"Play with yourself little girl, and let me see." I open my knees and let him watch as I slide two fingers into myself. I feel a sharp pull on my hair.
"Did I say you could finger yourself? No, I want you to tease yourself, slowly. I want to make sure you are nice and wet for me." I pull my fingers out and slowly begin running them all over my pussy.
"Mm thats right, make yourself wet for me." I moan softly onto his cock. I keep working him till he is completely hard. Once he is hard he pushes me away and sits on the edge of the bed. I stare at him a little confused.
"Did I say you could stop?" I crawl over to him and again take him into my mouth.
"May I use my hands?" I ask tentatively. He nods and I being ho pump him as I run my tongue down his shaft and take each of his balls into my mouth. I hear him groan again as I run my tongue back up the shaft and take him completely into my mouth. I wrap my lips over my teeth and begin sliding him in and out of my mouth quickly. I hear him gasp and moan a little as his hands move to both sides of my head. He then takes control of me and makes me go faster and faster. When I feel his balls tighten a little and the cum build in the base of his cock, he pulls me off.
"Bend over the bed slut and finger yourself. And I swear to god if you cum you will regret it." I bend over the bed and slide my hand between my legs. I can feel my juices running down my the inside of my thighs as I slowly slide my fingers in and out of me.
"Faster." I begin pumping my fingers in and out of myself faster and I can feel my juices coating my hand.
"Please can I cum?" I whimper to him.
"No, and if you do you will be punished."
"Please? I am so close."
"I said no". He says sternly. With that, I hear him stand up and walk behind me. He grabs my hand and pulls it out. He then takes my fingers and rubs them around the outside of my ass. He then inserts one of my fingers into it slowly. I whimper a little as he pulls it out. My finger is soon replaced by his.
"Just in case you decide to disobey me slut". I then feel his cock pushing softly against the lips of my pussy. He teases me with the head a little and laughs as I whimper a little more. He then slides his cock into me halfway. I gasp at the intrusion and clench my muscles a little to situate him better. I get a sharp smack on the ass when I try to push him in deeper by rocking backwards.
"You aren't in control little girl, I am." He says as he rubs the spot he just smacked. I feel the pain blossom through my ass, but it is quickly replaced by pleasure as he reached between my legs and pinches my clit. I whimper some more and he slides his cock all the way inside. He then lets go of my clit and grabs my hips and beings thrusting into me so hard that I have to bite into the comforter to keep from screaming in pleasure. He reaches down and grabs me by the hair and pulls my head up.
"I like to hear you scream". He says as he pumps faster. He continues pumping till he feels me tighten up around him.
"Don't you dare cum slut." He says as he removes his finger, grabs my arm and flips me over onto my back. He continues pumping and reaches up to pinch and twist my nipple sharply. I moan loudly as his cock pushes against my g-spot.
"Please let me cum. I can't hold off much longer. Please J."
"No. Not yet, you don't want it bad enough" He says as he releases my nipple only to pinch my clit instead. That sends me over the edge and I feel my orgasm rip through my body like white hot fire. I cum so hard I nearly black out. Once I regain my senses he goes back to pumping, only slower this time.
"I didn't say you could come slut. Now I have to punish you." He says as he flips me again onto my back and insets two fingers into my ass. I cry out at the pain, which is soon mixed with pleasure as he begins fucking me harder than before. He soon matches the rhythm of his thrusts with the rhythm of his fingers as they work their way in and out of my ass. He leans forward and bites into my neck as I once again bury my face in the comforter.
"Move up further on the bed" he says as he pulls out. I whimper and scramble to get further up on the bed.
"Lie flat on your stomach." He tells me. I do as he says and I am rewarded with two fingers again in my ass. I whimper at the pain. I feel him push my legs together and slide back into me. I can feel his cock rub against the back of my clit and I moan loudly.
"Goddamn you feel so good" He says as he begins pumping again. I angle my hips upwards so he can go in deeper and I hear him moan loudly.
"Mmmm right there little girl. God you feel so good!" he says as he pumps harder and faster. I scream into the pillow again as I feel my orgasm building again.
"I am going to cum soon slut. You may cum when I do, and not a second before." He says. I can only moan an affirmative. He starts thrusting harder and harder and I can feel his cock swell a little inside of me.
"I am about to cum" he breathes. I feel him thrust one more time as he pumps his hot load into me. That feeling sends me over the edge again and my orgasm rips through my body making me scream out and arch my back into the mattress. He thrusts a few more times and then pulls out with a wet sucking sound. I whimper weakly at the loss.
"Good girl. Now clean yourself up. I'm hungry." He says as he grabs his clothes and leaves.

