How it starts...that first moment that transforms a straight guy

[writerzblok92]

I don't remember ever being straight. I was in panties from the time I was out of diapers and grew up as a sissy.

Envious!

 

[writerzblok92]

For me, it wasn't having an experience with a cock, it was wanting one. Or more accurately, not wanting to die wondering. Now,, I'm 75 and circumstances may well mean that I will never have sex again, with anyone. But, I've had sex with 29 women and oral sex with three men and I'm wondering no more.

I hope you will have sex again...

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I hope you will have sex again...

Thanks, so do I. But I think it's unlikely.

 

[tristantrotsky]

The first time I saw another man's I needed it. I want it. He was a professor that had given me the experience of recieveing my first blowjob from a man. The next time it was me on my knees giving him the blowjob. I was hooked

Oral reciprocation is the perfect equality between men...

 

[AlexBailey]

I’m not sure I could have ever considered myself truly straight, but for years I was in denial about being attracted to some different guys.

The first guy I went down on was in a FmMf foursome - I was the little m. At first he was very uncomfortable playing with someone else with a cock but the girls and I got him so overstimulated that his inhibitions flew out the window. After a rough start he took to it like we were having a Mfff.

He wasn’t ready to give me oral or to give or receive anal but he liked tugging me and fingering me and the girls while we fucked each other.

Being in my GF’s pussy with his fingers up in me and controlling my movements is one of my many favorite memories, as is my first taste of his silky smooth and pulsing hard on.

It was my first time having a guy treat me like a girl, my first true sub-bi experience and the first step toward him eventually identifying as bi.

 

[Tayloroc]

Oral reciprocation is the perfect equality between men...

So true!

 

[Tayloroc]

So true

 

[PastMaster]

If I told you about my first time it would be deleted from the forum for breach of rules.

 

[Busy54]

If I told you about my first time it would be deleted from the forum for breach of rules.

You could PM me…. Would love to hear about it

 

[Elginbiguy]

I am a married guy and love sex with my wife, but a while back, I started fantasizing about sucking cock. I have since set up a few hookups where I got to suck a cock and I loved it. The only thing is I am not interested in anything else with a guy. I don't want to kiss, nip play or anal. Just sucking cock. A few of the guys I hooked up with tried for more, but I had no interest. Is this common? Thanks.

 

[ericrodman101]

I am a married guy and love sex with my wife, but a while back, I started fantasizing about sucking cock. I have since set up a few hookups where I got to suck a cock and I loved it. The only thing is I am not interested in anything else with a guy. I don't want to kiss, nip play or anal. Just sucking cock. A few of the guys I hooked up with tried for more, but I had no interest. Is this common? Thanks.

Anal I can take or leave, but kissing, especially before and after oral, is the real deal.

 

[Busy54]

I am a married guy and love sex with my wife, but a while back, I started fantasizing about sucking cock. I have since set up a few hookups where I got to suck a cock and I loved it. The only thing is I am not interested in anything else with a guy. I don't want to kiss, nip play or anal. Just sucking cock. A few of the guys I hooked up with tried for more, but I had no interest. Is this common? Thanks.

I am certain you are normal for you, the very broad range of straight to homosexual is as long as there are number of men. The grey area is almost infinite….. you be happy with you. What’s “normal” for me is not normal for most other men.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I am a married guy and love sex with my wife, but a while back, I started fantasizing about sucking cock. I have since set up a few hookups where I got to suck a cock and I loved it. The only thing is I am not interested in anything else with a guy. I don't want to kiss, nip play or anal. Just sucking cock. A few of the guys I hooked up with tried for more, but I had no interest. Is this common? Thanks.

If sucking cock is what makes you happy...
and I'm sure that you sucking their cocks makes your friends very happy indeed...
just enjoy what you have and don't spare a thought about anything else.
Be a proud cocksucker...

 

[derbybi]

If I told you about my first time it would be deleted from the forum for breach of rules.

Same here.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I am a married guy and love sex with my wife, but a while back, I started fantasizing about sucking cock. I have since set up a few hookups where I got to suck a cock and I loved it. The only thing is I am not interested in anything else with a guy. I don't want to kiss, nip play or anal. Just sucking cock. A few of the guys I hooked up with tried for more, but I had no interest. Is this common? Thanks.

Its very common! Ill mention gloryhole. Id like to chat with you more on this subject later

 

[SissySalina]

Many times I've been on Reddit and some guy with an absolutely massive cock like the one below will post a photo of himself sitting naked on the couch with a huge erection, and he will say, "We're roommates [I assume he means we're both straight, or I'm straight but he hasn't told me he's gay or bi] and you walk into the living room and find me like this. What do you do?"
Now I always imagine that this is a moment of profound embarrassment, as I go red in the face, trying to hide the very confusing physical and hormonal explosion going on inside me, with a strange force I've never felt before driving me to suck that cock. I'm saying as much as I, as a straight guy, could never have anticipated such feelings, such an inner change and need, in this situation I'm pretty sure this is what would happen to me. Have any of the rest of you experienced something similar which gave you your first experience with a man?
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Actually the correct response for this situation by a sissy would be "What would be your pleasure Sir?"

