How’s your married sex life?

Usually 2-3 times a week but if life gets in the way - kids, illness, stress, timing - it can sometimes be more than a week at which point we use the code “we’re being stupid”to schedule time without the kids knowing.
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We just had our 38th anniversary. The sex is, and always has been great, although maybe less frequent as we get older. We’re both fortunately about the same shape physically as when we got married. Looks may fade slightly over time, but there’s more to sexuality than physical appearance. Personality, intelligence, sensuality, love are traits I can think of off the top of my head that seem to grow over time and are perhaps more important than our physical shell.

Maybe I’ve had relationships with wilder women, done more exotic sex acts, maybe gotten a better blowjob from someone else. But that’s only the physical part of sex. Yes, that’s super important. But the combination of all the other factors, the non-physical things that stimulate your brain, create a more lasting relationship that makes each sexual encounter with that special person not just physical but emotional also.

I get that sometimes we need just the physical act; pure animal lust. And that could be with anyone. But having a physical AND emotional connection is nice too.
 
Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled😆
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.
Very envious
 
We just had our 38th anniversary. The sex is, and always has been great, although maybe less frequent as we get older. We’re both fortunately about the same shape physically as when we got married. Looks may fade slightly over time, but there’s more to sexuality than physical appearance. Personality, intelligence, sensuality, love are traits I can think of off the top of my head that seem to grow over time and are perhaps more important than our physical shell.

Maybe I’ve had relationships with wilder women, done more exotic sex acts, maybe gotten a better blowjob from someone else. But that’s only the physical part of sex. Yes, that’s super important. But the combination of all the other factors, the non-physical things that stimulate your brain, create a more lasting relationship that makes each sexual encounter with that special person not just physical but emotional also.

I get that sometimes we need just the physical act; pure animal lust. And that could be with anyone. But having a physical AND emotional connection is nice too.
U nailed it!
 
Both 69
2 or 3 times a week is plenty for me....married 46 years it does get sort of ho hum been there done that
My problem is she wants more sex,
Both good health, in shape

Shouldn't be bitching at least she loves sex
Have you seen any differences in how well you can do the positions as you get older, perhaps due to the natural retreat of mobility as one gets older?
 
Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled😆
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.
You sound like the perfect wife flashing truckers going to clubs and video booths and wearing sheer tops do you know how many men wish they had a woman like you.
 
Married 25 years. Sex 1-2 times a month. Wife always talks about having it more but kids, work etc and it hasn't happened. She cums like crazy so that makes it tolerable at least in terms of the quality but even that needs some variety. I've recently been very explicit with her about my coping with porn, what I like and our need for more eroticism in our marriage and she's been very receptive despite her conservative, religious background. It will take continued effort and prodding but I'm optimistic.
 
Married 16 years and we have sex pretty much everyday. It wasn’t always this way. We’ve had our dry spells but currently we’ve spiced things up with some extracurricular activities

What kind of activities? To spice things up? Could you give some examples?
 
How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go
sex less sucks
 
How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go
I'm nearly 78, she's nearly 77, 4 weeks from our 54th anniversary. Not as wild and crazy as in decades past, but we still can ring the bell, if you get my drift.
 
Definitely not as often as when we were in our 20’s but still good. Went through menopause where sex was painful for her for a while, but she got some estrogen treatment and with some lube it pleasurable for her again. Also I’ve matured and will not stop until she has her orgasm so I would say the pleasure is magnified as you get older and communicate your issues.
 
Yes its going really well.
We both care for eachother in all ways.
Happy with lit forum we spend time together.
 
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