Everyday Sex - Ours (and Your) Sex Diary

[Wonderer67]

I don't know what I find more frustrating.

Having to think about sexier things to stay aroused with your partner; or not being able to reach that climax you've been looking forward to for weeks, and almost forcing it.

It's like your brain refuses to surrender the happy juices.

Yeah. It happens sometimes.

As I get older, I find that sex slows down a bit, the parts don’t work as keenly as they used to.

It def takes me longer to cum, these days.

I can be frustrating, but all in all a good problem to have.
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Sex has taken a back seat to every day stuff that’s coming at us/me this week and next. I have a big project popping at work, taking a long weekend, and trying to find some time with my daughter which is proving to be elusive, since she’s coaching club volleyball right now.

 

[Wonderer67]

This morning (well yesterday morning now, technically) was a mixed bag.

I have not been sleeping well this week. Having bad dreams and nightmares and had a very visceral one right before wakeup.

My wife is always good to me. Bless her: she puts up with a lot. I was not aroused at all. It was bad… I was sort of shaking. But tried to focus on sex and it wasn’t too long before I got a hard on and refocused. We fucked a bit in spoons position altho I was having a little trouble keeping my hard on.

I was gonna shower and go to work so I cleaned her up down there with my tongue and mouth. Then I decided “what the hell” and spanked her pussy w my cock till it got hard and we fucked fairly hard in missionary. I like being dominant this way and holding her arms or wrists and I fuck her hard.

I cleaned her off again and she returned the favor and sucked me clean. I began masturbating over her face and she dirty talked me. Normally she wouldn’t let me cum, but she was talking dirty.

Her: cum all over my face. I want it.
Me: I wanna cum on you.
Her: cum on my face, baby.
Me: really? (I wasn’t sure if she was just dirty talking or meant it! )
Her: no. You can’t cum for another month. Maybe next year!
Me: please?? I really need it, hon.
Her: no. No cumming.
Me: hon. I really need this today.
Her: ok. Just not in my eyes or mouth.

So I did cum on her check. Some shot really hard and I got some in her hair. But some did get in her mouth.

She is not a huge fan.

But it did help my mental state a bit. Thanks babe.

She’s a wonderful lady. She just joined lit, so you may hear her perspective.

 

[ZfrkS62]

This morning (well yesterday morning now, technically) was a mixed bag.

I have not been sleeping well this week. Having bad dreams and nightmares and had a very visceral one right before wakeup.

My wife is always good to me. Bless her: she puts up with a lot. I was not aroused at all. It was bad… I was sort of shaking. But tried to focus on sex and it wasn’t too long before I got a hard on and refocused. We fucked a bit in spoons position altho I was having a little trouble keeping my hard on.

I was gonna shower and go to work so I cleaned her up down there with my tongue and mouth. Then I decided “what the hell” and spanked her pussy w my cock till it got hard and we fucked fairly hard in missionary. I like being dominant this way and holding her arms or wrists and I fuck her hard.

I cleaned her off again and she returned the favor and sucked me clean. I began masturbating over her face and she dirty talked me. Normally she wouldn’t let me cum, but she was talking dirty.

Her: cum all over my face. I want it.
Me: I wanna cum on you.
Her: cum on my face, baby.
Me: really? (I wasn’t sure if she was just dirty talking or meant it! )
Her: no. You can’t cum for another month. Maybe next year!
Me: please?? I really need it, hon.
Her: no. No cumming.
Me: hon. I really need this today.
Her: ok. Just not in my eyes or mouth.

So I did cum on her check. Some shot really hard and I got some in her hair. But some did get in her mouth.

She is not a huge fan.

But it did help my mental state a bit. Thanks babe.

She’s a wonderful lady. She just joined lit, so you may hear her perspective.

My wife has asked for it in the face twice. Both times i asked her if she was sure and she chickened out. I told her next time, I'm not going to double check. There has not been a next time I don't really like facials in porn. Just doesn't do anything for me.



Sorry you're struggling at the moment. How it turns around soon.







