Hots for trans chick at work

[Escierto]

After reading every response to this thread, I have a 50,000 foot question. It seems as though almost every responder felt that the trans woman deserves the same respect, consideration, and support that a cis-woman would get. Some comments were harsh toward the OP and some tried to help him see the error of his ways more constructively. So, with most of us sympathetic to the plight of a trans woman, and presumably the same for trans men, how can I understand the vehement, hateful efforts of several state governments urging legislation against the trans community. The people here (including me by the way) seem to exhibit a live-and-let-live mentality for trans people while the politicians we elect are out to eliminate them. Or have I missed something?

What you have here in these comments is a small sample of the population which do not represent the majority of people in the conservative states. I live in Texas where most people definitely do NOT have a live and let live mentality.

 

[Britva415]

have I missed something?

Lit forum users population is not representative of any real-life population in any real-life geographic area. Almost everyone on here is an outlier in some way, either by writing erotica, or by reading it, or by using Lit to actively chat to other people about sexual stuff.

A given geographic area might have quite a lot of people who wish trans people would be left alone or, even better, taken seriously and respected, but that same area may have even more people who will go ahead and vote for a candidate with actively transphobic policy goals.

 

[markchamberlain]

Does that seem reasonable or am I a prude and a selfish asshole?

IMHO people are being too harsh in their replies. There is nothing wrong with wanting /not wanting anything. That is just your sexuality, and it's not inferior to anyone else's. What matters is how you treat the person. And people seem to be assuming you aren't a fit, but in fact we don't know that. Maybe she lives and breathes just to suck cock, and you match perfectly. Unlikely, but not impossible. As long as you are respectful and considerate, I don't think being attracted in a specific way makes you a bad person.

 

[drobert44]

O hell yes.

My sissy loves when I suck her clit.

 

[MostHated]

What you have here in these comments is a small sample of the population which do not represent the majority of people in the conservative states. I live in Texas where most people definitely do NOT have a live and let live mentality.

I'm curious where you're getting these statistics.
I'm a Texan as well and while there are certainly plenty of people have an outdated view of many subjects, the same can be said for California. How many people there can have a conservative view and not get loads of hate for that alone?

It always amuses me when people try to shit on Texas, and yet here they live. There's plenty of other states that might better align with your needs and desires

I'm not picking on California, just using it as an example of how intolerance can go in both directions.

To the OP's question, I think you may be attracted to what this woman looks like, but have the added curiosity of her being Trans, and possibly giving you something new to consider. But you can't reasonably expect her to hide parts of her anatomy, or to simply give you pleasure and not get any in return. It's easy enough to see and accept her as the woman that has attracted you regardless of why.

If you're interested in a sexual encounter with a Trans woman, that must include stipulations, you may want to consider contacting a Trans escort.

 

[Escierto]

I'm curious where you're getting these statistics.
I'm a Texan as well and while there are certainly plenty of people have an outdated view of many subjects, the same can be said for California. How many people there can have a conservative view and not get loads of hate for that alone?

It always amuses me when people try to shit on Texas, and yet here they live. There's plenty of other states that might better align with your needs and desires

I'm not picking on California, just using it as an example of how intolerance can go in both directions.

To the OP's question, I think you may be attracted to what this woman looks like, but have the added curiosity of her being Trans, and possibly giving you something new to consider. But you can't reasonably expect her to hide parts of her anatomy, or to simply give you pleasure and not get any in return. It's easy enough to see and accept her as the woman that has attracted you regardless of why.

If you're interested in a sexual encounter with a Trans woman, that must include stipulations, you may want to consider contacting a Trans escort.

Since you brought it up, here it is.

When I came to Texas in 1991, believe it or not, the state was completely Democratic. True many of them were conservative Democrats but you can't tell me there is not a world of difference between Governor Ann Richards (then) and Greg Abbott (now)?

What happened in the 40 years since 1991? White Anglos used to be a comfortable majority and never felt threatened by minorities or the possibility of shifting power. Over the years, the population of minorities has increased to the point that white Anglos are now a minority. Because they fear anyone who is not straight and white, they are now obsessed with maintaining white supremacy.

Gerrymandering, vote suppression, the elimination of basic civil rights is now the order of the day. Thanks to the virulent brand of White Christian nationalism popular among the white minority, an agenda of hate fuels Texas politics. The Texas of 1991 was a live and let live place but the Texas of 2024 is a dystopian nightmare.

I still live here because my children and grandchildren are here but we are trying to decide on somewhere else we can all move to. Yes, I hate what this place has become. It is now a shithole.

 

[MostHated]

Since you brought it up, here it is.

