How close to the edge?

[midwestyankee]

Tmm/dnr

 

[catalina_francisco]

Edge play differs for everyone mainly because what pushes one person;s button may be a walk in the park for others. Guess the closest we have come to what many consider edge play is cutting which leaves a permanent scar and permanent branding (not cell popping etc.). Choking and breath play have also played a part in what we do occasionally, and though I used to love bondage, it has become a very hard place to go in recent years (which for me makes it edge play) which we continue to work through...getting there slowly. As to how edge play makes me feel, for the most part it gives me a buzz for want of a better word, and leaves me with a sense of achievement.

Catalina

 

[Kajira Callista]

Hmmm
Nobody really wants to know what edge means to me.
Hell I don't think I even wanna know

 

[lovebound]

I cross the yellow line on the platform in the subway sometimes.

 

[subAngel87]

Hmmm
Nobody really wants to know what edge means to me.
Hell I don't think I even wanna know

Oh god now you have me oh so curious!!

Many thing every one has posted has me completely mmm I can't find the word for it but I must say alot has me in both awe and afraid... And I must say I'm afraid of people who fly too.. Scary but awsome and to afraid to try it

 

[lovebound]

Oh god now you have me oh so curious!!

Many thing every one has posted has me completely mmm I can't find the word for it but I must say alot has me in both awe and afraid... And I must say I'm afraid of people who fly too.. Scary but awsome and to afraid to try it

What does fly mean in this context?

 

[subAngel87]

What does fly mean in this context?

Hook suspension -note I may have spelt that wrong-

 

[lovebound]

Hook suspension -note I may have spelt that wrong-

OW.


There are some google image searches I do not need to explore.

 

[subAngel87]

OW.


There are some google image searches I do not need to explore.

Lol yup that's what I thought!! Awsome but painful

 

[Mads]

I think the most insanely edgy thing I'm aware of personally is hook suspension. That shit is full on, and I'm both in awe of, and scared of, the people who fly.

*shivers*

I think its amazing... I dont think I ever could do that, from any aspect, but it is wonderful to see I think.

CM has put the idea of a contest in my head now. Gah. Comparing kinks always feels like dick-thumping.

Lizzie, you're an absolute sweetheart, but could you not say things like this when laughing throws me into coughing fits? It took me nearly fifteen minutes to recover, just to start again when I came back to the thread

 

[YourCaptor]

Hmmm
Nobody really wants to know what edge means to me.
Hell I don't think I even wanna know

I want to know.

I cross the yellow line on the platform in the subway sometimes.

Hoping for the rescued from train by hero scenario?

It's funny, when I think about it I always think I'd more likely be the mustache pimping bad guy that ties damsel to tracks.

 

[YourCaptor]

Edge play, personally I'd rather not have risk for me, just for her. Though some things could be worth the risk I'd take, such as surprise rape play (she don't know it's me), I'd be into that.

I think the most common risk I'd have to consider is her mental state, cause genuine emotion (fear, panic, helplessness, etc) is pretty important to me. I'm not so much interested in fire, or knives or that stuff. I just want to shake her up and create that mushy, just desperately want's a safe place, mindset, and feel that power of it all.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I think its amazing... I dont think I ever could do that, from any aspect, but it is wonderful to see I think.

The physics of it baffles me. Seeing 100kg men hoisted into the air by nothing more than what amounts to a couple of solid sized fishing hooks through the skin of their back? There's some forces at work there that I don't understand.

But, the rush of it, I could understand. And the pain of the hooks piercing, I could handle. But I trust myself far more than I trust that.

So I admire the people that do it, and can only imagine the all conquering high they must get.

Lizzie, you're an absolute sweetheart, but could you not say things like this when laughing throws me into coughing fits? It took me nearly fifteen minutes to recover, just to start again when I came back to the thread

*curtsies*

 

[subAngel87]

The physics of it baffles me. Seeing 100kg men hoisted into the air by nothing more than what amounts to a couple of solid sized fishing hooks through the skin of their back? There's some forces at work there that I don't understand.