So, Sunday morning, I woke up and did some cat/cow stretches in bed because my back was a little sore. If you're unfamiliar with these, you're on your hands and knees and arch your back upward like an angry cat, and then bow it downward like a cow. She started waking up and running her hand up my thigh, then gripped my cock and started stroking once i got hard.



It's been roughly a year I think, if but a little less, since I told her she can be a little more aggressive with my balls. So now she's squeezing and slapping them. Not enough to cause pain, but enough discomfort that it feels good when she releases. Sometimes they'll ache for a bit after we play and I'm finding that i enjoy it.



I let her play for a bit, shifting from being parallel to her, to perpendicular across her body. I'm trying to get her to be more dominant and have fun when I'm in a submissive position. It's not really taking.



She got up to pee and when she came back, I made sure i was on my back. I opened my legs so she could get between them, hoping she'd continue the hand work, but instead she lied her shirt and laid on top of me with my cock between her tits. My legs wrapped around her and I started rocking like she does when I'm on top. She'll probably never connect the dots. Her tits aren't made for fucking. They're fat B cups, but don't have enough to really envelop my dick. It took a little while but eventually I unloaded between us. I was disappointed she didn't make me lick her clean.



Later she would say she was thinking of asking me if i wanted lube, and i told her that there was a bottle on my nightstand right next to us, and she has 2 bottles in her nightstand. She could have just grabbed one.

I don't get it sometimes.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife has asked for it in the face twice. Both times i asked her if she was sure and she chickened out. I told her next time, I'm not going to double check. There has not been a next time I don't really like facials in porn. Just doesn't do anything for me.

I do enjoy facials but my wife doesn’t love it. Every blue moon or so, she will allow it. One of the first times we were together doing a facial she got cum in her eye, and that was that!

Sorry you're struggling at the moment. How it turns around soon.

No worries. That’s how life is sometimes and ya gotta take the good with the bad.

It's been roughly a year I think, if but a little less, since I told her she can be a little more aggressive with my balls. So now she's squeezing and slapping them. Not enough to cause pain, but enough discomfort that it feels good when she releases. Sometimes they'll ache for a bit after we play and I'm finding that i enjoy it.

This is a good example of communication at work. Our spouses are not mind readers and if you like something you have to express it.

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We went away last weekend and I took Monday off. But we were in someone s home staying with friends so no sex. Thjs week has been stressful and I’ve been working late. TUE and WED nite and even last nite we met my daughter and her boyfriend for dinner so didn’t get home till 8:30.

Just a lot going on. I’m not feeling sexual. There’s some tension between my wife and I at the moment. Nothing that we won’t get thru, but holidays, tons of work and a few other stressors are dampening things right now.

 

[Wonderer67]

We haven’t had sex in maybe a week and a half or so. As I described last post, there’s a lot of stuff going on personally, in our professional lives and also with our farm.

I was really horny this morning and watching some porn and on lit.

My wife needed a little bit of time to get warmed up and wasnt quite in the mood. But we sort of synced up about an hour ago. Started with some very nice caressing and loving kissing. Then some more kissing. Man do I like kissing!

I was hard as a rock and turned her over. I found her pussy with the end of my cock and started rubbing it till it got quite wet. Then I pushed inside her… took a few minutes, but once I was inside her, I could feel all of her wetness. We made slow and passionate love from behind. It was really quite erotic and loving. I did eventually build up some speed till she had a nice little orgasm.

The we switched positions to another one of our favorites: missionary off the side of the bed. I was still making love to her slowly and deeply, mixing in short thrusts and long deep ones, but still going nice and slow. I wasn’t anywhere near cumming and it felt great and powerful.

I slowly picked up speed, and soon I was ramming her pretty hard. Grabbing onto her waist, or grabbing her wrists or arms and being quite dominant. It felt great and I was not anywhere near cumming still, and she was having one orgasm after another - some so powerful, she had to push me out of her as she came.

One trick that works for us is that I crouch down a little bit low when I fuck her in this position and fuck slightly upward as I thrust , so the curve on my penis is maximized on her G spot.

I just love tuning into her orgasms and making her cum!

