How many men did your wife sleep with before she met you?

[CelesteWoods]

My husband never asked

 

[UhlBWett]

I never asked,

Because it really doesn't matter, she never asked how many women I had before we married. It only seems fair.

UBW

 

[wildchild24143]

My husband never asked

May I ask? I love the thought of thinking about my significant other getting pleasured. Knowing that dirty side of her is extremely erotic to me

 

[CelesteWoods]

"May I ask? I love the thought of thinking about my significant other getting pleasured. Knowing that dirty side of her is extremely erotic to me"

6 so not that many

 

[Justfantasies]

My husband never asked

He must have been nervous about asking or thinking he wouldn't believe you anyway

 

[Justfantasies]

"May I ask? I love the thought of thinking about my significant other getting pleasured. Knowing that dirty side of her is extremely erotic to me"

6 so not that many

My first wife told me 6 too -- at least that was the number she told me at first

 

[CelesteWoods]

He must have been nervous about asking or thinking he wouldn't believe you anyway

I dont think he really cared

 

[Justfantasies]

I dont think he really cared

Deep down he wondered. We all do.

 

[wildchild24143]

"May I ask? I love the thought of thinking about my significant other getting pleasured. Knowing that dirty side of her is extremely erotic to me"

6 so not that many

Any since him?

 

[Justfantasies]

Raising the question of how many men think she told them the truth . . .

 

[uncle easy]

I really love my wife. We have been married for over fifty years. She has told me many stories of her past sex adventures. There were many before me and several after we married. We were into the swinging lifestyle for several years. The number of men really does not matter. She has enjoyed sex from an age that I can not post here. If you are bothered by your wifes past sexual adventures,,,, maybe you should take a nice long look at yourself. Enough said. Just the ramblings of an old man.

 

[Justfantasies]

I really love my wife. We have been married for over fifty years. She has told me many stories of her past sex adventures. There were many before me and several after we married. We were into the swinging lifestyle for several years. The number of men really does not matter. She has enjoyed sex from an age that I can not post here. If you are bothered by your wifes past sexual adventures,,,, maybe you should take a nice long look at yourself. Enough said. Just the ramblings of an old man.

I don't think I ever said I was bothered

 

[policywank]

I have a theory, no evidence to back it up other than my irrational logic.
It is: any woman who would lie to her man about the number of men she has fucked in the past is more likely to be a cheater than a woman who is honest about it.
Think about it guys, it makes sense.

Maybe. It depends why she lied. Is she naturally inclined towards deceit or was it her man’s insecurities that induced her to be dishonest. We are often judged harshly for the number of our partners so it is natural to want to gloss over that. Ideally we would all just get over that but our experiences as women vary too. For some of us it is just a reality to be accepted but for some we have been taught from birth that it makes us bad - for those it takes longer (if ever) to fully accept one’s self.

 

[Justfantasies]

Maybe. It depends why she lied. Is she naturally inclined towards deceit or was it her man’s insecurities that induced her to be dishonest. We are often judged harshly for the number of our partners so it is natural to want to gloss over that. Ideally we would all just get over that but our experiences as women vary too. For some of us it is just a reality to be accepted but for some we have been taught from birth that it makes us bad - for those it takes longer (if ever) to fully accept one’s self.

She also may be waiting for the right time to tell him. My first wife waited and when she finally let me know how experienced she was it improved our relationship immensely

 

[Shelly2inme]

How many?

When I was 16 I had sex with one guy. Condoms only. That relationship only lasted a few months. Then I went for 3 years with no guys until I met the guy I married. He had sex with me before we were married so counting him I had sex with two guys before I was married.

 

[DanbyDrive]

My first wife told me 6 too -- at least that was the number she told me at first

My wife told me she had done "everything except" with 3 guys before me. I realized later I failed to ask what she meant by "everything except." Of course, I assumed she meant intercourse. Later, I realized she'd been parsing her words....

 

[Justfantasies]

My wife told me she had done "everything except" with 3 guys before me. I realized later I failed to ask what she meant by "everything except." Of course, I assumed she meant intercourse. Later, I realized she'd been parsing her words....

What do you mean exactly?

 

[magicalmoments]

When I was 16 I had sex with one guy. Condoms only. That relationship only lasted a few months. Then I went for 3 years with no guys until I met the guy I married. He had sex with me before we were married so counting him I had sex with two guys before I was married.

So ... this begs the question, How many since marriage?

 

[partsecond]

My current has had sex with a lot. She thinks it is in the 20s. One behind a walmart with a guy from craigslist.

I love hearing her stories.

Anyone else have a wife like this?

 

[CuMex1]

Around 4 or 5 guys
However she told me each of us have been average at best size wise some including myself being on the smaller end.

 

[magicalmoments]

I really love my wife. We have been married for over fifty years. She has told me many stories of her past sex adventures. There were many before me and several after we married. We were into the swinging lifestyle for several years. The number of men really does not matter. She has enjoyed sex from an age that I can not post here. If you are bothered by your wifes past sexual adventures,,,, maybe you should take a nice long look at yourself. Enough said. Just the ramblings of an old man.

I don't think this topic has arisen because men are bothered by the number. At least I know that I'm not. I'm truly excited by knowing, and the greater the number the more excited I am. I love knowing my lady was a slut. I love her telling me the details of her sexual encounters.
I really can't see how anyone can interpret this discussion as being a thing the men contributing are bothered by. I think you've grasped the wrong end of the stick.

 

[Airka4real]

Isn't the real question "experienced or not"?

If she is experienced, why would a number change anything?

For instance- would you feel differently if she had 11 lovers vs 5?

 

[Justfantasies]

I don't think this topic has arisen because men are bothered by the number. At least I know that I'm not. I'm truly excited by knowing, and the greater the number the more excited I am. I love knowing my lady was a slut. I love her telling me the details of her sexual encounters.
I really can't see how anyone can interpret this discussion as being a thing the men contributing are bothered by. I think you've grasped the wrong end of the stick.

I completely agree. You have grasped the idea of this thread perfectly

 

[anniebaby10]

Four including my husband who is my last and best lover. Which is why i married him.

 

[dirtycarol]

I'm in the 5-10 category. 3-4 worth mention and memory.