How many men after marriage?

[Annatartywife]

Not that he is not allowed as such, but not something I am too keen on or comfortable with (I know hypocritical LOL) and he isn't too fussed either.
The one woman was a one night thing at a business conference a while back.
He does join me and a couple of my regulars every now and again...x
What about you???

 

[bored_Idaho_girl]

In real life, hubby is the only one since we were married (and about a year prior).

In my fantasy life, many

 

[lucky_guy_49]

Me - none.
Her - one.

It was an affair with a coworker. It almost destroyed us. We worked through it and now our marriage is way better than before.

It also has become both of our biggest fantasies - her fucking other guys is a frequent topic in the bedroom. She loves hearing me tell her how much I want her to, and she loves telling me how much she wants them to.

Similar for us, but her=0 and I had the brief affair that took us years to work through. If fact she brought it up last week, and it was 30 years ago.

But in the bedroom in the heat of passion, it pushes her over the edge when I tell her about the “other” people in the room watching, waiting their turn with her, men and women alike. And I get off immediately if she’s playing with my ass and starts talking about how I need a real cock in my ass. But it’s all talk, as much as I think I’d like to see her experience a hung guy or two, or a woman who can bring her unique pleasure, our numbers are not going to change now. And that’s okay when the imaginary gang bang and I can get her off 3 or 4 times in a night!

 

[screwher]

Not that he is not allowed as such, but not something I am too keen on or comfortable with (I know hypocritical LOL) and he isn't too fussed either.
The one woman was a one night thing at a business conference a while back.
He does join me and a couple of my regulars every now and again...x
What about you???

My wife and I are kind of in the same situation. Our marriage is open to other men having sex with my wife. To which three men have reaped the benefits of our hotwife lifestyle. While I remain faithful. But our situation I wouldn't call hypocritical. It just naturally evolved that way from our combined desires. We both had lng time fantasies and desires of her having sex with other men. We started on them as a couple. But Mrs. Screwher does not have any desires of my sleeping with other women. She would be devastated if I fucked another woman!

 

[screwher]

Bumped. Hroughout our marriage, both hotwife and cheating, four other men have enjoyed my wife. I'm curious how many men have screwed other Litster's wives. Let's hear them.

 

[JR284]

I think she's a 19 so far and started early 2017.

 

[Jerseyboy52]

My wife

She's been with six different, since we're married. And I love it!

 

[policywank]

Agreed x And tbh it is far easier for me to 'play away' than it would be for him, if he was allowed to do that LOL
Far easier for us to release that capacity imo x

That is what we found. Our hot wife adventure started out as an open marriage. It was very easy for me to find lovers and structure those relationships in ways that worked for me and my husband.

Not so for him. He is quite attractive and good in bed but he has never been much of a ladies man. The women he did connect with generally wanted more or were turned off by our arrangement. The ones he did have sex with were mostly much more restrained than I. He basically came to the conclusion that he would rather "wait his turn" for me.

Meanwhile I found that my sexual activity was very stimulating and that helped keep it exciting with my husband. And he had been so generous and open with me that I took on the attitude that I had to go the extra mile to make sure he always has a good sex life. Honestly I think he gets more sex than most men (married or single). But first he had to do was let go of any notion of "keeping up".

I feel as though we often limit ourselves by attempting to limit our partners. Both of our sex lives improved after we opened things up. Arguably mine improved more - or at least the frequency increased more. But that wasn't intentional and to try to rebalance it all by apply constraints would just diminish both of our sex lives.

 

[Imaverycuriousguy]

At Least One

My wife is about 8 years younger and I was the big brother figure to help her end an affair with the married man that took her virginity. I had lots and lots of details of her affair and found the stories a bit stimulating. She began to show some interest in me, we began dating and finally married. She was pretty open and honest and i knew she would meet the married guy for "lunch" a couple of times per month during the first couple of years we were married. She always assured me that it was just "lunch".

Well, one night she was out late with the girls and arrived home around 2:30 AM, a bit drunk and I was horny. I started to go down on her and she protested.....I persevered and as my tongue hit her pussy I knew why she tried to stop me. It had the smell of sex and I could taste cum....I started to get upset but she was so turned on and grabbed my head and pulled it tight against her pussy.....she just went into a continuous orgasm. The she crawled on top of me and fucked me silly....

The next day I quizzed her about having sex with someone else and she was a bit angry and denied it...The scenario repeated itself several more times, always with her denying having sex with someone else. She continued to have "lunch" with her old married lover and never hid that from me but always claimed they never fooled around. We moved away after a couple of years and as far as I know she hasn't met up with him again. Circumstantial evidence but I know the smell and taste as I now regularly eat my cum from her pussy. She still denies it.

 

[screwher]

Bumped. Hroughout our marriage, both hotwife and cheating, four other men have enjoyed my wife. I'm curious how many men have screwed other Litster's wives. Let's hear them.

Hey Guys, looking for more input here. Thanks.

 

[Dreamer110]

Hey Guys, looking for more input here. Thanks.

Just two. One multiple times.

 

[lovesexfun]

Recently we've had a couple polls /threads about how many lovers our wives have had before we married them. Now how about after she said "I do".

Ladies - how many men have you slept with after your big day.
Gentlemen - if you have this info, how many men have enjoyed your wife since you married her?

For me, one guy I know of for sure has screwed my wife. I'm beginning to suspect a second.

my gf has done it with 2 and i enjoy the story she keeps on telling me about.

 

[OldFred65]

My wife is a former hooker, so she had many men, and a few women, before me. We only had sex with each other form marriage until or kids left home. Then we opened up our sex lives to others and we have both had numerous men and women since then. Exactly how many for either of us I can't say for sure.