 

[Wonderer67]

Pt2

I did not cum, but needed a short rest, so I hopped back in bed and we cuddled a little bit, and I felt waves of pleasure — little body orgasms I call them. She was having them and so was I.

But I was ready for more, and so we resumed missionary position off the side of the bed. Pretty much a carbon copy of before. I crouched a little bit lower in my stance so I could fuck more upwards and we fucked quite hard and she came several more times. She was just cumming and cumming and I love that.

She was done at that point. Fucked out. But I was still game. She had me put the little attachment on the end of her Hitachi and I fucked that for a little while off the side of the bed. She likes looking at my face as I do that.

I got pretty close and fantasized about fucking her ass (which is off limits) as I watched my cock go into the round sleeve and get surrounded like a gaped asshole.

Did that for about five more minutes and then crawled into bed and felt more body orgasms. I guess I’m a glutton for punishment because I wanted some more stimulation, so I lay in bed and masturbated myself with the Hitachi’s sleeve while she watched and helped a little bit. Maybe for about five more mins.

I want a little bit too far and I felt my orgasm coming and I was past the point of no return. Although she did not say I could cum, there was nothing I could do about it, and I took the sleeve off, and then had a powerful and large ruined orgasm. The cum shot went all the way up my chest and armpit.

It was a hard orgasm and felt really good. I think it was just what I needed, because I feel much calmer and at more peace.

My wife has just joined literotica, and she promised me she was going to comment on this little bit later.

We were just watching a movie, “He said she said”, and she would like to give her perspective… uh-oh!

 

[Mrswonderer]

We were just watching a movie, “He said she said”, and she would like to give her perspective… uh-oh!

This is Wonderers Wife.. I wanted sex this
morning And I got it..slow loving with kissing then his big hard cock appears then enters me from behind .. WOweeee. I was so wet and loving his hands on me pulling me in.
We were both orgasming with our cores contracting with each new thrust.

Told him he cant cum today.. but eventually he went to far and out shot loads of cum with his penis looking for attention.. it was ruined but so good.. love it !!

He was relaxed and i was purring happy having watched him ram the sleeve of pleasure attached to my vibrator.

We cuddled and love our love making.. wet snd hard..

Now on with our day..

 

[ZfrkS62]

I don't even know where to start right now.

My birthday was earlier this month, so i sent the dog to daycare for the weekend, hoping for a little uninterrupted sexy time. Saturday and Sunday pass with little intimate interaction. Monday, she finally tried to climb on top but with zero foreplay aside from a quick grope and maybe some dirty talk. She wasn't really wet, at least not as much as she maybe thought she was, and kept trying to wiggle around to get everything lined up. Was not working for me. I ended up grabbing the lube from my nightstand and helping her out. It ended up being a quick fuck, furthering my disappointment.

Nothing else really happened the rest of the week, but Thursday she had a dental appointment and they took her blood pressure which ended up being elevated. This ended up bothering her more than I think it should have and sent her into an anxiety spiral. These go one of two ways. Either constant worrying and verbalizing her fears while sobbing, or distracting herself with sex. Fortunately, we've ended up with the latter.

I don't think we did anything Friday night, but Saturday morning she did her best to a actually go down on me. Her usual oral foreplay is to distractedly flick her tongue under the tip, maybe lick around it. This time she was actually taking what she was comfortable with in her mouth. She has a weak gag reflex, so she'll never try taking it all. I did my best to tell her what i liked and tried encouraging different techniques but it wasn't really doing a lot for me. I think it's so rare that she does it that i have trouble getting into it and taking it seriously.

She eventually gestured for me to 69 her which she was into for about a minute before wanting me inside her. She pushed me down and got on top where she rode me to a soft orgasm and shortly after lifted off once i started indicating i was close. I ended up cumming on her ass cheek and my stomach.


Later in the day we were meeting up with my former muse and her boyfriend for my birthday lunch, which eventually got pushed back by an hour, which we used to go a second, intense round. I ended up fucking her hard on the edge of the bed and finished on the landing strip i gave her several weeks ago. We quickly cleaned up and headed out.

