How does it feel for a woman to use a strapon on a man?

[Doctorboy]

Strap-on play with an old girlfriend

She had a dominant streak in her and when we began anal play, she wouldn't let me touch her anus, but she loved looking at and touching mine. It progressed to us trying a strap-on. I put it on her and cinched it up tight and then turned her loose.

In retrospect, I would have appreciated more anal stretching with the insertion of one finger, then two, then three, with lots of lube over a period of maybe a half hour. Then the rubber penis would have been easier to take at first. As it was, it stung for a while, but that subsided after 5 minutes or so.

She told me after that the biggest surprise and turn-on for her was seeing how my ass cheeks jiggled when she slammed her groin up against my ass. I was on my stomach with my ass raised up at the time. She grabbed a vibrator and put it on her clit and had a massive orgasm while driving hard into me and watching my ass quiver with each thrust.

On other occasions, she liked me lying on my back with my knees apart and pulled up against my chest (or sometimes my legs over her shoulders) so she could look at and play with my cock and balls and watch my facial expressions. I enjoyed all this as well.

 

[jodylee]

Did nothing for me. Felt stupid in the harness, and it didn't feel good at all.

 

[needtoexpress]

Don't know if this is what you are looking for, but thought I would reply.

Me and my husband just started exploring, he likes his ass being played with a lot. So for Christmas last year I got him a strap on set (with the harness and everything). When the time came around, he did an enema or two and got comfortable on our bed. We got the harness strapped on my hips and I lubed up the dildo (It is a silicone material and it was easier to take than plastic, because the silicone bended unlike the plastic). Lubing up my fingers, I got him ready, using a finger at a time and stretching him open. When he was ready to take the dildo, I lined up with him, and steadily pushed in. Taking my time and listening to him when he could take more or when it hurt. Very soon, the dildo was all the way in and he was begging me to start going faster and faster. Which was a problem because its this strange hip movement I am not used to; so it was hard to go much faster without hurting my joints from being in that position. Soon he had his orgasm and I slowly pulled out, took the harness off and the dildo went into the sink to be cleaned. He was exhausted and I just cuddled him till he was ready to move.

So it was a really good experience, he enjoyed it and said it was one of the strongest orgasms to date. The only problem I had with the experience it self was, that I am shorter than him, by a few inches, so we had to more around so I could easily reach his asshole without needing to be in a awkward position my self. Than the hip movement was different, and figuring that out too a while, at the end of it, my hips were aching because we aren't used to that kinda movement.

The last thing is that, our dynamic (D/s) I am not used to being the one in control, its the other way around. Only when it comes to sex, otherwise I am a controlling bitch lol. So the situation was difficult, we don't do it often, still trying to figure out which way will work best for us.

Its a good feeling, we just got a new harness where he won't be the only on being fucked (New dildo, its really good). And we are figuring things out and learning what works best for us.

Hoped this helped, sorry about the length...

 

[MumSisterTgirlLover]

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[DJFaninTN]

wish i could find a woman who really wanted to do this. I'm more than willing but the wife wants nothing to do with it

 

[Seductive_Wolftress]

for those tight virgin butts you have to keep size in mind. I used Tyrone (my vib) on the guy I was with Sat night and just couldn't get past insert point. So I think its time for a trip to the naughty store.

 

[klippert]

Where do you find these guys that want to do this? No guy I dated wanted anything rammed up his ass.

might have to pull back on the ramming part...but, (pun intended) you'll find on herer...

 

[PreggoBitch]

I love the power and knowing he is loving it, such a turn on

 

[beardedmariner]

Did you ever try it?

 

[jakelc]

My wife and I both enjoy anything anal whether it's rimming, fingering or full anal sex. For us it was a natural progression for her to fuck me as I've fucked her ass many times. The first time was a little awkward and although for me it was amazing and gave me one of my strongest orgasms ever, for her it was a little strange as she enjoyed the experience and being dominant but it didn't make her cum. We now have a double ended dildo and a harness that takes two dildos one for me and one for her. She has just bought a strapless strap on but we are waiting on it to arrive. We have tried a few different ones all with great results for both of us now, the vibrating ones are great and the inflatable one while strange felt amazing. Having a strap on also led to some interesting roleplay

 

[vangoh971]

lucky guy

Don't know if this is what you are looking for, but thought I would reply.

Me and my husband just started exploring, he likes his ass being played with a lot. So for Christmas last year I got him a strap on set (with the harness and everything). When the time came around, he did an enema or two and got comfortable on our bed. We got the harness strapped on my hips and I lubed up the dildo (It is a silicone material and it was easier to take than plastic, because the silicone bended unlike the plastic). Lubing up my fingers, I got him ready, using a finger at a time and stretching him open. When he was ready to take the dildo, I lined up with him, and steadily pushed in. Taking my time and listening to him when he could take more or when it hurt. Very soon, the dildo was all the way in and he was begging me to start going faster and faster. Which was a problem because its this strange hip movement I am not used to; so it was hard to go much faster without hurting my joints from being in that position. Soon he had his orgasm and I slowly pulled out, took the harness off and the dildo went into the sink to be cleaned. He was exhausted and I just cuddled him till he was ready to move.

