How many men did your wife sleep with before she met you?

[hex2112]

As far as full sex she says probably 25. This does not count just blowjobs or handjobs. She has probably given blowjobs to at least 30 guys without full sex. Handjobs a little less. So I would say she had some sort of sexual contact with around 60 to 70 guys.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

As far as full sex she says probably 25. This does not count just blowjobs or handjobs. She has probably given blowjobs to at least 30 guys without full sex. Handjobs a little less. So I would say she had some sort of sexual contact with around 60 to 70 guys.

Mine says 21 total. "They" say to double number for women, but I think that about does it. I've got more, at least the ones I can remember (56 yo here). Who I was banging drunk late at night in my teens just isn't prominent in my memory any more.

We do like talking details of our past lovers with each other.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Lol cue Clerks...

https://youtu.be/xOkI2CmD2D8

 

[Charles36]

My current wife had been single for many years after her first marriage. She joined Parents Without Partners, every month or so she would go to a chapter dance some distance from her home with the purpose of a one-night sex session.

So at least 12 men a year for several years. She had had her fallopian tubes cut after her divorce so this fucking was all bareback. She may well have reached a hundred.

 

[Justfantasies]

My first wife told me that she had been with four men, which didn't seem like very many. We didn't talk about it much after we got married.

Then one day, we got a little bit drunk and she confessed that she had lied to me -- this was about six or seven years after we got married. At first she told me about a couple more, but then she gradually admitted that before me she had been a total slut. She wasn't even sure how many guys she had been with in total. Together we estimated at least 70.

 

[spanky5147]

I know my wife's number is higher after we got married,

 

[Porkwarrior]

My first wife told me that she had been with four men, which didn't seem like very many. We didn't talk about it much after we got married.

Then one day, we got a little bit drunk and she confessed that she had lied to me -- this was about six or seven years after we got married. At first she told me about a couple more, but then she gradually admitted that before me she had been a total slut. She wasn't even sure how many guys she had been with in total. Together we estimated at least 70.

And i'll wager real money you fucked her stupid after getting hard listening to her.

I know my wife's number is higher after we got married,

Oh shush, tease.

 

[WisBlueEyes]

How did that work out for you -- did you feel intimidated? Or that you missed out?

Never had a problem with it.She told me about many of them..She never talked about it unless I asked.. Only thing she said was she was to young and it's better now. Something had to be right for being together 38 years and great sex for 34 of them. But when your together that long I will say sex I is not at the top of a relationship. It's up there. But not at the top.

 

[Justfantasies]

And i'll wager real money you fucked her stupid after getting hard listening to her.

Oh shush, tease.

I certainly did

 

[kisschampagne]

Which backs up the theory when you ask a woman how many partners she's had you double the number she gives you. A guys number you cut in half.

Lol. I evaded mentioning numbers after maybe the 3rd lover- unlike the guys on this thread, my guys tended to have some complex favouring virgins.

 

[jedclampet69]

How many men did your wife sleep with before she met you?

My ex wife was an escort before we meet and very sexual when we first met.. Ex wife and the only wife.. Escort for 10 years so many men.. Then as sex with strangers friends and boy friend was only.. Only she says 37 .. I could never compete but was extremely erotic being married to a sexual goddess

 

[Justfantasies]

My ex wife was an escort before we meet and very sexual when we first met.. Ex wife and the only wife.. Escort for 10 years so many men.. Then as sex with strangers friends and boy friend was only.. Only she says 37 .. I could never compete but was extremely erotic being married to a sexual goddess

That sounds very exciting -- sorry that you guys split up

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

Lol. I evaded mentioning numbers after maybe the 3rd lover- unlike the guys on this thread, my guys tended to have some complex favouring virgins.

Ha! I like sexual women, so I expect they have had sex. No mystery there. From relationship standpoint, honesty is critical. Maybe some don't care, a very select few, if they're being deceived. About discussing our pasts together, she likes hearing my kinky stories, and I like hearing hers. I never had designs for bagging a virgin, though it could be interesting. If one marries a 30 yo virgin, the down side could be they simply don't like sex that much. That's a recipe for disaster in my opinion. I'll take the gal with 25 notches in her bedpost! There's no panacea!

 

[luvdoublepenetration]

Well i told my hubby i had been with only 3 men before him...Actually i had been with 10-15 men...I had many one nighters and one double penetration before marriage. Once i slept with his colleague 3 days prior to my marriage.. I never told my hubby...9 months later my daughter was born...

 

[kisschampagne]

From relationship standpoint, honesty is critical. Maybe some don't care, a very select few, if they're being deceived

I guess from my experience, I'd rather not have the number flung in my face in the heat of some pettiness (apologizing after words uttered in anger simply doesn't cut it). And there was the THIRD lover who was agitated enough to grunt in the midst, "I! Hate! That! You! Fucked! Others!" I think those liked sluts, but miraculously virginal ones...
(Oops sorry, I've gone off-topic since this is about wives/ husbands from husband perspective!)