That night she came to bed wearing a lacy bralette and matching thong. She was impressed at how amazing her tits looked in the bra and I couldn't find a flaw in her reasoning, so it stayed on. I don't remember this set, or the last time she wore a thong in general. She wasn't trying to get laid but we ended up trying it. Unfortunately we couldn't get synced up. She attempted to start off in reverse cowgirl after pulling her thong to the side, but we couldn't get lined up. I started losing my erection from the struggle, so i figured I'd pull her underwear off and make her straddle my face. She was getting into it, but I just couldn't for some odd reason. Not sure a lack of trying on either of our parts, but when I'd finally get hard, she wasn't wet. The long cunnilingus session couldn't bring her off either, but she was ok with it. We made up for it Sunday morning. I couldn't finish though which was fine.

Yesterday i finally got her to look at ac website that is the result of a long, clinical study of women's pleasure. There are 300+ videos and animations of women describing and some graphically demonstrating what works for them, plus articles with tips for being able to let go and be in the moment. She was onboard with signing up, so i bought access to the full catalog. Hopefully that will lead to some new things.

 

[Mrswonderer]

Wonderers wife here-
He is on a biz trip..Im orgasming just thinking of the send off sex this morning
Kissing so sensuously then my pjs pants pulled down and I’m super wet after a few minutes of fucking.
I know he has to get going so he goes down to clean me up with his mouth.. then he pulls me to the edge of the bed and enters me hard again.. rubbing his cock on me till I cum again and again.. ahhh feels so great!!
I returned the favor by sucking him off and hand jobbing till he took over..
I told him he cant cum yet.. maybe next year .
He has staying power and can go on for soooo long.. but not today..
We will masterbate together on FaceTime tomorrow. I-miss him already .

 

[Wonderer67]

Wonderers wife here-
He is on a biz trip..Im orgasming just thinking of the send off sex this morning
Kissing so sensuously then my pjs pants pulled down and I’m super wet after a few minutes of fucking.
I know he has to get going so he goes down to clean me up with his mouth.. then he pulls me to the edge of the bed and enters me hard again.. rubbing his cock on me till I cum again and again.. ahhh feels so great!!
I returned the favor by sucking him off and hand jobbing till he took over..
I told him he cant cum yet.. maybe next year .
He has staying power and can go on for soooo long.. but not today..
We will masterbate together on FaceTime tomorrow. I-miss him already .

Oh babe. I know we just talked but this is so sweet to see.

I would have told it differently but that is what makes life so great - everyone’s different perceptions of things.

Like I said, I know we just talked and texted, but funny meeting up w you here! I’ll talk to ya tomrrow am.

 

[Wonderer67]

I don't even know where to start right now.

My birthday was earlier this month, so i sent the dog to daycare for the weekend, hoping for a little uninterrupted sexy time. Saturday and Sunday pass with little intimate interaction. Monday, she finally tried to climb on top but with zero foreplay aside from a quick grope and maybe some dirty talk. She wasn't really wet, at least not as much as she maybe thought she was, and kept trying to wiggle around to get everything lined up. Was not working for me. I ended up grabbing the lube from my nightstand and helping her out. It ended up being a quick fuck, furthering my disappointment.

Nothing else really happened the rest of the week, but Thursday she had a dental appointment and they took her blood pressure which ended up being elevated. This ended up bothering her more than I think it should have and sent her into an anxiety spiral. These go one of two ways. Either constant worrying and verbalizing her fears while sobbing, or distracting herself with sex. Fortunately, we've ended up with the latter.

I don't think we did anything Friday night, but Saturday morning she did her best to a actually go down on me. Her usual oral foreplay is to distractedly flick her tongue under the tip, maybe lick around it. This time she was actually taking what she was comfortable with in her mouth. She has a weak gag reflex, so she'll never try taking it all. I did my best to tell her what i liked and tried encouraging different techniques but it wasn't really doing a lot for me. I think it's so rare that she does it that i have trouble getting into it and taking it seriously.

