How many men have had your wife?

[screwher]

My wife recently confessed to cheating with another man years ago. It was during what I call her “slutty phase” of our marriage.

So there was one guy before me. Four in cheating situations (I suspect there were more).And we’re a hotwife couple now and she’s had three lifestyle lovers.

 

[hiker283]

In an early reply I said 8 in college. She has admitted to 6 and is sticking with that number, but I have some doubts. Most of the time in college it was 2 men, her first and then a regular FWB after the first guy moved an hour or so away. She still saw him somewhat regularly after he moved. I am not sure if she was ever with him after we married, but I know she spent 3 nights with him about a month before we got married.

There is something exciting about imagining him getting her panties off, getting between her naked thighs and then pushing between her labia.

 

[Nellie60]

In an early reply I said 8 in college. She has admitted to 6 and is sticking with that number, but I have some doubts. Most of the time in college it was 2 men, her first and then a regular FWB after the first guy moved an hour or so away. She still saw him somewhat regularly after he moved. I am not sure if she was ever with him after we married, but I know she spent 3 nights with him about a month before we got married.

There is something exciting about imagining him getting her panties off, getting between her naked thighs and then pushing between her labia.

Would love to hear stories of early seduction and what they did together.

I have asked every ex girlfriends about past boyfriends and makes for incredible dirty talk.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I get a bit confused about the meaning of the answers to this question and wonder what the consensus is on the number that transforms a woman into just an experienced woman and what higher number transforms her into a slut. Women's answers especially welcome

 

[junkh3ad]

I was promiscuous in my 20s and kept count for a few years. By my 30th birthday I've had well over 100 lovers, most were basic slams but a few I lived with for a while. I was much more interested in being seduced and taken than any relationship. I have some great memories and some amazing stories to tell. My husband of 20+ years has enjoyed hearing these but was too jealous early on.

I have been shocked at how low most peoples numbers seem to be. Most women I know are closer to 100+ partners than 1-6 that seem to be everyone's norm.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I have been shocked at how low most peoples numbers seem to be. Most women I know are closer to 100+ partners than 1-6 that seem to be everyone's norm.

I have always enjoyed the stories, especially when they tell them so well with lots of dressing and undressing

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I have been shocked at how low most peoples numbers seem to be. Most women I know are closer to 100+ partners than 1-6 that seem to be everyone's norm.

Starting young definitely helps the number count. Most women I know are under the count of 10
One was on a mission after her divorce to hit the 100 mark but found she was more interested in guys that could go all night versus needing several guys a night to satisfy her need for cock.

Plus she won't just fuck anyone they need to be semi attractive

 

[Kolejdayz]

I think women vary on some things -- all night for some, casual and quick for others. Would you say 25 is a lot?

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I think women vary on some things -- all night for some, casual and quick for others. Would you say 25 is a lot?

No, but so many women were brought up conservative and told not to give it up that it hinders their sexuality for life my wife included. Had we not swapped for a period of time her number would be two. Myself and her ex.
As a male I am over 40 and got married at 23.

 

[spooz3x6]

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[Kolejdayz]

25-30 - she got passed around the lacrosse team as well as among the frats.

She must have been cute then -- is 25-30 a lot in your opinion

 

[Dreamer110]

According to what I see here not nearly enough. 7 before marriage and 2 during.

 

[vandelayatx]

I do not know the exact number, but I think only a few consensually.

 

[Carson19820]

Two before we were married, one during first part of marriage that I knew about (and witnessed), one I didn't know about for years, three she admits to while separated. Oh and me.

 

[conquen]

My wife estimates apparently 35. I like that number, enough to be interesting but not enough to scare me. I think there may have even been one after we married about 15 years. I wish she would open up about it, I’d love to hear the details.

 

[Brittttlvr]

It’s an interesting question. The real question is how many men feel that they own/owned her. When she bared her asshole to him and sucked his dick, they opened a connection that never really goes away. I know two guys who have had my wife. One of them is smug as hell to this day.

 

[Sgts19]

I might have added this earlier, but she'd always said six but recently the 6 turned to 8...I always knew she was hiding one or two lol
I know 5 by sight only and one other who is a well-known radio guy

 

[Medicalman13152]

I believe my wife having fucked 3 guys prior to me, to be true.

She was raised in a very strict, religious family and didn’t have her first boyfriend until she was almost 17. Her next boyfriend was at 18 and her next was when she moved in with another guy at 19.

We met when she was 20 and she moved in with me immediately after leaving her ex.

I tried for 15 years to get her to fuck another guy, until she finally agreed to just meet him, but would not fuck him. It took 2 more “dates” (the 3 of us) before she agreed to “fool around and see what happens”.

She ended up fucking him 3 times that night and 4 times on another encounter, but refused to do it again.

A year later I got her to fuck a masseur, but that was the last.

We haven’t had sex in over 10 years, so I’m pretty sure that she’s fucked others. But knowing her, I can’t imagine that it’s more than 3 other guys.

So in total, 6 guys have had her (that I’m sure of) but possibly 9 or 10.

Similar story here.

She was raised in a very religious, rural family, with older siblings. To my limited knowledge, She has had sex with approximately 5 or 6 individuals before me, and possibly 1 or 2 since we have been together. She does not discuss these matters openly, but this is the information I have gathered over the course of our 10+ years together.

Currently, we only have sex maybe 5 times per year, so perhaps that number is larger than I am aware?

 

[Nellie60]

Two before we were married, one during first part of marriage that I knew about (and witnessed), one I didn't know about for years, three she admits to while separated. Oh and me.

Did you ever hear about the earlier ones and ones while separated and of course what happened in the witnessed one?

 

[mustang_driver]

I might have added this earlier, but she'd always said six but recently the 6 turned to 8...I always knew she was hiding one or two lol
I know 5 by sight only and one other who is a well-known radio guy

Interesting. I doubt my wife would remember that she told me her number was 7 some 20 years ago. I wonder what she would tell me now? Unfortunately, these topics seem to be off the table now, so I have to be careful when/how I ask.

 

[hoozierbond]

She doesn't keep track, but I doubt either of us can count that high.

 

[PapaRomantic]

She says I'm her only one, but evidence strongly suggests she's lying.

 

[Kolejdayz]

She says I'm her only one, but evidence strongly suggests she's lying.

What evidence?

 

[DirtyHarry_SlutMaker]

Wow numbers are so light weight.

 

[BDA73]

Just me