how hard can you play?!

[LallyH]

Being restrained is interesting - something to pull against and fight with. But to stay in position whilst unbound gives me a truer feeling of submission - knowing I can move and avoid if I want to, but choosing not to.

 

[subtle_Dom]

I always want to be aware of where my partner's limits are at, since for me it is all about the power exchange and trust. I would not label myself a sadist but do enjoy restraining, spanking, flogging, clamping etc, to the extent that I know she will enjoy that level of power exchange and control.. I do find however that I am getting rougher as I have explored more..Small marks and abrasions can serve as nice reminders after but I am never interested in anything that would cause severe bruising and blood is a turnoff..

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

I like some degree of restraint, but I also crave the growl of a Dom's voice to hold still, and the mental and physical challenge it takes to achieve that, no natter what else is happening.
I enjoy flogging, spanking, paddles, riding crops, plugs, clamps, vibes and dildos as well as hot wax, rope, restraints, varied other insertables. I will leave what is done with those impliments to your imagination.

 

[dirtyprincess]

All of these I like to do and have done to me..
Biting
Bondage
Spanking
I also really love facial hair rubbed all over my body.... Is it getting hot in here or is it just me?

I also like it pretty rough when the occasion calls for it, I do not like to leave physical marks or have them left on me..

the facial hair thing i love too. When a lad is tearing my pussy with his tongue and he stop the coarse hair across my pulsing clit. x

 

[aim2plz412]

I like some degree of restraint, but I also crave the growl of a Dom's voice to hold still, and the mental and physical challenge it takes to achieve that, no natter what else is happening.
I enjoy flogging, spanking, paddles, riding crops, plugs, clamps, vibes and dildos as well as hot wax, rope, restraints, varied other insertables. I will leave what is done with those impliments to your imagination.

My lover would agree with your insights with respect to voice. My inflections can create a tether far stronger than leather and steel.

 

[MaitreDePlaisir]

Biting, spanking, hair pulling, ROUGH fingering, hard scratching and clawing WITH marks and even tiny droplets oft blood (she SO craves the extra sensation), breaking a struggle with just a little more force and SPEED than neccessary, restraining, cuffs, hard ass fucking (after agreeing before playing tough), pussy slapping,...it's just that I need someone to overpower...cute submissive girls give me nothing, I need someone headstrong, not a mere victim!!!

 

[jpin]

I want to know you're taking what you want, and that the level of desire you feel becomes more important than my right to say no.

That.

Is.

Hot.

As long as I'm not being injured, the whole 'letting a man be his primal self' thing is what attracts me to D/s.

After being such a delicate flower all my life, there is no turning back after feeling this!

 

[jpin]

Once upon a very long time ago, I switched for a top I was seeing. "Don't move," I learned, has a power all its own under certain circumstances.

I learned that 'don't move' can be harder than it seems. !

But enjoyable to be enforced

 

[S_Deckard]

delete

 

[lyzunchik]

I enjoy being able to struggle against some sort of restraints, but that's more like a nice accessory. What I need, what I crave, is the soul-rending, breath-taking pain. A crop on the insides of my thighs, a cane that finds the sensitive line between my ass and legs, nails raking down my back, fingers clenched in my hair, the steady beat of a flogger anywhere he chooses to throw it, and that evil little quirt that snakes into the folds of my pussy and shatters me.

Take me apart, push me to ragged sobs, whisper "I know you can take one more for me" and I'm complete.

I know exactly what you mean. An ex-girlfriend of mine was totally Domme, but agreed that before I submitted to her, she would give me 24 hours to dominate her. I took advantage of the situation and gave her the asswhipping of a lifetime. I knew I'd never get another chance like that. She was tied up reverse on her knees in a chair. She could have put her foot down after her beatdown, but she was a good sport and submitted the rest of the agreed time.
But when the time was up, yes, I got the assbeating of my life from her and she had a helluva good time giving it to me. She took her time and she knew all the tender spots to ensure I was subdued for her from then on. All she had to do from then on was just show me her cane and I was immediately submissive and obedient - whatever she wanted.

 

[Justine42D]

I have a fantasy of being handcuffed, having my ass and pussy spanked, then fucked so hard I can't walk straight the nexted morning

 

[CBM514]

how rough from a male or female perspective is just hard enough....hair pulling, spanking, handcuffs, whips, chains.....what feels good for you xx

No such thing as "too hard" for me

I enjoy seeing and feeling "reminders" the next day

 

[LovingDaddyDom]

I like to leave marks, but generally just hickeys. I won't do anything that could cause real harm or draw blood.

Some choking and breath play, spanking, handcuffs, bondage, hair pulling and biting. Those tend to be on the top of my list.

One of my favorite things to do (with a girl who can take it, I've seen way too many "Doms" who don't know their girls limits and take things too far) is to tie a girl's hands behind her back, tie her ankles and legs together so she cant move, lay her over the end of the bed and use her mouth and throat as I please while she lays there helplessly.

~DC

 

[roughmcgruff]

what a turn on

i love a woman who like getting fucked by two or more men and want a relationship with one but where do you find that. i want her to make me eat her creampies , eat her pusdy while its getting fucked by a huge dick, and for her to make me suck her lover or lovers off against my will while she pushes him in my mouth more. i really want her to do interracial for me to. where is a good place to start

 

[annred]

Its so erotic, I like being a cum bucket, but it has to be with the right older man ,the older the better

 

[dirtyprincess]

i love a woman who like getting fucked by two or more men and want a relationship with one but where do you find that. i want her to make me eat her creampies , eat her pusdy while its getting fucked by a huge dick, and for her to make me suck her lover or lovers off against my will while she pushes him in my mouth more. i really want her to do interracial for me to. where is a good place to start

wow!! That's hot!! Lol I'm sure plenty of women would see that as an ideal.

 

[little_donna]

how rough can it get?

I have been a member of the BDSM club for just over 25 years. I visit monthly with my dom friend.I honestly believe the roughness is dependent on the mood and the setting. I have been in some particularly uncomfortable situations, but somehow managed to enjoy.

 

[closerkin]

I would love to find a woman like this

 

[little_donna]

my dom is a woman about my age.

 

[keeley1974]

No such thing as too rough for me either x

 

[CBM514]

No such thing as too rough for me either x

Agreed...if anything I sometimes push her to go harder/more/farther

 

[annred]

No such thing as too rough for me either x

I like to be taken, as he shows me who is in charge, like my hair pulled my breasts squeezed, it helps to make me cum quicker.

 

[ejredlady]

I like the feeling of submission when he tells me to get on my knees and suck his cock. then when he uses my hair to guide my head up and down! I like when he slaps my ass, twists my nipples, sucks anywhere really hard. the few times he has used restraints pushed me to even harder orgasms. I wish he would do that more often.

 

[Riles]

How hard?

I have no idea yet what the limitations are, but I can't wait to find out. It's been the subject of much discussion, and I am sometimes fearful of my own desires in this respect. It's a me I don't know yet.

 

[Ruby_Atom]

No marks where they can be seen by others (in regular clothing), but everything else is fair game. I don't mind bruises that last for days.

I don't really get off on pain, but I like to experience it. It satisfies me mentally. Flogging and spanking are good. Make me scream, make me cry

My limits are more along the lines of not mixing BDSM and "regular" life. I don't do things in public (with the exception of BDSM-appropriate events). I don't carry over anything into my work day. I manage my own life 100%.