She eventually gestured for me to 69 her which she was into for about a minute before wanting me inside her. She pushed me down and got on top where she rode me to a soft orgasm and shortly after lifted off once i started indicating i was close. I ended up cumming on her ass cheek and my stomach.


Later in the day we were meeting up with my former muse and her boyfriend for my birthday lunch, which eventually got pushed back by an hour, which we used to go a second, intense round. I ended up fucking her hard on the edge of the bed and finished on the landing strip i gave her several weeks ago. We quickly cleaned up and headed out.

That night she came to bed wearing a lacy bralette and matching thong. She was impressed at how amazing her tits looked in the bra and I couldn't find a flaw in her reasoning, so it stayed on. I don't remember this set, or the last time she wore a thong in general. She wasn't trying to get laid but we ended up trying it. Unfortunately we couldn't get synced up. She attempted to start off in reverse cowgirl after pulling her thong to the side, but we couldn't get lined up. I started losing my erection from the struggle, so i figured I'd pull her underwear off and make her straddle my face. She was getting into it, but I just couldn't for some odd reason. Not sure a lack of trying on either of our parts, but when I'd finally get hard, she wasn't wet. The long cunnilingus session couldn't bring her off either, but she was ok with it. We made up for it Sunday morning. I couldn't finish though which was fine.

Yesterday i finally got her to look at ac website that is the result of a long, clinical study of women's pleasure. There are 300+ videos and animations of women describing and some graphically demonstrating what works for them, plus articles with tips for being able to let go and be in the moment. She was onboard with signing up, so i bought access to the full catalog. Hopefully that will lead to some new things.

That sounds like a good week (sans her anxiety about her blood pressure). I hope that you guys can look into that.

But it does sound like a good week of some sex. This is exactly what I meant by every day sex. Sometimes things don’t lineup or don’t work out.

It’s life.

So thanks for sharing.

Sounds like you guys got to have a couple of good sessions in there.

 

[ZfrkS62]

That sounds like a good week (sans her anxiety about her blood pressure). I hope that you guys can look into that.

But it does sound like a good week of some sex. This is exactly what I meant by every day sex. Sometimes things don’t lineup or don’t work out.

It’s life.

So thanks for sharing.

Sounds like you guys got to have a couple of good sessions in there.

Yes we have. And another good one this morning for our anniversary (December is busy, lol).

She has an appointment with her doctor in a couple of weeks. Luckily she's off work until the 6th, so hopefully the stress factor will subside a bit.

 

[Wonderer67]

Yes we have. And another good one this morning for our anniversary (December is busy, lol).

She has an appointment with her doctor in a couple of weeks. Luckily she's off work until the 6th, so hopefully the stress factor will subside a bit.

Sounds like a good month for you two.

Hope she is able to get her blood pressure down to where she (and you) feel better.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Sounds like a good month for you two.

Hope she is able to get her blood pressure down to where she (and you) feel better.

Her numbers didn't sound that bad too me, she said they were borderline high. She's been dealing with a lot at work lately. She's cut her coffee, alcohol, and junk food and says she's feeling better.

I'm enjoying the bump in sexual activity, of course. I had to laugh this morning because he thong and vibrator were still under her pillow.

 

[remypare]

Lately, we've been beginning sex with making out and me fingering her, and our session the other night began this way. We kissed, then kissed some more, and then began making out more intensely. I had been rubbing her back and neck while we kissed, and I moved my hands over to her breasts and began squeezing and pinching them, not too hard but not too soft. Her breathing picked up and she began kissing me harder, so I moved a hand down between her legs and began stroking her lips, rubbing her clit and sliding my finger down into her to get it wet before going back up to her clit.

While that was going on, I got to my knees alongside her. With my left hand, I continued to finger her. With my right hand, I began to stroke my cock, masturbating over her as I fingered her. She lifted her head and opened her mouth, and I told her to stick out her tongue. As I fingered her more intensely, I rubbed my cock head on her tongue and stroked myself. She began to buck her hips, and I pushed my cock into her mouth, telling her how good she was making me feel and how close she was to making me cum. She really likes positive reinforcement, and as I grabbed the back of her head and fucked her mouth, I felt her shake and she let out a moan, pulling her head back off of me as she came.

