How many men after marriage?

[MizShaw]

I was going to say 4 ... but then I saw you had defined 'sex' as 'penis in vagina' in any earlier post, so that takes it to 3 (one was just me pegging the guy, not reciprocal).

2 of those 4 were one-off play; one was occasional play; and one I have been seeing regularly now for almost half my marriage.

How many people has my husband fucked - I don't know and don't ask. It would kind of break my heart to know (yep, hypocritical: I own it!).

 

[Grindallnight]

She's had just one. We both want another...

 

[Justfantasies]

The perfect marriage is one that balances loyalties and love to one's spouse and sexual satisfaction with others

 

[OldFred65]

One of his friends, he jerked off watching me.
3 other of his friends, I fucked in front of him to piss him off
The HS crush, was my first. He found out about from someone else. They caught us.
I fucked the contractor in front of him. I couldn't help it. he kept telling me to answer the door even though it was in my underwear. 20% discount and he's hot
The rest, I'm not sure. I know he'd kill me if he knew about the one coworker, my brother, the friend's son, and a few others. So I know the majority he does not know of. A few he does.

I'm glad to see that you did your brother. Incest is best!!!

 

[dirtycarol]

I think it was 17. He knows about all but one, the first.

 

[screwher]

I think it was 17. He knows about all but one, the first.

My wife doesn't talk about the first guy that fucked her in our marriage. It was a cheating situation which almost ruined our relationship so she's mum about it. But shortly after I started to become aroused by it. So I'd love for her to give me some details about it.

 

[Saucy_Minx_2_Flirt_With]

For me ummmmm ZERO

but in.my.mind ummmm dozens

 

[dirtycarol]

My wife doesn't talk about the first guy that fucked her in our marriage. It was a cheating situation which almost ruined our relationship so she's mum about it. But shortly after I started to become aroused by it. So I'd love for her to give me some details about it.

Mine was just a blow-job, but it's the one I feel most guilty about.

 

[needit700]

52 years and she tells me

zero. She loves me and needs no one else.

 

[Saucy_Minx_2_Flirt_With]

zero. She loves me and needs no one else.

Appreciate that and cherish her for it.

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

I had what I think was a typically active sex life for a young man before I got married. Then I was married for 15 years and was faithfully monogamous. After that, I was astonished, maybe naively so, by how many married women wanted to have sex outside their marriage. I tried to apply some sort of moral calculus to each situation, but I think I was kidding myself, and it usually ended up messy.

 

[Dreamer110]

Only two. I'm sure she can do better.

 

[Snowbunnie12]

Just three... and just three before...

 

[dragonrock134]

bump!

 

[Dreamer110]

Just three... and just three before...

She's got you beat on the before anyway. Seven and I met her when she was fifteen.

 

[screwher]

I had what I think was a typically active sex life for a young man before I got married. Then I was married for 15 years and was faithfully monogamous. After that, I was astonished, maybe naively so, by how many married women wanted to have sex outside their marriage. I tried to apply some sort of moral calculus to each situation, but I think I was kidding myself, and it usually ended up messy.

I found this out in a hurry and (in one way) the hard way. During the early years of our relationship, Mrs. Screwher had a very hard stance on fidelity and monogamy. Then about three years in she developed an attraction to another man. It wasn't long before she spread her legs for him on a hotel mattress (the situation I mentioned on my previous post on this thread). Our marriage survived and she went back to her previous stance. Many years later I began to see a subtle difference in her regarding men. Sure enough it happened again. Only this time I had fantasizing abiut her having sex with other men for years and was secretly thrilled she did it.

So I believe that married women do have thoughts and fantasies of other men despite their beliefs about fidelity. They just don't want to ruin their marriage by acting on them.

 

[BBCfan]

So I believe that married women do have thoughts and fantasies of other men despite their beliefs about fidelity. They just don't want to ruin their marriage by acting on them.

I'm sure that's true about most women and men.