When I came to Texas in 1991, believe it or not, the state was completely Democratic. True many of them were conservative Democrats but you can't tell me there is not a world of difference between Governor Ann Richards (then) and Greg Abbott (now)?

What happened in the 40 years since 1991? White Anglos used to be a comfortable majority and never felt threatened by minorities or the possibility of shifting power. Over the years, the population of minorities has increased to the point that white Anglos are now a minority. Because they fear anyone who is not straight and white, they are now obsessed with maintaining white supremacy.

Gerrymandering, vote suppression, the elimination of basic civil rights is now the order of the day. Thanks to the virulent brand of White Christian nationalism popular among the white minority, an agenda of hate fuels Texas politics. The Texas of 1991 was a live and let live place but the Texas of 2024 is a dystopian nightmare.

I still live here because my children and grandchildren are here but we are trying to decide on somewhere else we can all move to. Yes, I hate what this place has become. It is now a shithole.

Well it's a shame you feel that way, but I'd go so far to say I think a lot of what you said is all in your head.

For the record, I'm not bloodsworn to either corrupt political party (but I won't turn this into a politics thing.) but I will say that I believe the division in this country is going to destroy it, and there's nothing anybody can do this late in the game to stop it. That being said, I believe there's reactionary politics in play here, but that has happening in every state for years now.

You don't get to speak for all 'White Anglos', and I have certainly never felt threatened by diversity, or any 'shifting power' although I don't see much power shifting from my lens. I do believe there is a 'we're the last bastion of normalcy' vibe that can easily bubble to the surface here, but I don't see that tied to any ridiculous belief that those evil White christian men caused all the problems (those evil White christian men are largely responsible for building the country to a place where many others wanted to immigrate to, and contribute their share to the success we've enjoyed, until recently), that's not some veiled nod to how things always have to be, it's just a fact.

Also, I'm not a christian, so I'm not pandering, just seeing things differently than you (remember back when people could disagree and not be cunts to each other?)

What 'basic civil rights' have been eliminated here? Are you confusing 'White Christian Nationalism' with 'Texas Pride'? Because everyone I know counts themselves fortunate to be a Texan. No I'm not talking about the characters that carry on constantly about how Texas is the best country in the nation, but I'm talking about people that realize we've got an incredibly strong economy here, we're a diverse state, and that Texas pride thing I mentioned, I've seen people of every nationality mirror that ere, well, aside from the people from California that have been flooding in and complaining that things don't make sense here lol.

I couldn't tell you what I think of Texas 1991 vs 2024 as that's before my time, but I can tell you I've definitely seen changes for the worse, but it's not been isolated to Texas, it's been due to the incredibly divisive political climate in the country.

I feel badly for you having to live somewhere you'd rather not, but I think you'll find that everything you have here, isn't so easy to duplicate elsewhere, I say that because far more people move into Texas, than move out of Texas.

 

[Escierto]

Well it's a shame you feel that way, but I'd go so far to say I think a lot of what you said is all in your head.

For the record, I'm not bloodsworn to either corrupt political party (but I won't turn this into a politics thing.) but I will say that I believe the division in this country is going to destroy it, and there's nothing anybody can do this late in the game to stop it. That being said, I believe there's reactionary politics in play here, but that has happening in every state for years now.

You don't get to speak for all 'White Anglos', and I have certainly never felt threatened by diversity, or any 'shifting power' although I don't see much power shifting from my lens. I do believe there is a 'we're the last bastion of normalcy' vibe that can easily bubble to the surface here, but I don't see that tied to any ridiculous belief that those evil White christian men caused all the problems (those evil White christian men are largely responsible for building the country to a place where many others wanted to immigrate to, and contribute their share to the success we've enjoyed, until recently), that's not some veiled nod to how things always have to be, it's just a fact.

Also, I'm not a christian, so I'm not pandering, just seeing things differently than you (remember back when people could disagree and not be cunts to each other?)

What 'basic civil rights' have been eliminated here? Are you confusing 'White Christian Nationalism' with 'Texas Pride'? Because everyone I know counts themselves fortunate to be a Texan. No I'm not talking about the characters that carry on constantly about how Texas is the best country in the nation, but I'm talking about people that realize we've got an incredibly strong economy here, we're a diverse state, and that Texas pride thing I mentioned, I've seen people of every nationality mirror that ere, well, aside from the people from California that have been flooding in and complaining that things don't make sense here lol.

I couldn't tell you what I think of Texas 1991 vs 2024 as that's before my time, but I can tell you I've definitely seen changes for the worse, but it's not been isolated to Texas, it's been due to the incredibly divisive political climate in the country.

