How Did You Meet Your Current Partner/s?

How did you meet your current partner/s?

  • Internet

    Votes: 200 55.4%
  • Munch

    Votes: 7 1.9%
  • BDSM or Fetish Club/Party

    Votes: 6 1.7%
  • Friends

    Votes: 42 11.6%
  • Work

    Votes: 37 10.2%
  • Other

    Votes: 69 19.1%

  • Total voters
    361
catalina_francisco said:
LOL, so I am trying to get used to!! After coming from Oz and being someone who would drive between 500-1000kms in a day just for leisure and pic taking, it is quite hard to get used to people thinking if you live an hour away you may as well be at the end of the earth.

Catalina :rose:

I would drive 500 km for fun anytime....... I love driving........ but with gas costs around here...... anyway I think it is a pity we dont use more of air travelling, we are really not used to it.
For instance my Mom and Dad take a bus every time to get here, they travell cca 20 hours and came half dead and recover for about 3-4 days.
What is ok with me...... I would go nuts if my Mom could come to visit me more than once a year.
 
I met T at a party in September. The funny thing is, I went to that party to lure a completely different guy (who is now T's sister's boyfriend) into my little web, but when I saw T, I just thought "ooo... yummy." We were drunk but I knew right away that he liked me cuz he came over to me and my friend and only asked my name... not hers. So we started talking. Then some other guy said I was cute so he gave me one of those really tiny Jack Daniels bottles. I had about a drop... and it was disgusting. So I gave it to T, and that turned out to be the final nail in the coffin for him. So we stumbled back to my dorm room totally plastered, fooled around a bit (whilst making about 20 trips to the bathroom) and passed out. He was gone when I woke up, but he left a note saying I was the most beautiful creature in the world (aren't boys cute?) but he had to go, and to give him a call sometime... I lost my virginity two weeks later. Romantic, no? He said he could tell I was a submissive because I kept looking down. I never knew it was that obvious. ;)
 
We met at work 16 years ago (I ran an involuntary psychiatric unit and he was a counselor). I hired him and was his boss for a year before we ended up getting together. At that point, our roles changed in our off hours. We have been married for 13 years. :)
 
I met K when I was 15 (and he was 24). I used to babysit for our nieces and nephews. We didn't start dating, though, till after I was 18.
 
We met on eHarmony last April. My other relationships prior to that have been through friends or work.
 
Seduce said:
I would drive 500 km for fun anytime....... I love driving........ but with gas costs around here...... anyway I think it is a pity we dont use more of air travelling, we are really not used to it.
For instance my Mom and Dad take a bus every time to get here, they travell cca 20 hours and came half dead and recover for about 3-4 days.
What is ok with me...... I would go nuts if my Mom could come to visit me more than once a year.

Hi lucious Seduce!!! :kiss:

Good to see you again.

I met most of my men including this one, at table top role play games.

Fury :rose:
 
Master and I met here on Lit, in the playground, in 2003. We were both seeing someone else at the time, but when those relationships ended...we went on our first date in June 2004, he collared me in August 2004, we married in November 2004 :)

See...the playground ain't so bad ;)
 
As it seems I started this thread, but only really contributed in the poll :confused: (unless I missed it in my skimming), I will fill in the details. We met through an online personals site....a small and rather obscure one surprisingly. He emailed me, and for no obvious reason I got good chills when I read his email despite the distance (16,000kms apart)...so good in fact I called my galpal who knew about my search and told her I thought I had just had an email from 'the one'. Of course she was supportive, but wondering if I had lost the plot knowing how many I already had talked with and/or met and crossed off the list. That was April 2002....and despite us both usually being cautious people in such events, he a confirmed bachelor and I happily single for about 15 years, he proposed online before we ever met (actually he told me more than proposed) and I accepted. We met face to face when he visited in August 2002, at which point he collared me in the airport terminal, and we married 2 weeks later as we had arranged before his arrival. I semi-moved to him in late September 2002, more permanently in February 2003 when I flew home to sell my home and pack my former life into boxes. Seems despite the concerns of many, they are now astounded as for us it gets better and deeper every year. :cathappy:

Catalina :rose:
 
LunarKitten said:
Master and I met here on Lit, in the playground, in 2003. We were both seeing someone else at the time, but when those relationships ended...we went on our first date in June 2004, he collared me in August 2004, we married in November 2004 :)

See...the playground ain't so bad ;)
apologies in advance for mini hijack but its good news !!!!
:rose: WOO HOOO Congratulations on the baby to be, we may have to all pitch in and send :rose:
http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/Bondagebears.jpg
 
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LunarKitten said:
Master and I met here on Lit, in the playground, in 2003.
I have no idea what "the playground" is, but I join Rebecca in offering congratulations on the baby to be. :nana:

@}-}rebecca---- said:
:rose: WOO HOOO Congratulations on the baby to be, we may have to all pitch in and send :rose:
http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/Bondagebears.jpg
OMG!!! Pleeeeeeaaaaase put up spew alerts for this type of thing!!

