how hard can you play?!

[JamieJ424]

I'm not sure. I haven't really...REALLY...been able to let myself think about how far down the rabbit hole I want to go until recently. Turns out it's...farther than I thought.

We will see how thought and desire translate into reality.

 

[Maidinusa]

Ditto

 

[Gemma901]

Interesting that most ppl here have similar things they wouldn't do

 

[YAK411976]

I'd say I'm quite dominant in bed. How far I go depends on the girl I'm with. I discovered all this many years ago when I discovered my girlfriend at the time loved being spanked, and hard. Really turned her on. This led to bondage blindfolding etc. now she found my voice and accent a turn on and I could use that to control her. Part of my thing was the withholding of pleasure. Get her to a certain level then stop. Whisper what I want to do and if she wants me to continue, then say no if she said yes. Used to turn her on even more.

 

[Kat1980]

Mostly bare hands only. Implements of restraint feel superfluous to me. And silly, in most cases. If a man can't get the job done under his own power, then I'm not the girl for him. Though I might add that in most cases, psychological control goes a hell of a lot further with me than true, physical force.

I want to feel some measure of physical force most of the time. I want to know you're taking what you want, and that the level of desire you feel becomes more important than my right to say no.

I completely recognise this!

 

[CBM514]

I'm not sure. I haven't really...REALLY...been able to let myself think about how far down the rabbit hole I want to go until recently. Turns out it's...farther than I thought.

We will see how thought and desire translate into reality.

I agree...and will add that every time she pushes my limits I find myself wanting more the next time...maybe partially out of curiosity of how far we can go and partially because I like it?

 

[MeekMe]

This is a question I've been asking myself. Since I'm just starting out I only know what I've done. Restraint (bound/unbound) spanking, biting, rough sex, breast play and orgasm (forced/denial).

I'm willing to do more.

I draw the line at any kind of body modification and I don't want any kind of permanent marks. I like my body the way it is.

 

[Tanstaafl001]

Lately my gf and I have been exploring boundaries, and there's a few things that I've really enjoyed. First, in the role of dominant I really enjoy tit slapping and nipple torture. Fortunately for me, she also enjoys this. In the role of sub, I really enjoy having my engorged dick hit with a riding crop, and ball pulling/tugging. Although she's not really into it as much as I wish, she'd rather play sub than dom.