 

[occasional_lovers]

Seven, mostly people I 'm in a somewhat permanent relationship with.

 

[Tiffany_Leggs]

Not sure, lost count a while back. Not as many as before at the moment, pregnancy tends to put a damper on things like that. Still horny as hell, but the body isn't cooperating.

 

[Crownvic]

Seven, mostly people I 'm in a somewhat permanent relationship with.

I love it....

 

[BBCfan]

Recently we've had a couple polls /threads about how many lovers our wives have had before we married them. Now how about after she said "I do".

Ladies - how many men have you slept with after your big day.
Gentlemen - if you have this info, how many men have enjoyed your wife since you married her?

For me, one guy I know of for sure has screwed my wife. I'm beginning to suspect a second.

so fascinating to read about the different lifestyles. Some VERY open-minded couples here. Kudos to you all.

I haven't been married too long and my wife is BIG on monogamy. I would be shocked if she had any.

I'd never want to hold her back from an experience, so as long as she was honest and we went down that road together I'd likely be ok. Especially one FWB she had for years...

I previously was in an open relationship which was an awesome experience but enjoy my present monogamy way more. We'll see how I feel in 10 years...

 

[GuessImJamie]

An outlier here. I had two boys (actually three, but my very first doesn't count, you have to stay on the bull for eight seconds to get a score) and four girls before my first (church, but not legally recognized) wedding in 1974 (subsequent weddings were to the same girl, with varying degrees of legal recognition). I have made love to those same six people in the last few days, but nobody else in those 45 years.

 

[Bunganut]

Only two guys. Looking for the third.

 

[Mystories189]

Let me think. My old highschool crush, 2 of my neighbor, 5 of my husband's friends, my boss, 3 of my clients, my accountant, my handyman, a contractor and his employee, 2 of my ex boyfriends, 3 of my old college friends, 2 of my friend's husbands,, 5 on a night at my friend's get together but minus 1 being that one was the before mentioned husband, a few guys I met at the bar, 2 of my father's friends, my brother's friend, my brother, 2 cops, 3 of the father's of kid's friends, 2 if my coworkers, 3 if my husband's coworkers, my friend's son, a few others. I've had sex with atleast 50 guys since I've been married.

I was fingered by a guy at a movie theater, ate out by another one of my husband's friend, fingered on the dance floor by stranger, substitute teacher dick at a parent-teacher conference, had a guy at 4th of July party so I sucked off and he ate me out, gave road head to a friend who gave me a ride, got fingered by trucker that I flashed when he caught up to me at a rest stop, a few others too. So I fooled around with atleast 10 more.

 

[BBCfan]

Let me think. My old highschool crush, 2 of my neighbor, 5 of my husband's friends, my boss, 3 of my clients, my accountant, my handyman, a contractor and his employee, 2 of my ex boyfriends, 3 of my old college friends, 2 of my friend's husbands,, 5 on a night at my friend's get together but minus 1 being that one was the before mentioned husband, a few guys I met at the bar, 2 of my father's friends, my brother's friend, my brother, 2 cops, 3 of the father's of kid's friends, 2 if my coworkers, 3 if my husband's coworkers, my friend's son, a few others. I've had sex with atleast 50 guys since I've been married.

I was fingered by a guy at a movie theater, ate out by another one of my husband's friend, fingered on the dance floor by stranger, substitute teacher dick at a parent-teacher conference, had a guy at 4th of July party so I sucked off and he ate me out, gave road head to a friend who gave me a ride, got fingered by trucker that I flashed when he caught up to me at a rest stop, a few others too. So I fooled around with atleast 10 more.

wow, impressive resume. Does your husband know and support it?

 

[Mystories189]

wow, impressive resume. Does your husband know and support it?

One of his friends, he jerked off watching me.
3 other of his friends, I fucked in front of him to piss him off
The HS crush, was my first. He found out about from someone else. They caught us.
I fucked the contractor in front of him. I couldn't help it. he kept telling me to answer the door even though it was in my underwear. 20% discount and he's hot
The rest, I'm not sure. I know he'd kill me if he knew about the one coworker, my brother, the friend's son, and a few others. So I know the majority he does not know of. A few he does.

 

[BBCfan]

One of his friends, he jerked off watching me.
3 other of his friends, I fucked in front of him to piss him off
The HS crush, was my first. He found out about from someone else. They caught us.
I fucked the contractor in front of him. I couldn't help it. he kept telling me to answer the door even though it was in my underwear. 20% discount and he's hot
The rest, I'm not sure. I know he'd kill me if he knew about the one coworker, my brother, the friend's son, and a few others. So I know the majority he does not know of. A few he does.

He must enjoy the challenge and excitement of having a super promiscuous wife. Not many guys could handle that I imagine.

So were you young when you fucked your brother? That's insane but I have to respect very much your owning it without guilt it seems.

I believe if you do something that brings pleasure and doesn't harm anyone why not carry a fond memory instead of regret.

 

[Mystories189]

He must enjoy the challenge and excitement of having a super promiscuous wife. Not many guys could handle that I imagine.

So were you young when you fucked your brother? That's insane but I have to respect very much your owning it without guilt it seems.

I believe if you do something that brings pleasure and doesn't harm anyone why not carry a fond memory instead of regret.

Yeah, caught him jerking off after walking in on me. I decided to help him. I don't regret it

 

[BBCfan]

Yeah, caught him jerking off after walking in on me. I decided to help him. I don't regret it

so I am curious...if you allow your husband to know of many of your trysts, and he is turned on by them in some way...

Why not divulge everything? Seems like he might be excited by them.

Do you like the secrets? Makes it more exciting?