As for the first time by this sissy it was blindfolded with hands secured behind the back on the knees sitting in front of it. She instructed sissy to seek permission then find it by smell and only then begin to worship it with the tongue and mouth.

 

[Rich145]

I'm 60 years old, would honestly love to try but haven't had the opportunity. what is the best way to find someone? Ideals appreciated.

 

[Tayloroc]

I wish I knew!

 

[canogagrizz]

I'm 60 years old, would honestly love to try but haven't had the opportunity. what is the best way to find someone? Ideals appreciated.

The ideal situation is to talk to close friends. Especially seeing you are 60. I'm 59 myself. My buddy and I it started by just talking about our current sex lives. We both came to find out that we both were not getting much of any sex anymore in our lives. He told me how much he missed sex and how he masturbated a lot. Great way to approach without approaching really. I also admitted I masturbated a lot because I wasn't getting sex anymore. Then he mentioned we should jack off to some porn together sometime. Bingo! We did and one thing lead to another. J/O, oral then great 69 sessions.
My point being, although it's not an easy subject to discuss with some friends maybe, it's a way to see what is going on in their lives. If they ain't getting any sex or hardly do, chances are I think they MIGHT be open to messing around.
Going out searching for random sex with strangers is just a horrible thought to me and dangerous health wise. That always made me feel scared I might catch something. And the only reason is because when I was young, I found out about gloryholes in ABS and enjoyed myself a few times before the aids problem came about. And aids was deadly, and I had myself freaked out that maybe I might have contacted it messing around at the ABS. I was in my late teens when I did that and I stopped it after the breaking news about aids came out. Ever since then I stopped seeking promiscuous sex with strangers. So, best bet at your age is to just find out where your closest friends are at in their sex lives. Bring the topic up in a fun way and casually. You'll get a feel what is going on and if they MIGHT be up to messing around. If they are saying they are happy in their sex life then why bother even talking any further about it? You could mention that you've been so horney you'd do just about anything to have sex again in your life. And that is as far as I'd take it unless they inquire further to that mention. If they inquire it's a 98% they just might have the same thoughts & willingness as you.
Plus, going back to the fact if it's a close TRUSTED friend (maybe one you've known for years), if you came to find out that they'd be willing, then you know it will be 100% safe sex, which means you don't need to worry about using condoms also, which is a HUGE bonus. Especially if they are also married and don't want to disturb their marriage or have anyone else ever find out, that even triples the trust part. I know it's not an easy topic to discuss maybe with some close friends, but I have before. I never came out and said I wanted to do this or that with them. I left a few friends possibly wondering maybe but I just left the convo on that I was so horney I'd be willing to do anything. Two close friends we basically ended the conversation. If they wanted to know all they had to do was ask. But the 3rd friend that ended up willing, HUGE surprise for me actually, that one close friend I ended up finding was willing and totally horny as much as I was, it was awesome, and that is all you need. Good luck.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Actually the correct response for this situation by a sissy would be "What would be your pleasure Sir?"
As for the first time by this sissy it was blindfolded with hands secured behind the back on the knees sitting in front of it. She instructed sissy to seek permission then find it by smell and only then begin to worship it with the tongue and mouth.

Such a delightful confession SissySalina.
I imagine you looked so very divine blindfolded and tied-up, crouching to obediently suck that big cock

 

[canogagrizz]

I am a married guy and love sex with my wife, but a while back, I started fantasizing about sucking cock. I have since set up a few hookups where I got to suck a cock and I loved it. The only thing is I am not interested in anything else with a guy. I don't want to kiss, nip play or anal. Just sucking cock. A few of the guys I hooked up with tried for more, but I had no interest. Is this common? Thanks.

I think it's probably very common with married straight guys. I've always been the same way. I don't want anything else but the mutual masturbation or mutual oral. IDC what anyone thinks, I'm not attracted to guys so I don't consider myself gay or even bi. Just sexual. The need for sexual contact because I am also married, use to have great sex life then it all stopped because of my wife's sad health issues I won't get into. Sexless marriage and I am not attracted to guys whatsoever. I don't looked at guys sexually ever. I look at women though sexually. For me it's only the need to get off other than my own hand. Thankfully a few years back I found a close friend in the same situation basically also in a sexless marriage. We are both straight. Just hang out as we always have and then have extra fun. We have absolutely no interest in kissing, cuddling, nipple play, or ANYTHING else. We both find any of that sort of repulsive oddly enough. No emotional strings whatsoever. Just the mutual J/O & oral on each other. The 69 sessions awesome. It's purely about pleasure and the sex acts only and nothing else but just "getting off". And I'm not into thinking about sucking cock even. I mean I enjoyed it with my friend but it had to be a mutual thing otherwise I wouldn't be into just wanting to suck dick. Myself anyways. Tbh. Once mutually aroused though it is exciting and the nastiness of it all makes it even more erotic and exciting.

