How Do You Masturbate?

I'm a bisexual woman with a casual bf/fuckbuddy. He doesn't know how I masturbate or that I write erotica so it's kind of fun thinking about posting the details here. I get off in the middle of the day while I write & my flatmates aren't home, but not while I write for my jobs (freelance tech writer, not sexy stuff). I prefer to do it alone, I'm very much 'in my own head' when I do it. I only have sex a couple of times a week but I get myself off at least once a day (except when I'm mid-period). I like that I can 'multitask' while I'm alone & it's only about me.

My home's across the road from a sports field, & my largest bedroom window looks right into it (where people are always jogging, playing football etc). I like doing it with my curtains open (although nobody would be able to tell what I'm doing from out there).

I've never enjoyed fingering myself, I find devices work better & keep my hands clean & allow me to do other things (maybe it's because I have ADHD). I have a few different vibrators, but my faves are the 'wearable' ones (I'll add the Amazon page of the kind I use the most, although I bought mine from a physical shop). I'm usually fully dressed & lie face down on my bed with my laptop in front of me. I grind my cunt against a pillow. Often I'll switch off the pulsing action, & only have the clit vibration running, the motion of grinding allows me to control the thrusting penetration with my hips. If I really get into it I'll sometimes roll up my top so my nipples grind against the bedspread (my tits are small so I get away with going bra-less around the house).

The last time I was in a committed long-term relationship with a man (a few years ago) we lived next door to a nice old guy in his 70s who lived alone & didn't have any friends/family. Sometimes we'd fuck with the curtains open so the old man could watch. We got so used to it there wasn't any 'performance' but it felt amazing knowing there was an audience. A few times he (the old man) tried to convince me to let him have a go & it became uncomfortable telling him no all the time & my bf had a word with him to stop pestering me. We broke up a few years later, about issues that had nothing to do with our sex life (he wanted kids, I didn't, he's now married with a nearly-2-yo) & last year I went to the old neighbour's funeral (& he left us both a little money in his will, which we hadn't expected). I'm not interested in letting anyone else watch me fuck anymore, but I do really love having the curtains open when I'm getting myself off & being able to look up & watch people going about their everyday lives. Although no one knows I'm rolling my hips with a vibrator in my pussy under my leggings or shorts. It's very relaxing & when I'm writing erotica I hope it comes through in the prose. I've been thinking about writing a story about my ex lately, we'll see. Got a few stories on the burner already. Anyway - if there are any women (or people looking for something to get a woman or anything) you can find my fave vibe on Amazon (of course, every woman's different & this might not be the exact right one for her). But I really like this type & highly recommend it, especially for the 'smaller' ladies out there. ;)

https://www.amazon.com/Generic-Butterfly-Masturbator-Vibrators-Remotecontrol/dp/B0D31JJRK4?th=1
 
PS: not plugging that vibe because I have anything to do with the sales of it or anything, it's not 'affiliated' or sponsored or whatever. I have no idea about the seller or if they're reliable (I got mine from a physical location that's unrelated to Amazon). It was just the easiest way for me to convey which type I find best for my particular wank.
 
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