But, the rush of it, I could understand. And the pain of the hooks piercing, I could handle. But I trust myself far more than I trust that.

So I admire the people that do it, and can only imagine the all conquering high they must get.



*curtsies*

i couldn't do it simply cause im terrified of heights, like you all the other stuff i could but no, i already keep as far away from a window when up in a 4 story place can only imagine what kind of heights they do
*trembels*

 

[switchbitch]

Yeah, 'bout the hook thing... BALL
Just sayin'...



Parenting severely emotionally disturbed children. Nothing like grounding a kid and knowing full well they'd happily slit your throat after you're asleep. That's a bit on the edgy side, but I think it's falls more under the masochist category than anything.


*snort* DVS, I really like you!

Ok, in all seriousness, I've bottomed for fire play, been suspended by my ankles, played eel with various ways of being bound, I love breath play, needles are my new best friends (especially if it involves an endorphin button), knife play rocks if I'm not left in a touchy head space, wax that's hot enough to leave marks that last for month make me laugh maniacally, and I take impact play that has stopped the entire room. Oh, and then there's the fork, which is way more dangerous than any knife I've seen yet. And micro branding - especially the sensitive areas. It's a given with anyone who has seen me scene more than once that I will go till I literally can't stand up anymore. I will go until the Top safewords out of pure exhaustion - and then I WILL beg for more.

Despite all that, despite the responses and comments of people in the community - I don't think of any of it as edge play.

Then again, Stella had it on the mark when she said that hardcore BDSM is anything you won't do.

*shrugs*
Now, if anyone has any ideas on major "edge play" (in the BDSM sense)- the kind that doesn't involve body/anal hooks or nailing tits to a board - they're more than welcome to share. I'm always looking for something new and exciting to try.

like you I enjoy extreme sensation and my most recent thrill ride is suture play, sutures placed all over my body,threads tied into webs that require only the touch of a finger on one suture to stimulate all in the Web. Fucking in a full Web, puts me in a mental meltdown.

 

[SirLeo]

Edge play.... everytime we try something new or different, sometimes even just deciding to talk about it can turn your stomach into butterflies.

 

[greenjacobin]

Hooks? Knife play? Choking? Pfft! I once visited an inner-city school in LA.

Now THAT shit's full on!

 

[subAngel87]

Hooks? Knife play? Choking? Pfft! I once visited an inner-city school in LA.

Now THAT shit's full on!

My dear this isn't a contest it's simply what we find edgy.. Refer to CM's post on front page she pits it the best way

 

[Primalex]

Personally, I don't care if a sig is long or not; I was pointing out why someone complained about it.

Liar.

 

[Cattypuss]

Eating clotted cream as a dessert after a main course of pork scratchings.

 

[greenjacobin]

My dear this isn't a contest it's simply what we find edgy.. Refer to CM's post on front page she pits it the best way

I was making a joke...or at least, trying.

 

[Cattypuss]

I was making a joke.

I imagine everyone but the OP understood that

 

[Sir Victor]

It's incredibly long. For example, when reading this thread on an iPhone screen, I have to scroll the screen three times to get past your 'sig line' just to see who else has replies to the thread. On a regular computer screen, your 'sig line' takes up about 5 times the length of the other posters responses.

It's ginormous - your response above was one line. Your sig (minus image) was NINETEEN lines.

Are you aware that under your "User CP"-"Edit Options" here you can uncheck "show signatures"? I would think this would be an excellent option for viewing on iPhones, matter of fact I might try it myself even for regular viewing.

 

[KoPilot]

I went swimming on a moonless night once and got caught in a small riptide.

Shrug. At least I can say I've done something somewhat life threatening. Does the completely non-sexual nature of the thing make it edgier? Cause I think doing it without the intention of sexual gratification should make me even hard-core-er.