How many couples have open relationships?

[Linedrive]

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You know, I think I spotted her somewhere nearby. She's in those damn books again...I really think she needs distractions

Distractions

We could continue your coruption of me?

 

[sabbathstorm]

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Now, here's the question of the day.....

Have you had separate rooms with separate people from two separate couples???

Our biggest problem, other than my wife being straight is often times one of us is not attracted to the other sex with a couple, so as a result, one of us goes along to get along......

No, we haven't had that kind of experience. Usually we get to know one couple. Sure it might be interesting to be involved with more than one at a time.

I can relate to not being attracted to one of the parts of the couple. It does happen a lot more often than most people will admit. Sometimes you do have to go along but not if you're totally repulsed by someone. We talk a lot about attraction to members of a couple. I'll honestly say that I haven't met someone in a couple that I was terribly attracted to but I give people the benefit of the doubt.

 

[sabbathstorm]

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Distractions

We could continue your coruption of me?

I'll corrupt you with talk of networks, cables, operating systems and all those sexy IT concepts. Geek chicks are just too hot to handle

 

[Linedrive]

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I'll corrupt you with talk of networks, cables, operating systems and all those sexy IT concepts. Geek chicks are just too hot to handle

Was that a challenge...?

 

[sabbathstorm]

Don't make me break out the cables!

 

[Linedrive]

Cables?

Don't make me break out the cables!

I love it when you talk dirty......I am hoping to finish the Atlantic City story tonight....keep giving me the inspiration

 

[sabbathstorm]

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I love it when you talk dirty......I am hoping to finish the Atlantic City story tonight....keep giving me the inspiration

Oh I'm looking forward to that. I really need something to help me relax tonight

 

[Linedrive]

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Oh I'm looking forward to that. I really need something to help me relax tonight

You, me, Storm, Angel, Hot tub, Champagne......?

Ah, guess that wouldn't really be relaxing

 

[sabbathstorm]

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You, me, Storm, Angel, Hot tub, Champagne......?

Ah, guess that wouldn't really be relaxing

Afterwards sure would be relaxing though! As long as I get a few hours sleep before school, I'll be fine

 

[Linedrive]

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Afterwards sure would be relaxing though! As long as I get a few hours sleep before school, I'll be fine

Agreed, afterwards would be relaxing. As for the sleep, we can probably fit that into the schedule between snuggles

 

[sabbathstorm]

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Agreed, afterwards would be relaxing. As for the sleep, we can probably fit that into the schedule between snuggles

That sounds great to me!

 

[Linedrive]

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That sounds great to me!

That loud sound you just heard was my motor starting up...

VRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMMMM

 

[sabbathstorm]

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That loud sound you just heard was my motor starting up...

VRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMMMM

*pat, pat*
you bring that motor right over here

 

[Linedrive]

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*pat, pat*
you bring that motor right over here

*Walks over to where Sabbath is*

"Hi beautiful...I've been thinking about you all day."

*Wispers in her ear*
"We are hijacking Tonguewaggers thread, hope he don't mind"

*Kisses Sabbath softly behind her ear*

"Yum Yum"

 

[sabbathstorm]

Highjacking? Who me?

*Walks over to where Sabbath is*

"Hi beautiful...I've been thinking about you all day."

*Wispers in her ear*
"We are hijacking Tonguewaggers thread, hope he don't mind"

*Kisses Sabbath softly behind her ear*

"Yum Yum"

*smiles*

If he minds, I'd guess I was in for a spanking

 

[Linedrive]

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*smiles*

If he minds, I'd guess I was in for a spanking

*grins*
*Tugs panties to your knees and commences a series of firm smacks on your ass*

 

[sabbathstorm]

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*grins*
*Tugs panties to your knees and commences a series of firm smacks on your ass*

I hope you do realize that I give twice as hard as I get

 

[Linedrive]

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I hope you do realize that I give twice as hard as I get

Any sentence involving you, me, hard, and give has got to be okay with me...

 

[sabbathstorm]

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Any sentence involving you, me, hard, and give has got to be okay with me...

LOL you're terrible...but I don't really mind

 

[Linedrive]

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LOL you're terrible...but I don't really mind

I know , and I am feeling very naughty today which doesn't make it any better.....but I don't really mind, I adore you

 

[sabbathstorm]

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I know , and I am feeling very naughty today which doesn't make it any better.....but I don't really mind, I adore you

I think you're just trying to be charming....flattery might get you places Right now, I'm off to a hot shower Care to wash my hair for me?

 

[Linedrive]

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I think you're just trying to be charming....flattery might get you places Right now, I'm off to a hot shower Care to wash my hair for me?

MMMMMMMM, such a tease

You have a nice hot shower there Sabbath

 

[Pure Pleasure]

hi....

my girlfriend and i have been together for over 15 years.... and we have a very open relationship.

it can be the single most threating act to your relationship!!!!! it takes two people who are extremely strong and have an exceptional trust in one another! for you must trust your significant other with utmost faith. and you have to keep yourself focused and make sure you never let yourself get close to anyone else in a manner that might threaten the faith your partner has put in you.

we know how much we love each other..... more importantly we know how much the other loves us!!!! so we have the utmost confidence in each other. that gives us the freedom to play and not worry.... and we can immerse ourselves in hot passion. we dont talk to each other about our individual forays. .... but oh do we enjoy each other and our group activities!!!!!!

we have found it has enriched our sexual lives..... but as i said .. you really have to have a relationship that is made of titanium!!!

now.... who wants to fuck????....lol....

we participate in 3 and moresomes together and also experience sex on our own.

 

[bearlee]

1) yes 2) yes 3) n/a I guess. Agree with Hong Kong but would add, no pressure. Either can say no anytime and no questions asked.

 

[amyanderic]

Re: Open Relationships

Hi all, Amy here....

I am new to this site, but wanted to reply to some of Tungwaggers questions and share a little bit about our experiences.

Hubby and I are 34/30, have been together for over 8 years now, and have been swinging for the last 2 years. Like everyone else, we never thought we'd be doing this but we are secure in our love and our relationship with each other and we're having a great time with it!

Our first experience was FMF with a married girlfriend of mine. We all had a great time and played very well together on numerous occasions, but I am not bi, so Eric and I decided to "expand our horizons" and talk with other couples so that we could all play together an not worry about anyone feeling left out. Since then, we have been lucky enough to meet up with two great couples that we get together with when our schedules allow (which is not often enough!)

We have no set routine at all when we meet up with either couple - we have gotten together in the same bed, different beds in the same room, and different rooms altogether.

Although the main reason we got into this at first was to experience it together, we discovered that it can be just as fun to for both of us even if only one of us has an encounter, so we have "allowed" each other to meet up with other people individually also. No sex was involved with my individual meetings (at least not yet - although my fingers are crossed!) but hubby did partake when he met up with someone, and it has not been an issue at all.

We abide by the same "rules" when meeting people individually as we do when we meet people together. And the issue of trust and commitment between a couple is something that's got to be settled before any type of encounter.

As for preferences, we both prefer that our "friends" be married, regardless of whether we meet individually or together - as it reduces the risk of messy social and/or emotional issues arising down the road.

Sorry for the long message - guess I got carried away - lol. But I look forward to reading other replies and opinions about the subject....