How do you be sexy\seduce a guy?

[Endlessly]

"Yeah, by all means, give us the first chapter...it'll be really interesting to see just what kind of situations some of the horndogs around here place you in *chuckle*"

*laughing hard* No kidding. And the more and more I actually help organize this trip, the curiouser and curiouser it gets. I get the feeling this is going to be one of the strangest, funniest, and most orgasmic weeks of my life once it actually happens. The people who submit (Are YOU going to, Havoc? *grin*) will have plenty to work with.

Gosh.. I feel so.. dirty?.. wrong word. Ah, yes. I feel so.. fictional. *laughing*

"Like somebody stated in Wooster's thread dedicated to your voice (and doesn't that just boost the hell out of your ego? *smile*)"

Mmmm, yeah baby. Or, at least it would, if Wooster actually had HEARD my voice before proclaiming it sexy. *smirk* And I have a massive cold, so it'll be interesting to see how sexy I can be without use of my sinuses! *laughing*

"But, being a guy, I'd probably be more interested in that videotape thing you mentioned earlier *big grin*"

*laughing hard* Hot damn! I always wanted to be a porn star. I'd better get to the gym though.. *SNORT* Gee, we could make a video, I could send it to Laurel, and she could sell copies to finance Literotica.. But only if a portion of the proceeds went to a memorial fund to buy sex toys for the clinically virginal. *smirk*

 

[Guest]

I think a more appropriate point to ponder is: Based on the difficulty in seducing this guy, and his ‘apparent’ cluelesness – why is she so bent on HIM being the guy?
Answer: BECAUSE he’s so difficult. (And in my opinion completely aware of his actions and their effect.)
I’m just curious why we’re all trying to help Endlessly to give up her purity, to some guy who’s obviously going to shatter her poor heart into shards? Apparently, the ‘young man’ has managed to further convince her to give herself up in every conceivable way. Leaving no ‘firsts’ for any MEN (who may be worthy of such an honor) following this bastard.

Personally, I grieve for her…….

(Brace yourself for ‘endless’ regret, child.)

 

[Endlessly]

*sighs softly at chasingAmy, thinking she recognizes the unregistered person, shaking her head*

Believe it or not, I was waiting for a post like that. And if that's who I think it is, they already know that the young man is someone that, emotionally, is the last person in the world that I need in my life. And I agree wholeheartedly with that.

I could rant and evade and offer up that mayhaps I LIKE making mistakes.. But it'd be useless. Because I refuse to see this as a mistake.

Do I want him because he's so difficult to get? Perhaps that's part of it, in an abstract sense. I've been attracted intensely to so many guys who never even looked at me, and never been with one I was all that attracted to. So yeah, perhaps part of it is the fact that I'll finally get something that I fucking want.

As far as him shattering my poor heart into shards.. It's a phoenix, hon, it rises from its own ashes. And it's been shattered plenty of times, including once already by this young man, and it'll get shattered plenty more times before it stops beating, I'm sure. For crying out loud, I'm barely 18. If I can't deal with heartbreak I should be in a convent where there are no aithiests within miles.

As far as leaving no firsts for any other men.. *blinking* They're my firsts, too, and I'd sort of like to choose who I have them with. I've had some of my firsts taken away without my choice, and I don't care to get into that here. I -like- having the power to choose.. And I choose him.

Because I'm attracted to him. And he knows my body. And I feel sexually safe with him, something I'm not used to feeling. And it's too late; I know that I'm either going to lose my virginity to him, or wishing it were to him. 'Endless' regret? I doubt it. I don't do regret. Tastes bittersweet, too filling.

This isn't about hearts, not the way you seem to think it is.. Check the posts, we're dealing with entirely different body parts here.

Give up my purity? *smiles wryly, shaking head softly* Impossible. I gave it up a long time ago.

 

[Guest]

Words never spoken truer, with a touch of confidence and self-recognition....
Endless, I have read this whole "topic" (sorry i'm new to this part of literotica, just used to browse by for stories), been to your webpage, and basically felt like I was in with the whole family here. =)

Hoping that you will get what brings you happiness...but at the same time fearing that you failed to see that this was not the man for you. However, your response to chasingamy has assured me that you are a strong woman and know what you are doing.

Please, just remember this...No man is worthy of an eternity of heatbreak and a endless riverfull of tears. Meaning? Know when to say goodbye.
Hope to hear from you again Endlessly...

-sally~

 

[Guest]

It's funny, Endlessly, because I was about to say something along the lines of what ChasingAmy expressed...at least until I read your reply. Very eloquent, I must say. You definately seem to have an intellegent head on your shoulders, and I am highly supportive of women who know--and go out and get--what they want. Everyday I try to be one.

