How many men did your wife sleep with before she met you?

[hisplaceof]

My wife had been with over 40 people. 32 were male. As to why I know and am sharing, you asked and she told. We did know most everything about each other prior to marriage except for the specific number and her total love for bi sex. She sort of had shelved that. The reason any number was nice to know, was because I knew she was a sex nut like myself. I did not want to be in a sexless or boring marriage, boy howdy did I get more than I bargained for!

 

[Justfantasies]

It seems that the number varies between the whole football team to she’s a virgin. My curiousity is why men want to keep score. Women aren’t interested in their husbands previous conquests so it has to be a male ego thing r not if the man likes the fact his wife is very experienced. I should think the more she’s had the better lover that would make her.

Some women are interested in learning about their guys sexual conquests, but they are not especially intimidated about them. Guys are often intimidated though iof inexperienced woman

But some are turned on. The biggest turn on I have ever had was discovering how many guys my wife had been with

 

[MetalRabbit51]

Mine had one before me. She grew up in a conservative society, the Philippines. Actually there's quite a double standard there. Wives are supposed to be chaste and pure, but husbands, and men in general, are given a pass most often for their extracurricular activities.

 

[Justfantasies]

Tuesday boom

 

[Porpoise123]

...it is exciting for a husband to think that his wife is experienced, yet she married him. I get very turned on imagining my wife with many men...

Agreed. When I met my life partner, she asked about my history as women often do. I told her I would only explain mine if she shared hers. Turned out we had about the same level of experience.

I used to travel a lot and we ended up using our prior experience as the basis for a pretty vivid long distance relationship. There's nothing quite like hearing your woman cum listening to you telling her about a previous conquest. To be fair, the feeling was very mutual.

 

[Justfantasies]

my current wife and I have about the same level of experience. But my first wife admitted. after five years of marriage, that she had fucked about 70 guys

 

[artgorden]

Not sure but I know its a lot. She was gangbanged multiple times.

 

[DonnaEcup]

Some women are interested in learning about their guys sexual conquests, but they are not especially intimidated about them. Guys are often intimidated though iof inexperienced woman

But some are turned on. The biggest turn on I have ever had was discovering how many guys my wife had been with

So the fact that your wife had many lovers was sexually stimulating for you? Growing up there were some girls that did go all the way, and some that didn't, and as far as I know they all ended up married even though the girls that did, usually moved away from the town where most of the guys lost their virginity with them.
My husband is like you, it turns him on to know I had several sexual partners ( not as many as he'd like) before we met but it might be different if he knew the guys.
Did you know any of your wife's previous lovers?

 

[DonnaEcup]

Donna, it is exciting for a husband to think that his wife is experienced, yet she married him. I get very turned on imagining my wife with many men. She claims 11, but recently confessed to one she had previously denied. Her rationalization was that he didn’t cum, so it wasn’t sex. Explain that one for me. So, now I wonder if that 11 was only the ones who orgasmed, or are there many more? I’ll never know the true number.

So maybe it's a kind of I won the prize, ego thing for the man that ended up with the experienced woman? That sort of makes sense.

 

[gtnlynn]

Only one before we met, but we met when she was 14, almost 15.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

So maybe it's a kind of I won the prize, ego thing for the man that ended up with the experienced woman? That sort of makes sense.

It's titillating and intriguing to learn that your wife experienced many lovers in her youth. It challenges you sense of jealousy a bit and your desire to love her the way she is. I don't want my wife to feel she has to hide such things from me for fear I might like her less. I embrace her past in an effort to really get to know who she is and what she likes. I want to know about who she's attracted to and might have the hots for. Whether it is reciprocated. It's all part of knowing her fantasies and desires.

 

[ardeeo]

Good point. So how many guys have wives who have fucked more than 100 guys?

Double that that she admits.

 

[conquen]

It seems that the number varies between the whole football team to she’s a virgin. My curiousity is why men want to keep score. Women aren’t interested in their husbands previous conquests so it has to be a male ego thing r not if the man likes the fact his wife is very experienced. I should think the more she’s had the better lover that would make her.

I can only speak for myself but when I was younger I couldn't handle that kind of information without being hurt and jealous. As i matured and became more comfortable in a much healthier relationship, I found myself very intrigued in my current wife's past encounters. The more there were, the more attracted to her I became, and the more aroused I get thinking about it. When I'm fortunate enough to hear about her past I am instantly hard as hell.
I suppose, as I once told her, that I love thinking of her as a sexual being, in a sexual context regardless of who it is with.
I have heard this referred to as compersion. I am in no way a cuckold but I enjoy the thought of my wife being pleasured by someone other than myself. I love her to the extent I want her to have experienced all the pleasure possible. Even now I wish I could help her experience that, with or without me.

 

[ardeeo]

No one has yet answered the question with “not enough!”

Ok I will.

 

[zoso682001]

She's never told me a number but as far as I really know it was only 5 to 7 . That's changed a bit since we've been together .

 

[ardeeo]

So about half of husbands who have answered think their wives were kinda slutty before them.

Maybe I should have asked which guys think their wives did 30 or more?

How About 100 or more 200 or more.....

 

[ardeeo]

I’m the wife and it was lots. I think I doubled the tally in one year of madness.

Ok ... but how.many!

 

[ardeeo]

Raises hand.

 

[phil1955]

History is nice but the important thing is how many are they going to do in the future.

 

[ShelbyNight]

# of Men

How many men did your wife sleep with before she met you?

I'm a single widowed woman.never cheated on .y husband
But before I met him ,I'd guess at 40 to 50. However putting that in perspective, I didn't marry till nearly 40 and I was a wild child in my late teens a d twenties. A d there's nothing wrong about that !

 

[Jonjonjohnson]

I'm a single widowed woman.never cheated on .y husband
But before I met him ,I'd guess at 40 to 50. However putting that in perspective, I didn't marry till nearly 40 and I was a wild child in my late teens a d twenties. A d there's nothing wrong about that !

40 or 50, nice work

 

[fire515]

11 that i know of. details slowly trickle out.

 

[Justfantasies]

I'm a single widowed woman.never cheated on .y husband
But before I met him ,I'd guess at 40 to 50. However putting that in perspective, I didn't marry till nearly 40 and I was a wild child in my late teens a d twenties. A d there's nothing wrong about that !

Some of us appreciate an experienced woman who sees sex as fun. Just how wild were you in your 20s?

 

[ShelbyNight]

Some of us appreciate an experienced woman who sees sex as fun. Just how wild were you in your 20s?

Generally just had a string of crazy,Young ,dumb a d full of cum boyfriends. Had my first threesome with one of them, went to adult theatre for 1st time, tried out sex Toys...1st time.

In between relationshios I had a few older men who helped me out and each had very particular likes. Was a secret to me fir longtime . But now that I'm single again. I'm sure glad I had those experiences.

 

[Justfantasies]

Generally just had a string of crazy,Young ,dumb a d full of cum boyfriends. Had my first threesome with one of them, went to adult theatre for 1st time, tried out sex Toys...1st time.

In between relationshios I had a few older men who helped me out and each had very particular likes. Was a secret to me fir longtime . But now that I'm single again. I'm sure glad I had those experiences.

So what are you into now?

Love threesomes -- especially young threesomes. My first was at high school