How many men have had your wife?

My wife and I met when she was 55 and I was 45.

She was a widower and her husband and she were married for 22 years. Before that, she was in two fairly long long term committed relationships.

But before that, and in between relationships, she was very sexually active. As a medical professional she had a lot of liaisons and hookups at medical conferences with doctors. And she was very sexually active as a young woman in the mid/late 1970s.

She says she’s been with about 45-50 men.

It’s hot to think about. We’ve talked a lot about it, but she has no desire for an open relationship. She is too scared of what might happen (to her and to me).
 
My wife and I met when she was 55 and I was 45.

She was a widower and her husband and she were married for 22 years. Before that, she was in two fairly long long term committed relationships.

But before that, and in between relationships, she was very sexually active. As a medical professional she had a lot of liaisons and hookups at medical conferences with doctors. And she was very sexually active as a young woman in the mid/late 1970s.

She says she’s been with about 45-50 men.

It’s hot to think about. We’ve talked a lot about it, but she has no desire for an open relationship. She is too scared of what might happen (to her and to me).
You are probably at a good age for her to get out and try out a few more men. You both are mature so your relationship should be pretty solid. Both been around the block a few times so nothing really shocking to you. My wife claims that a woman needs a different cock every so often and I will say that it certainly seems to keep her libido at a high level when she is getting some strange cock. Assuming you would not mind if she fucks another man and really enjoys it, I think she would enhance her sex life and yours because she will want to make sure you are compensated.
 
You are probably at a good age for her to get out and try out a few more men. You both are mature so your relationship should be pretty solid. Both been around the block a few times so nothing really shocking to you. My wife claims that a woman needs a different cock every so often and I will say that it certainly seems to keep her libido at a high level when she is getting some strange cock. Assuming you would not mind if she fucks another man and really enjoys it, I think she would enhance her sex life and yours because she will want to make sure you are compensated.
My thoughts exactly. We are both mature. We both know what we want,
We know the diff between love and sex.

We’ve had the conversation many times over several years.

She’s monogamous af!

And it’s not what I want, but I have to respect her boundary. But she does let me talk and fantasize about it. In fact we did just yesterday during a rather intense session we were having.
 
My thoughts exactly. We are both mature. We both know what we want,
We know the diff between love and sex.

We’ve had the conversation many times over several years.

She’s monogamous af!

And it’s not what I want, but I have to respect her boundary. But she does let me talk and fantasize about it. In fact we did just yesterday during a rather intense session we were having.
Well at least that is something. It is not for everyone but sometimes they do change as they get older.
 
My wife said there were 6 before me, but I suspect that there were quite a few more sex partners and even more that were just fooling around, handjobs, etc. She was definitely boy crazy in her late teens and big into going to dance clubs, which led to at least 4 of her sex partners. She was a dancer and really knew how to move her body. I can only imagine how many more there were that didn't lead to sex.
 
She has never given me an exact number but I think about 20 until we retired. Since then she has added about 20 more and 2 more in the last two weeks. Very few one time hookups so she does like to keep busy in her retirement.
glad your back, hope all is healed. You and your wife both hall of famers, You are a special husband with that arrangement you have, i like hearing her stories of men cumming inside of her, Love for her to pee thru a girdle on me.
 
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