Both my wife and I have never been married before and have dated for a lot of years, so for her especially monogamy is something she's been looking forward to sharing with the right guy for a long time.

I was in an open relationship previously and it got tiring, I love monogamy now too. I don't ever think about other women, if she thinks about men, I told her I'm ok as long as we're honest and open about.

Down the road a bit who knows. I'd be open to possibly having another guy join us if it was the right fit for both.

Although I doubt she would but one never knows

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Not that he is not allowed as such, but not something I am too keen on or comfortable with (I know hypocritical LOL) and he isn't too fussed either.
The one woman was a one night thing at a business conference a while back.
He does join me and a couple of my regulars every now and again...x
What about you???

In the past, posts like this would bother me more. Nowadays, I can't help but notice how often men like your hubby are drawn to wives who like to be shared more than they like to share. Clearly, while not a perfect matching system (it's real life, after all), water very often finds its own level. Men who want to share more than they want to be shared often seek out those tendencies in women and help bring them out in said wives, encourage them as much as possible. So, now, I think that it's a "whatever floats your boat" situation like most other sexual/romantic arrangements. Not my business, as long as you're both happy and I sometimes get the fringe benefits as a side piece (just as long as the woman doesn't expect me to be faithful).

 

[MascaraRuns]

Recently we've had a couple polls /threads about how many lovers our wives have had before we married them. Now how about after she said "I do".

Ladies - how many men have you slept with after your big day..

1, other than husband

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Recently we've had a couple polls /threads about how many lovers our wives have had before we married them. Now how about after she said "I do".

Ladies - how many men have you slept with after your big day.
Gentlemen - if you have this info, how many men have enjoyed your wife since you married her?

For me, one guy I know of for sure has screwed my wife. I'm beginning to suspect a second.

She had none before me and 6 after we got married.
And even though she has been caught cheating on me she insists that she NEVER slept with anyone else but me.
I don't believe her---, AND I HAVE GOOD REASON.

 

[Saucy_Minx_2_Flirt_With]

Dozens and dozens of men ..........in my dirty little mi d

In reality ummmmm not a single one!

 

[Katieb_38]

Had a few since my divorce, still have sex with me ex husband on occasions.

 

[screwher]

Bumped. Hroughout our marriage, both hotwife and cheating, four other men have enjoyed my wife. I'm curious how many men have screwed other Litster's wives. Let's hear them.

I hoping during the time between this and the previous posts everyone's numbers went up.

 

[gk6h]

My wife is about 8 years younger and I was the big brother figure to help her end an affair with the married man that took her virginity. I had lots and lots of details of her affair and found the stories a bit stimulating. She began to show some interest in me, we began dating and finally married. She was pretty open and honest and i knew she would meet the married guy for "lunch" a couple of times per month during the first couple of years we were married. She always assured me that it was just "lunch".

Well, one night she was out late with the girls and arrived home around 2:30 AM, a bit drunk and I was horny. I started to go down on her and she protested.....I persevered and as my tongue hit her pussy I knew why she tried to stop me. It had the smell of sex and I could taste cum....I started to get upset but she was so turned on and grabbed my head and pulled it tight against her pussy.....she just went into a continuous orgasm. The she crawled on top of me and fucked me silly....

The next day I quizzed her about having sex with someone else and she was a bit angry and denied it...The scenario repeated itself several more times, always with her denying having sex with someone else. She continued to have "lunch" with her old married lover and never hid that from me but always claimed they never fooled around. We moved away after a couple of years and as far as I know she hasn't met up with him again. Circumstantial evidence but I know the smell and taste as I now regularly eat my cum from her pussy. She still denies it.

I have this happen too me...the first time did not know...I don’t know how I didn’t but she kept saying your making me so wet so I just kept licking...

 

[partsecond]

I have this happen too me...the first time did not know...I don’t know how I didn’t but she kept saying your making me so wet so I just kept licking...

I hope it is a high number.