 

[Larkfield61]

To my knowledge two but in twenty years of swinging after l've lost count.

Now she behaves as if it never happened and won't even let me have her. Thankfully my girlfriend makes up for it.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

I guess from my experience, I'd rather not have the number flung in my face in the heat of some pettiness (apologizing after words uttered in anger simply doesn't cut it). And there was the THIRD lover who was agitated enough to grunt in the midst, "I! Hate! That! You! Fucked! Others!" I think those liked sluts, but miraculously virginal ones...
(Oops sorry, I've gone off-topic since this is about wives/ husbands from husband perspective!)

Yes, those are all concerns when discussing prior "loves". We've been married happily for over 20 years. Our kids are now entering adulthood and consquently have more time for ourselves. We've been discovering many things about each other like tenancies toward the bi-sexual. She mentioned some of what you did above, that she didn't want this "used against her". But she likes hearing about some of my wild stories and likes to tell about hers. It seems like innocent fun.

 

[Justfantasies]

Yes, those are all concerns when discussing prior "loves". We've been married happily for over 20 years. Our kids are now entering adulthood and consquently have more time for ourselves. We've been discovering many things about each other like tenancies toward the bi-sexual. She mentioned some of what you did above, that she didn't want this "used against her". But she likes hearing about some of my wild stories and likes to tell about hers. It seems like innocent fun.

Is it innocent fun. Or does what she tells you turn you on?

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

I guess from my experience, I'd rather not have the number flung in my face in the heat of some pettiness (apologizing after words uttered in anger simply doesn't cut it). And there was the THIRD lover who was agitated enough to grunt in the midst, "I! Hate! That! You! Fucked! Others!" I think those liked sluts, but miraculously virginal ones...
(Oops sorry, I've gone off-topic since this is about wives/ husbands from husband perspective!)

I should have said that the number, if I remember correctly, was much smaller back when we were dating, like in the low teens. After a recent "re-counting", the number came in in the twenties. Unless she's been fucking behind my back, which I don't think so, she wasn't completely truthful with me back then. She definitely saw the need to put her best foot forward at beginning of the relationship. This kind of honesty requires a lot of trust and care to avoid the slippery slope you mentioned.

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

Is it innocent fun. Or does what she tells you turn you on?

Oh, it turns me on. And it turns her on to both hear me talk about my past and for her to talk about hers.

 

[Justfantasies]

Oh, it turns me on. And it turns her on to both hear me talk about my past and for her to talk about hers.

Yes me too -- although my wife is a little reticent to hear my past. She will bring it up, but after a short time she will say she wants to move onto another topic. Yours too? Or is she really into you fucking?

 

[Deleted member 1655181]

Yes me too -- although my wife is a little reticent to hear my past. She will bring it up, but after a short time she will say she wants to move onto another topic. Yours too? Or is she really into you fucking?

Yes, she likes to hear about it...then fuck. I detect no reticence.

 

[maverick51]

total of 5; two husbands (both passed away) and three between husbands before me

A couple of weeks ago we exchanged details of our experiences. The three men she had between husband and me were interesting.

The first was a guy, "D"who worked at the same company in a different department. They dated a couple of weeks and decided to spend the weekend together. She said they had a "F"fest almost non stop sex. It was her fist oral experience in both giving and receiving. They dated for about a month and she decided to go to a dance hall/restaurant/bar.

She met a "nice gentleman about 6'4" well built. They met at the dance hall the following week and then had formal dates. After the fourth date he invited her to dinner and picked her up at her home. they were both dressed appropriately. After dinner he asked her if she like to have a drink at his house and they did. After the second drink they ended up in the bedroom. He undressed her first removing her shoes, then stockings with a brush of his hand on her pussy. Off with the skirt and blouse followed by her bra and panties. She said it was the most erotic and stimulating experience. She removed his shirt and slacks and jockey shorts and was amazed when she saw his 7 to 8 inch cock. They kissed and stroked one another and he entered her but she could not rake all of him. She said he put 6+" in but that was it. They continued to date for about three months before she went back to her first guy "D".

The last guy she had before me was a bit older and according to her had small equipment. There sex was barely satisfying and most of the enjoyment was fondling and mutual masturbation.

 

[Dreamer110]

total of 5; two husbands (both passed away) and three between husbands before me

Seven. And since I met her when she was young she was a busy girl.

 

[MoonDanceKId]

More than ten ...

... starting when she was very young. After we married no more than three addional, I think. A pussy doesn't wear out easily, nor does it need to go into the shop every 1,000 inches or so. I wasn't virgin when we married, why should she be?