WHERE do you find this stuff?!? My god, that's hilarious.

*imagining the grandparents' faces as they look in the crib at the toys..... :eek:
 
I met my Joe here on Lit last April in the Author's forum when I asked for help in finding an editor. He sent me a PM offering to help. We really did work hard on the story the first day and half and then we found out our mutual interest in D/s and felt the most intense chemistry with each other. He gave me the name pita and I got the new ID for Lit, because I wanted a new start with just him. It's been a long 9 months of us both getting out of bad marriages and making plans, but by March we will both be in our new apartment living life together. :)
 
Bandit58 said:
I met Him here on Lit in October 2002, we were just friends until the middle of last year when my circumstances changed and we became close.....6 months later I moved to Australia to live with Him, I've been here 2 1/2 months and never been happier :D

My sub is still here & staying place serving a very pleased MASTER.
 
alice_underneath said:
I have no idea what "the playground" is, but I join Rebecca in offering congratulations on the baby to be. :nana:

OMG!!! Pleeeeeeaaaaase put up spew alerts for this type of thing!!

WHERE do you find this stuff?!? My god, that's hilarious.

*imagining the grandparents' faces as they look in the crib at the toys..... :eek:


The playground is another forum on the boards :)

And thankee :)

Hmmm..the expression might make it worthwhile... :devil:
 
Hmmm, all of them but one have been contacted first through the internet. I know, I know: I'm such a fucking geek! :)
 
O'Mac said:
Hmmm, all of them but one have been contacted first through the internet. I know, I know: I'm such a fucking geek! :)

You're not alone - 3 of the 4 men I have been with since I left my ex (including Master Gil) were first contacted through the internet. I'm not a geek, I have a mild social phobia (read: pretty shy) and don't much like going to pubs etc especially alone.

Master Gil and I are still together after 2 1/2 years and it just keeps getting better and better :heart: :p :D
 
O'Mac said:
Hmmm, all of them but one have been contacted first through the internet. I know, I know: I'm such a fucking geek! :)

LOL, think you need to look again...some met through school, friends, etc. :D Anyhow, geeks rule don't they?...I have to say that because I live in a house with 2 of them and rely on them to fix any tech problems I have. :p

Catalina :catroar:
 
LOL, think you need to look again...some met through school, friends, etc. :D Anyhow, geeks rule don't they?...I have to say that because I live in a house with 2 of them and rely on them to fix any tech problems I have. :p

Oh, I know I'm definitely proud of my nerdish tendencies. I wear the geek badge with honour. Even got to sew it on myself.
 
My Master and I were introduced by a mutual friend on ICQ. He was living in Charlotte N.C at the time. We had an online relationship for about 10 months before I finally managed to go down and meet/stay for 2 weeks him in Aug. 1999. He moved up to Canada 2 months later. We were married the following May in a cute little wedding chapel in Niagara Falls. We've been the thorns in each other's backsides ever since.
 
I met Essa back in 1990 when I was 18, (she's two years older) in what was my local pub/bar at the time.

I was living with a girl at the time and seeing someone else, so I was getting a lot of flack (I never kept secrets even way back then) and she had the patience to listen to the drunken ramblings of a misguided Irishman for hours.

I still think what convinced me she was 'The one' was when she gave a right rollicking (and a right hook) to a guy who must have thought he was auditioning for Tom Cruise's roll in 'The Color of Money 2'

Thanks for the trip down memory lane, catalina.
 
My Husband and I met around 13 1/2 years ago at a club that he was bartending at. I was 19 at the time and had gone with one of my roommates to watch her new boyfriends band perform - they had a regular gig there. I brought along some notes I needed to study for a test the next day (I was so serious back then). The band was playing on the patio and I went into the bar where it was quieter to go over my notes.

I have always looked much younger then I am, I am really small (4'10) and that night I had pulled my hair up in pigtails to keep it out of my face and J came up and asked me where my parents were. I told him how old I was and he didn't believe me so I showed him my driver's license to prove it. He apologized and left then came back a little later and brought me a Coke and hung around and we really hit it off. Things just got more bizarre form there. We didn't do anything in our relationship the "normal" way. We did everything backwards - lol.

Skye
 
I meet my girlfriend online in a bdsm story writing/role playing group :)
Started out as co-writing a story and took it from there.
 
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