I'm not always successful, however.
I had a similar experience three years ago, during my sophomore year of college. After plenty of screwing around with some random guys, I met a guy who I KNEW was the one I wanted...and told me that I was everything he had ever wanted. I decided that I wanted him to be my first "real" sex. My friends hated him because they saw how completely crazy he was making me with his nonsense/doubletalk...and in retrospect, I really wished I had listened.
However, at the time, I was completely oblivious of anything but the times when he was sweet to me. I'll never forget the time he told me that he wanted me to start staying over at his apartment just so he could feel me close by all night(no sex involved). For times like that, I could forgive him for nights like the one when he kicked me out because (as he said the next day) he "was drunk and wasn't thinking straight."
Anyway, I'll skip the rest of the details of my downfall.

At the end of the "relationship" I was a mess: left completely brainfucked and bewildered. I had always thought of myself as a pretty strong minded gal, but he had really done a number on me. I am so thankful that we never got around to the bedroom boogie.
Luckily, soon after I said goodbye to that loser, I met a guy who truly cares for me, and lets me know every day in some way, shape or form.
So...like I said before...I really respect that you know what you want and are doing everything to get it. Determination like that is admirable.
However, as a girl who has sort of been there, I feel the need to warn; be careful that at the end of your trip, all you've lost is your cherry.

 

[Endlessly]

Sally, Katie, I could hug you both for your concern (and what the hell, probably ChasingAmy too). This trip is getting stranger and stranger-- there was a huge arguement last night because a few people wanted to move it to somewhere besides Edmonton, and by the end of the night, it looked like the guy (check 'something for the ladies' in the pic gallery, it's him) and I will be going to Edmonton together, whether anyone else decides to show or not. So it's definitely getting interesting.

I don't know how to explain my relationship to him, I really don't. He's one of my closest friends in the world, if that means anything, I mean much to him platonically and he and I respect eachother. Before he and I ever had our first physical encounter, I put up with alot of crap from him-- I remember once, a few months after he and I met, we were talking on ICQ when one of the women he was dating casually came over to give him a blowjob. He didn't stop talking to me until AFTER the woman had already started.

The heartbreak he caused me, though, was while he was here-- he and I were point-blank noninvolved, but it still kind of hurt to see an E-mail left on my screen where he was telling another woman I was nothing he wanted and that she was far more beautiful than me. (I got a picture of said woman a few days ago, and damned if I haven't been staring at it and staring in the mirror trying to clinically ascess if he's right.) A few weeks after he left, I finally broke down and blew up at him.. We didn't speak for a while while I healed, and when we finally did, it was a long involved conversation healing our friendship. Which is what -I- wanted.. Because life is about evolving, and there's so much evolving he has to catch up with before we could ever start evolving together in a relationship. It was what HE wanted because with me, he knows no matter what happens there will always be someone who will tell him the truth. And he respects me more now, I think, because he realizes I will not put up with that kind of crap, romantically or platonically, should he ever try it again.

I know there's a messy background here, everyone, but that's all it is.. a background. To be honest, I always thought I'd lose my virginity to my best friend.. and I'm just not NEARLY as attracted to Jennifer or Rachel. *grin*

 

[Deborah]

Yeah, well in the story I'm writing he has to wear a wig. That and a few other things. Serves him right. I hate rude behavior in a man. Tell him to go buy one of those donut cushions people sit on when they have a bad case of hemorrhoids.

You go gir1!!! And remember, preparation is essential. Preparation H.

 

[Jasdf]

Poor Endlessly, so much trouble, will the guy be worth it? Be sure to tell us what happens.

Good luck

PS. A while back someone mentioned a line for having you, could I join? <grin>

 

[Endlessly]

*laughing hard* A LINE.. A goddamned LINE for me.. *shaking head* I just got back from a three-day speech meet in Wyoming (speech being a huge turn-on for me, nothing does it for me quite like a weekend of speaking in public and surrounded by guys in khakis), and it seemed like there was NO WAY I could get any. Gah!

 

[Jade]

Sorry, kid. Maybe it's not meant to happen (no guy is THAT cluless). I hope it does.

But if doesn't, hell, call me, and I'll be right over. We'll read your poetry, then pool our gift certificates for some swell toys and make long love, and then, after the earth stops moving, we'll collaborate on a hot story about the tryst and mail it to the lame brain.

Wow Endlessly,

I NEVER realized he used to post like that!

 

[Mr. Niceguy]

I'm sorry but I have to agree with Rodingo here. From everything I've heard you sound really yummy. Whats not to like about you? I even think its cute how you are all nervous.

[Edited by Mr. Niceguy on 08-09-2000 at 01:50 PM]

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Talk about the train leaving the station! LOL.

 

[Endlessly]

*LMFAO*

I, ummmm, did lose my virginity. Kind of.

Last March.

Thanks for the encouragement, though! That makes me want to go out and lose it all over again.

 

[Jade]

*LMFAO*

I, ummmm, did lose my virginity. Kind of.

Last March.

Thanks for the encouragement, though! That makes me want to go out and lose it all over again.

But then you got it back again I thought!

 

[Samuari]

What the hell happened? Did you skip all the good stuff, or is it in another thread, or a story, or was that just a way to try for the record? How did you get it back? I didn't know that it was covered by a return policy. Or am I having a blonde moment? HELP