How do I tell my wife I’m bisexual?

[Greytruck]

I tried to tell my wife one night.
I quickly realized this was not going the way I thought.
I quickly backpedaled and dropped the subject.
My wife and I think many others just can not wrap their heads around such
A thing.. the old saying you can’t put the genie back in the bottle.

 

[jassybb]

It did, she knows now and didnt leave, so that's a win.

haaha good for you

 

[bobb_sledd]

looking back I should have kept it to myself

Why?

 

[Fistboy]

Why?

While it didn’t go badly things were a bit weird for a little while. It’s ok now.

 

[bobb_sledd]

While it didn’t go badly things were a bit weird for a little while. It’s ok now.

Glad things are now okay!

 

[Biguy77578]

I have been bi/pansexual for 58 years. Over those years there have been times when I was actively bi/pansexual and times when I have been inactive. Three marriages. Tread carefully.
Honesty comes with risk.

Not in my case. I explained my bisexual life to her before we married and she embraced it. Two weeks after I told her we had a male friend of hers join us and I sucked his cock in front of her for the first time.
We have been married 26 years now!

 

[Bathtubbill]

Not in my case. I explained my bisexual life to her before we married and she embraced it. Two weeks after I told her we had a male friend of hers join us and I sucked his cock in front of her for the first time.
We have been married 26 years now!

You are a very lucky guy with a great wife

 

[CD_Bree]

If your marriage has been vanilla, I would suggest a very slow approach. When she sees a hot guy just casually agree with her. In my case, after several times, she asked me if I was attracted to men. I came out and said maybe but it's not a priority. I left the rest alone. Some things are better left alone, especially your not going to act on it. If you are going to act, be safe, protect her and your marriage.

 

[dingdongditchding]

Why?

well it was fun hot talk for awhile but later she used it as a weapon against me.

 

[P0peye]

A few years ago, I confessed to my wife of over 40 years that as a young teen, I'd been my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker and would give him blowjobs every day and frequently once or twice again that same day. I told her that he never reciprocated and that I preferred it that way because I liked the slutty, submissive way that being his Cocksucker made me feel. She was surprised, but ultimately attributed my experience to adolescent experimentation. A while after this initial admission, I went on to say that later in life I took up sucking cock again. Unbeknown to my first wife during our marriage, I gave regular blowjobs to my next door neighbor and I also sucked cock at work, giving blowjobs to co workers. I tried to explain to her that I'm not at all emotionally attracted to men as I am toward women, but am aroused and excited by the degradation aspect and by the demeaning, humiliating nature of "being" a "Cocksucker". I love being down on my knees while sucking cock. I omitted telling her that I still occasionally meet up with men to suck their cocks. She hasn't really responded to these later revelations, but I believe she no longer respects me as a man.

 

[pcarp]

I believe I’m bisexual but have been married for 27 years. How do I tell my wife and convince her I don’t want to go outside our marriage and she’s “enough” for me, for lack of a better term?

If she is "enough" for you and you have no desire to go outside your marriage, then keep your mouth shut.

 

[Biguy77578]

well it was fun hot talk for awhile but later she used it as a weapon against me.

I can see that happening. Fortunately that was not the case in my experience. My wife encouraged it because she wanted to make me happy. She was successfull!

 

[bobb_sledd]

I told my wife a couple of days after I sucked my first cock -- evidence of my Bi tendencies. He was a friend of ours whom we had discussed inviting into our bed for a threesome, when she revealed to me, he had previously come out to her as gay.

That was thirty-five years ago and the last time we discussed my newfound pleasure to any great length. We’ve always had something of an open relationship; she knows I’ve ventured out (before that and since) though we’ve never discussed if my outings were for pussy or cock.