Still stroking myself, I kept fingering her, then moved down between her legs and began to rub my cock up and down on her pussy lips. She was Extremely Wet from being fingered, and I used her juices as lube, pushing just the tip of my cock in and then pulling it out to rub it on her clit. I was close, and she could tell. She propped herself up on her elbows, looked up at me, and said "Cum on my pussy baby." That was all it took. I pushed my cockhead into her one last time, pulled out, and shot my load right between her lips, splashing her pubes and her clit. I rubbed myself in my cum, then pushed my still-hard cock into her, fucking her slowly as my erection gradually went down.

We've been playing more with this kind of sex lately, and I am here for it. It was extraordinarily arousing to see my semen all over her pussy!

 

[Wonderer67]

I am the dumbest man on the planet!

I left for home from my business trip yesterday morning and arrived home late morning. I was in constant contact with my wife and she knew when I was going to arrive.

She had planned to have an early lunch ready for me, as well as another surprise. And when I got inside the back door (no pun intended!), she opened it up to reveal a hot tight fitting vinyl cat suit!

WOW ! My eyes sprung out of my head, but I had a lot of work to do and a meeting to take.

So I got busy and got to work as soon as I got home. She was feeling a little bit left out and I asked her what was wrong and she revealed that she wanted to have sex at the moment I got home…

I blew my chance. Altho we are good communicators and are usually pretty cleaner with one another, we were not quite on the same page yesterday…

 

[ZfrkS62]

Yup, I would agree with you about how obvious that signal was, but i am certain I'd have missed it too

 

[Wonderer67]

Lately, we've been beginning sex with making out and me fingering her, and our session the other night began this way. We kissed, then kissed some more, and then began making out more intensely. I had been rubbing her back and neck while we kissed, and I moved my hands over to her breasts and began squeezing and pinching them, not too hard but not too soft. Her breathing picked up and she began kissing me harder, so I moved a hand down between her legs and began stroking her lips, rubbing her clit and sliding my finger down into her to get it wet before going back up to her clit.

While that was going on, I got to my knees alongside her. With my left hand, I continued to finger her. With my right hand, I began to stroke my cock, masturbating over her as I fingered her. She lifted her head and opened her mouth, and I told her to stick out her tongue. As I fingered her more intensely, I rubbed my cock head on her tongue and stroked myself. She began to buck her hips, and I pushed my cock into her mouth, telling her how good she was making me feel and how close she was to making me cum. She really likes positive reinforcement, and as I grabbed the back of her head and fucked her mouth, I felt her shake and she let out a moan, pulling her head back off of me as she came.

Still stroking myself, I kept fingering her, then moved down between her legs and began to rub my cock up and down on her pussy lips. She was Extremely Wet from being fingered, and I used her juices as lube, pushing just the tip of my cock in and then pulling it out to rub it on her clit. I was close, and she could tell. She propped herself up on her elbows, looked up at me, and said "Cum on my pussy baby." That was all it took. I pushed my cockhead into her one last time, pulled out, and shot my load right between her lips, splashing her pubes and her clit. I rubbed myself in my cum, then pushed my still-hard cock into her, fucking her slowly as my erection gradually went down.

We've been playing more with this kind of sex lately, and I am here for it. It was extraordinarily arousing to see my semen all over her pussy!

Sounds like a really good session!

 

[remypare]

Sounds like a really good session!

It really was!

 

[Wonderer67]

We've been playing more with this kind of sex lately, and I am here for it. It was extraordinarily arousing to see my semen all over her pussy!

Sounds very erotic and loving too.

You said you’ve been doing more of this. What exactly? Cumming on her pussy?

 

[remypare]

Sounds very erotic and loving too.

You said you’ve been doing more of this. What exactly? Cumming on her pussy?

We've been focusing a lot more on making it an event. Incorporating a lot more kissing, rubbing, touching versus just PIV sex. Sometimes we don't even have PIV sex! And we've been incorporating more cum play into it, e.g. cumming on her pussy and then using it to finger her, cumming on her breasts, in her mouth, etc.