How do I drive him wild in bed?

[cellis]

Yes, well we don't really do alot of standing anyway!!! And he is a leg and ass man...

 

[Stevie445]

Re: Re: How do I drive him wild in bed

So basically you're saying that walking into a room in a pair of heels,thigh highs, and a smile, while saying do me big boy is the way to go?

Sounds like a plan to try out.....

Well I can only give you my opinion, but I love it when my partner, who is outwardly very conservative, gets aggressive. Definitely works for me.

And while I'm here, another big turn on for me is very graphic dirty talk. But, my partner has told me that she feels uncomfortable "playing the slut." Anyone else share that discomfort?

 

[lovetoread]

Re: How do I drive him wild in bed

Well I can only give you my opinion, but I love it when my partner, who is outwardly very conservative, gets aggressive. Definitely works for me.

And while I'm here, another big turn on for me is very graphic dirty talk. But, my partner has told me that she feels uncomfortable "playing the slut." Anyone else share that discomfort?

Well in my case it goes the other way. When I get too graphic he doesnt like it at all. I try to keep the comments to a minimum.

 

[petrel]

i had this problem when i first got together with my partner - he seemed to ahev turned off most of his erogenous zones. It took time and patience but know he loves to be touched (most places) He said that because previous partners had spent so little time touching him he had turned it all off - me i'm bi so i am used to taking an active role in sex. But it would seem that some women just lie back and do nothing whilst the male does all the work. Because of this sad state of affairs, as someone has already said, generally anything you do that shows that you are horny and want to have sex with your partner right now is gonna be good.

My partner loves watching me masturbate and hearing me say sexy things - in real life (out of bed) i can't imagine saying stuff like
"oh honey go on screw me hard you big bastard"
but believe me in bed the more you begin to talk about what you are feeling and what you would like to do (or have done) the more slutty you will begin to sound.

I didn't used to be able to say what i wanted or react in bed but now i love talking dirty.

Just don't pressurise your partner. If they have just had wild and honry sex with you telling them what you enjoyed about it is great but if you keep saying
"I'd love it if you did x"
- and they don't do that you need to
a) ask if they have a problem with it and then
b) bloody well shut up - it can take a while for some of us to get up the courage to do soemthing and personally i am not a robot and i store things up so you might get a nice surprise in a week or so!

all over massages are good for turning men on especially when you are naked and you slide up and down their body dragging your tits over their cock and belly as you move down to their feet and then back up to the shoulders

other places you might want to try
nipples - mine loves me biting them quite hard
arse cheeks
small of back - licking and kissing
inside of arm and palm of hand
back of neck

have fun!

 

[kiwiwolf]

My lady turns me inside out in bed by keeping the surprise factor high on the agenda. She works around the senses: touch, taste, sight, sound, and smell. She will surprise me with, for example, a night dedicated to the visual. Dressed in hot lingerie, or a fantasy type outfit, she will sometimes put a hot video in the bedroom VCR, and use the video as a guide. We will copy what is on the screen.

Another night she will blindfold me and stroke me all over, using different fabrics, objects etc... you get the picture?

The point is keep things fresh by keeping him guessing. Play the slut one night, then turn into the sophisticated seductress the next.

It works for us

 

[InSaNe]

When a girl plays with my hair and talks dirty have been the best turn ons for me.....specially when she runs her hands through my hair I love it

 

[kiwiwolf]

If all else fails... turn up naked, bring beer!

 

[InSaNe]

ohhhh yeah thats a sure winner right there

 

[lovetoread]

If all else fails... turn up naked, bring beer!

What the nakedness wouldnt be enough?

 

[Guest]

i have tried to find that spot between the balls and ass before on my fiance, but either i am doing it wrong, or it doesn't affect him. any advise?

 

[InSaNe]

On me personally its always been them running there fingers through my hair or kissing/licking my ear and pretty much generally any caressing anywhere turns me on.....I know I am not much help but maybe it will help ya a little

 

[lovetoread]

i have tried to find that spot between the balls and ass before on my fiance, but either i am doing it wrong, or it doesn't affect him. any advise?

Its right under/beneath his sac....hard to explain without pics,but I hope you understand where I mean. How hard are you rubbing? Dont be gentle rub it with gusto! Or if rubbing it hard doesnt work lightly scrape your nails over it. I hope this helps.

 

[weathered2]

That spot "between balls and ass".

This is a super "hot" spot for me. Personally, I like a softer touch, like the fingernails, (way to go lovetoread), or the "butterfly" with the tongue...or BOTH!!...what was I thinking?!

 

[lovetoread]

Re: That spot "between balls and ass".

This is a super "hot" spot for me. Personally, I like a softer touch, like the fingernails, (way to go lovetoread), or the "butterfly" with the tongue...or BOTH!!...what was I thinking?!

Gee from this post...gotta wonder what.......

 

[kiwiwolf]

What the nakedness wouldnt be enough?

Just for you my sweet, I'll forego the beer... *EG*

 

[lovetoread]

Just for you my sweet, I'll forego the beer... *EG*

Oh thanks.....you are a sweetie...

By the way.... congrats on the AV