"How does a new submissive know she is ready to make her fantasies real?"

[catalina_francisco]

Good topic to revisit ?

 

[Blushing Bottom]

This is great advice...simplistic in its presentation yet complex in its meaning.

Thank-you for sharing. I can most definately relate with all you have shared.

# 1...know what your fantasies really are.
# 2...realize that the first Dominant that offers to fullfill them may not be the right Dominant.
# 3...baby steps...you have to be able to crawl before you can run.
# 4...desperation=stupidity and devalues the experience and excitement can=a lack of caution.
# 5...build a gut feeling level of trust based on common sense with the Dominant over time...before even considering the first play.
# 6...enter the relationship honestly...with yourself and the partner.
# 7...leave your shyness at the door...it is a wonderful journey!