So it was a really good experience, he enjoyed it and said it was one of the strongest orgasms to date. The only problem I had with the experience it self was, that I am shorter than him, by a few inches, so we had to more around so I could easily reach his asshole without needing to be in a awkward position my self. Than the hip movement was different, and figuring that out too a while, at the end of it, my hips were aching because we aren't used to that kinda movement.

The last thing is that, our dynamic (D/s) I am not used to being the one in control, its the other way around. Only when it comes to sex, otherwise I am a controlling bitch lol. So the situation was difficult, we don't do it often, still trying to figure out which way will work best for us.

Its a good feeling, we just got a new harness where he won't be the only on being fucked (New dildo, its really good). And we are figuring things out and learning what works best for us.

Hoped this helped, sorry about the length...

Your husband is a very lucky man. I wish I could get my wife to do this.

 

[vangoh971]

Thank you so much for your answers.

That was some great insight, thank you so much.

I haven't bought a strap on yet. I'm still thinking about it all.

This is an ultimate fantasy of mine, and I wish my wife was willing to try this, but I don't think it's going to happen. If you do purchase one and use it on your husband please share your experience with us.

 

[Erochic]

This is an ultimate fantasy of mine, and I wish my wife was willing to try this, but I don't think it's going to happen. If you do purchase one and use it on your husband please share your experience with us.

I'm sorry... It never happened because neither of us wanted it enough to go out and get a strapon.
It was mostly driven by my curiosity to know what it would feel like to fuck someone. He was willing to try for my sake, but it wasn't really something he had ever wanted for himself.

But I really really do appreciate everyone's input, and hopefully it's helpful for someone else

 

[preacher72]

Don't know if this is what you are looking for, but thought I would reply.

Me and my husband just started exploring, he likes his ass being played with a lot. So for Christmas last year I got him a strap on set (with the harness and everything). When the time came around, he did an enema or two and got comfortable on our bed. We got the harness strapped on my hips and I lubed up the dildo (It is a silicone material and it was easier to take than plastic, because the silicone bended unlike the plastic). Lubing up my fingers, I got him ready, using a finger at a time and stretching him open. When he was ready to take the dildo, I lined up with him, and steadily pushed in. Taking my time and listening to him when he could take more or when it hurt. Very soon, the dildo was all the way in and he was begging me to start going faster and faster. Which was a problem because its this strange hip movement I am not used to; so it was hard to go much faster without hurting my joints from being in that position. Soon he had his orgasm and I slowly pulled out, took the harness off and the dildo went into the sink to be cleaned. He was exhausted and I just cuddled him till he was ready to move.

So it was a really good experience, he enjoyed it and said it was one of the strongest orgasms to date. The only problem I had with the experience it self was, that I am shorter than him, by a few inches, so we had to more around so I could easily reach his asshole without needing to be in a awkward position my self. Than the hip movement was different, and figuring that out too a while, at the end of it, my hips were aching because we aren't used to that kinda movement.

The last thing is that, our dynamic (D/s) I am not used to being the one in control, its the other way around. Only when it comes to sex, otherwise I am a controlling bitch lol. So the situation was difficult, we don't do it often, still trying to figure out which way will work best for us.

Its a good feeling, we just got a new harness where he won't be the only on being fucked (New dildo, its really good). And we are figuring things out and learning what works best for us.

Hoped this helped, sorry about the length...

Thanks for sharing. This has been a fantasy of mine for the longest time just hard to find a woman willing to do it

 

[darlasmaster01]

My ex and I tried a strap on and a dildo. I found the dildo to feel best...one called a honey dripper.She just loved to fuck me in the ass. She would get all excited and lube my ass.Then gently insert the honey dripper and fuck me for about 15 minutes.Loved the feeling of just laying there while she worked the dildo in and out of my ass.

 

[escriterra]

Maybe some additional motivation

I'm sorry... It never happened because neither of us wanted it enough to go out and get a strapon.
It was mostly driven by my curiosity to know what it would feel like to fuck someone. He was willing to try for my sake, but it wasn't really something he had ever wanted for himself.

But I really really do appreciate everyone's input, and hopefully it's helpful for someone else

This is a favorite topic for all manner of sexy engagement: discussing it, picturing it, watching it, masturbating while thinking of it, and the ultimate, actually doing it.

Writing about it is fun, too! Sometimes a story read to her man will provide some extra insights, extra curiosity, extra arousal that wins an invitation from him to his lady. Maybe my story, "Jackie Makes Things Right" here on Lit could do the trick --- it certainly was fun to write, fun to imagine, fun to share.

The pleasure awaiting a couple who indulge can be intense. Indeed, it can surprise with how very erotic it is.

 

[Joeknoxville]

My wife tried the one we bought once and has never used it since with the harness on - too awkward and it did nothing for her. She still uses the "attachment" on me when the mood strikes her.

 

[DenverFunguy]

Never did more than a finger but one gf did the prostate rub on me and it was an incredible orgasm. Other than that and some riming is all i have ever tried. On me that is. Have done rimming and full on anal with gfs. The last one was realy turned on when just after getting inside her ass, i asked her "where is my cock"? she said that was very hot to tell me "It's in my ass"

 

[funguyn505]

Where do you find these guys that want to do this? No guy I dated wanted anything rammed up his ass.

Right here!! I'd love to let you...