 

[docisin]

Many times I've been on Reddit and some guy with an absolutely massive cock like the one below will post a photo of himself sitting naked on the couch with a huge erection, and he will say, "We're roommates [I assume he means we're both straight, or I'm straight but he hasn't told me he's gay or bi] and you walk into the living room and find me like this. What do you do?"
Now I always imagine that this is a moment of profound embarrassment, as I go red in the face, trying to hide the very confusing physical and hormonal explosion going on inside me, with a strange force I've never felt before driving me to suck that cock. I'm saying as much as I, as a straight guy, could never have anticipated such feelings, such an inner change and need, in this situation I'm pretty sure this is what would happen to me. Have any of the rest of you experienced something similar which gave you your first experience with a man?
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My take is somewhat different that the others above. If I walked in and saw my roommate like that, I’D say, “Holy fuck! Teach me your photoshop skills!!!”

 

[PersonalFavors]

I think it's probably very common with married straight guys. I've always been the same way. I don't want anything else but the mutual masturbation or mutual oral. IDC what anyone thinks, I'm not attracted to guys so I don't consider myself gay or even bi. Just sexual. The need for sexual contact because I am also married, use to have great sex life then it all stopped because of my wife's sad health issues I won't get into. Sexless marriage and I am not attracted to guys whatsoever. I don't looked at guys sexually ever. I look at women though sexually. For me it's only the need to get off other than my own hand. Thankfully a few years back I found a close friend in the same situation basically also in a sexless marriage. We are both straight. Just hang out as we always have and then have extra fun. We have absolutely no interest in kissing, cuddling, nipple play, or ANYTHING else. We both find any of that sort of repulsive oddly enough. No emotional strings whatsoever. Just the mutual J/O & oral on each other. The 69 sessions awesome. It's purely about pleasure and the sex acts only and nothing else but just "getting off". And I'm not into thinking about sucking cock even. I mean I enjoyed it with my friend but it had to be a mutual thing otherwise I wouldn't be into just wanting to suck dick. Myself anyways. Tbh. Once mutually aroused though it is exciting and the nastiness of it all makes it even more erotic and exciting.

Have not been able to find this for years. I was in my 30's when made the discovery. Was going to watch a guy jerk off. We were bored on xmas holidays and that was where he said he was going. Odd broadcast I joked if he was looking for audience. Both in walking distance from the bar it actually happened. He was feeling a little odd pulling his pants down by himself so I agreed I would show him mine. Once erect and talking... long story short we blew each other twice that night.
Years later horny to have that exotic? excitement enhancement thing happen I wanted to pull my pants down with a guy somehow. Finally found it searching bi and curious kinds of places and found there were others that would blow for blow so they didn't need to jerk off. Made a friend like that. Visited for a while but we got busy or whatever. I think I found a fwb on the side that wanted me on the weekend mornings I could sneak over for a blow job. By the time the mood came where a no hoops bj trumped masturbation The 'bi' places only had guys wanting things that I would consider bi or gay. I never put a label on getting off with a like minded friend. The only thing that was close to the excitement was a good massage and feeling she got a glimpse or finished me off. Then I discovered Zenbrisa. Massage exchange. Had some really good friends over the years until zb got closed along with back page. Real shame. As it had nothing to do with the purpose. With the massage exchange encounters it was two guys talking about massage. At the exchange is the first time I really had any discussion of nudity. Which was no cover so there wasn't the interruption of moving the cover. When he rolled over fully erect I wouldn't acknowledge it until the guy said something. If it fit in context I would offer he could jerk off if he needed to. None ever had an issue with me touching it. And if we wanted to meet again for massage that usually started with discussion of the previous events and negotiating maybe a blow job before we got started and subsequent visits were pretty much a round of blow jobs comfortable naked and keeping it innocent enough curious about the pleasure we could release.
Anyway the thing I noticed was him or her, an orgasm is somehow private. A privilege to cause or encounter. I think that is a good bit of what keeps us interested as well. I don't think about it either. But horny enough to masturbate and have the time, the mood to help a friend out does cross my mind....

 

[muycurioso]

First time for me was a joke, but I had nothing better to do and was horny. I was 35, Xmas holidays my gf was away at her family’s. Shooting pool at a bar I could walk to a college age kid I was playing 8ball with said he was bored and going home to jerk off. Why tell me? Do you need someone to watch? Like a spotter while lifting weights was my joke. He took me up on it so I went to see what happened. Nice house no one home…. We whipped em out and sat talking. Both nervous I guess neither of us was getting hard. I asked if he liked his balls played with. Started feeling them for him similar to how I liked my girl to do for me. It worked we were both fully erect. Talked about it some more because neither of us had ever been it the situation before.
Fully erect he was like 10”. Explaining it was a curse as the only women able to take it were fat lazy or crazy. So I asked if I blew him would he blow me. Made him promise to let me know when it was coming and assured him I wouldn’t drop it and sustain his climax. Not only did I discover I gave good head he did too. We blew each other twice that night….

awesome

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Looking for that first touch and feel it get hard