I feel badly for you having to live somewhere you'd rather not, but I think you'll find that everything you have here, isn't so easy to duplicate elsewhere, I say that because far more people move into Texas, than move out of Texas.

In my head, huh? Let me tell you a story.

For a long time back we lived on a ranch in a rural conservative county. We knew the sheriff quite well. He always ran as a Republican but we respected him and voted for him. His son is now married to my daughter. When the politics turned dark, he quit as sheriff and is now retired. They spend as much time as possible in Colorado.

My advice to you is to spend as much time as possible in the other 49 states. Texans think they live in the greatest place there is. The sad thing is it actually used to be true. In the forty years I have been here every year is worse than the last. It is unbelievable to me just how much hatred and animosity there is out there. It's true people move here but then they find how awful it is and they want to get out. Not so easy to do sometimes.

 

[MostHated]

In my head, huh? Let me tell you a story.

For a long time back we lived on a ranch in a rural conservative county. We knew the sheriff quite well. He always ran as a Republican but we respected him and voted for him. His son is now married to my daughter. When the politics turned dark, he quit as sheriff and is now retired. They spend as much time as possible in Colorado.

Politics have turned dark, but it's dark on both sides of the spectrum, not just one. It's still a huge problem, and it exists in the rest of the country as well.

My advice to you is to spend as much time as possible in the other 49 states. Texans think they live in the greatest place there is. The sad thing is it actually used to be true. In the forty years I have been here every year is worse than the last. It is unbelievable to me just how much hatred and animosity there is out there. It's true people move here but then they find how awful it is and they want to get out. Not so easy to do sometimes.

Aside from Texas, I've lived in several states, just to see if the grass was ever greener, and for me, it never has been. Also, it's getting worse across the entire country, not just in Texas. What we need in this country is unity, and the only thing that creates that, sadly, is a common enemy.

Anyway, I've hijacked this thread and apologize, so I'll slip back into the shadows.

 

[eric_erosfan]

After reading every response to this thread, I have a 50,000 foot question. It seems as though almost every responder felt that the trans woman deserves the same respect, consideration, and support that a cis-woman would get. Some comments were harsh toward the OP and some tried to help him see the error of his ways more constructively. So, with most of us sympathetic to the plight of a trans woman, and presumably the same for trans men, how can I understand the vehement, hateful efforts of several state governments urging legislation against the trans community. The people here (including me by the way) seem to exhibit a live-and-let-live mentality for trans people while the politicians we elect are out to eliminate them. Or have I missed something?

I had a conversation with a right leaning friend about trans people. Because I said who cares. Let people live in freedom. His biggest thing is letting kids transition. So I think that is the biggest gripe with the bigots. Well that and trans women playing in women's sports.

At least you don't hear as many think perverted men are just trying to piss next to women.

 

[sarod]

Didn't know she was trans at first and had all kinds of fantasies. We had become good friends before I knew she was trans. She wears very tight jeans but I've never seen any bulge. At first I was turned off by it but I'm starting to have fantasies about her but it's not even the trans part. I'm a bit of a homophobe and would only want her to suck my cock or let me fuck her in the ass as long as I don't see her junk. Does that seem reasonable or am I a prude and a selfish asshole

Definitely the latter. Just get it out of your head that you are straight. You had these thoughts, now own up to them. You can't possibly be a homophobe and want to have sex with a transitioned boy to girl. You have crossed the line, you are now on the lgbtq+ side of things yourself. Don't think you are still straight, you can't have your cake and eat it too. Accept it, and move on, you had the thought, but did you die? No.

 

[sarod]

Dude wants to have her suck his cock or fuck her in the ass, but not see her junk? You don't just go to an all you can eat buffet and just eat at the salad bar only. You try every delicious morsel that is offered. That dick would be the first thing I would sample!

 

[write_or_wrong]

I had a conversation with a right leaning friend about trans people. Because I said who cares. Let people live in freedom. His biggest thing is letting kids transition. So I think that is the biggest gripe with the bigots. Well that and trans women playing in women's sports.

At least you don't hear as many think perverted men are just trying to piss next to women.

Thanks, Eric. Your observation about kids transitioning caused me to remember how forceful some parents are with schools. They berate school systems over what books are in their libraries, what courses are taught, and whether concepts like DEI and critical race theory are taught. All in the name of letting parents decide what's good for their own kids. In that vein, why shouldn't parents have the right to take appropriate steps to treat their kid's gender dysphoria? In some states helping anyone under 18 with hormone or surgical therapy is considered child abuse. Isn't that hypocrisy?