How About Who I Am Instead of What I Want?

[HomerPindar]

why just in the bedroom*wg* but i think i know what your friend means....i think everyone needs a bit of kinky in their lives....

So, how does a nice guy get to stay a nice guy while letting on that he can be kinky ...be it in bed, the movie theater, or where ever...?

HomerPindar

 

[greybeard]

the "nice guy" is defined by other things......

So, how does a nice guy get to stay a nice guy while letting on that he can be kinky ...be it in bed, the movie theater, or where ever...?

HomerPindar

I think the nice guy is defined by the ability to allow others to stretch a bit.........to be appreciative of a desire to explore ones inner desires and interests..........it is a non-judgmental understanding which reenforces a level of trust which allows others to open up.................

greybeard

 

[English Lady]

i think i agree with greybeard.

What i would ay is that having a bit of "kink" doesn't make you a bad boy..well least not ALL the time.....probably makes the ladies appreiciate the niceness all the more*S*

 

[HomerPindar]

Re: the "nice guy" is defined by other things......

I think the nice guy is defined by the ability to allow others to stretch a bit.........to be appreciative of a desire to explore ones inner desires and interests..........it is a non-judgmental understanding which reenforces a level of trust which allows others to open up.................

greybeard

You know, that's a real classy definition. thanks, greybeard, I think I'll "steal" this should anyone ask, cause it fits well enough at least...

HomerPindar

 

[HomerPindar]

i think i agree with greybeard.

What i would ay is that having a bit of "kink" doesn't make you a bad boy..well least not ALL the time.....probably makes the ladies appreiciate the niceness all the more*S*

Hey, now there's a thought...but having thought on this some more, I think I'm better defined as passionate than kinky... if nothing else, I like the word passionate more

HomerPindar

 

[English Lady]

Passionate works for me! A bit of passion is definitely a good thing!

 

[HomerPindar]

Passionate works for me! A bit of passion is definitely a good thing!

just a bit...?


HomerPindar

 

[English Lady]

well yes a bit...a big bit mind!*L*

 

[HomerPindar]

Alright then, seeing as romantic/passionate can work just as well as kinky... and Nice is not a death toll for the guys out there... (or the ladies for that matter)

What doesn't work...?

HomerPindar

 

[English Lady]

ok well things that don't work....well these will be very pculiar to me but here goes!

Being too clingy....over protective...jealous..just generally someone treating me as there's...like property. Not nice!



Boasting....nothing worse than a guy who boasts about how wonderful he is...comes across as arogant and besides he should be teling me how wonderful I am! *L*


hmmm thats a start....i might add more later*L*