There ya have it ladies and gents. That was my Saturday night in all its juicy details. I know it isn't anything crazy and I know it seems somewhat tame for this thread. But as a starting point, I am pretty pleased with his performance and I cant wait to try it again this weekend, except this time we r introducing a few toys into the mix. And yes, I will fill ya'll in on that too if ya'll want
 
Sounds like an issue I have seen before, sadly from my point of view you can not make a Dom, it is built into who you are.
 
I agree that you can't "make" someone a Dom, but you can help them come out of their shell and explore, particularly if you have seen clues that they lean to a dominant way
 
There ya have it ladies and gents. That was my Saturday night in all its juicy details. I know it isn't anything crazy and I know it seems somewhat tame for this thread. But as a starting point, I am pretty pleased with his performance and I cant wait to try it again this weekend, except this time we r introducing a few toys into the mix. And yes, I will fill ya'll in on that too if ya'll want

That was hot :)
 
Question.

So, a few of ya'll have mentioned to me that you would enjoy reading the letter. Since I have no issue with that cause it doesn't reveal anything incriminating, I am putting the question to ya'll? Do ya'll want to see the letter? If you do I will be happy to post, but if not I can just fill ya'll in on my weekend (which so far has been little if not eventful). My wonderfully intelligent bf went fishing for nine hours on Thursday and didn't wear any form of sunscreen so now he is as red as a tomato and is in so much pain he can barely have me touch him (which kills me because I am a very physical person). So needless to say, last night nothing interesting happened other than his roommate beating on the wall telling me to shut up, but that's normal.. I am hoping to be able to see him tonight.. lets hope he isnt in so much pain.
 
I have just read all of your posts and I am so glad it worked out for you. I am in the same situation, but I haven't said anything to my fiance at all yet. I find it hard to bring the subject up, he is out of the country for a few weeks so I've been reading up online about suggestions about how to approach it.

Can anyone suggest what I can say to him when I bring it up for the very first time?
 
Oooh! ooh! pick me!! pick me!!

Well, I approached the subject to my bf in a covert way.. i would start by telling him about the stories I liked to read and what happened in them and when he didnt immediately go "ewww thats gross" i kinda took it as a green light. I also started asking him to hold me down and to go harder. Once I realized he liked it as much as I did, I told him I wanted him to see a side of me that few people had seen and I let him know that I really was uncomfortable with it, but he was understanding and took it all in stride. I dont know if this helped, but for me I had to test the waters first. Mention things to him and when he doesnt freak out totally, be like "would that be something you want to try?" leave the decision up to him, it makes people who are unsure a little more comfortable. But do make sure to let him know either way it wont bother you. No pressure will give you a more honest answer.
 
K new stuff

I know its been a while, but after a lot of sex, and a little cajoling, we finally got some pics taken. They are fairly recent and all of me

I dont have any ink or steel yet so they seem a little vanilla, but I figured yall would like to see the progress we've made so here is my pic thread

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=718680
 
WOW. Congrats on things working out so well, and thanks for sharing the (very) juicy details!!:devil:
 
wow, well huh. If that's how it went then good for you!
My own personal experience -
vanilla marriage of 15 years - tried to get him to be Dom. "I don't wannna hurt you - I can't call you that - you're a MOTHER!"
Insults
Resentment
Divorce
Now, I am happy!!! hahahahaha
But hey, if it went the way you described for you? You're a damn lucky girl!
 
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