How many people have you had sex with?

[oldsoul24]

I am 24 and have slept with 2 guys

 

[RoperTrace]

I am 39, I have had sex with 4 men in my life

Since it's in the lower numbers, are you still friendly or in contact with them? Maybe friendly isn't the right term.

 

[colorfulnayyy]

None that count

 

[Dashabout]

im 40s and have not kept count

Same here, didn't know we'd be having a memory test like in school.

 

[magic_rat]

11 people more than last time I answered.

 

[PastMaster]

sliding ever closer to 60, and that's years old not how many i've had sex with,
I dont know how many people I have had sex with - a lot. probably more than 100 and less than 1000 - but more accurate than that I can't be.

 

[magic_rat]

i'm 61. Numbers stopped being important when I was in my 20s. My partner keeps records. No kidding. I met her through swinging and she has a list of every guy she's ever swung with with notes, so she knows if a guy is worth a revisit. For instance "Mr 27 minutes" (from parking the car to saying goodbye) doesn't get a second go. "Warrington guy" (Huge cock, intense orgasms) could probably move in.

 

[PastMaster]

i'm 61. Numbers stopped being important when I was in my 20s. My partner keeps records. No kidding. I met her through swinging and she has a list of every guy she's ever swung with with notes, so she knows if a guy is worth a revisit. For instance "Mr 27 minutes" (from parking the car to saying goodbye) doesn't get a second go. "Warrington guy" (Huge cock, intense orgasms) could probably move in.

Have you seen her notes on you?

 

[magic_rat]

Have you seen her notes on you?

Yup. I don't match up to warrington guy but my entry is 'just wow!'.

That's why she's now my partner and not just 'that guy from boxing day'.

 

[ycym]

What... at once? None of your business.

 

[Sarah_Something]

An even 50.

 

[starlightvirgin]

Two guys and three women

 

[sterculius]

I've had sex with 7 women, but I've sucked the cocks of over 100 men

 

[lazy_literotic]

I've had sex with 7 women, but I've sucked the cocks of over 100 men

of all the guys I've known - none have said that they've sucked other guys.
except for gay guys I've know, which I never asked about specifics.

 

[sterculius]

of all the guys I've known - none have said that they've sucked other guys.
except for gay guys I've know, which I never asked about specifics.

Strangely enough, I don't consider myself to be 'gay' as I feel none of the emotional attraction to men as I do for women. With men, I'm strictly a Cocksucker, nothing else, nada, zilch. No anal and I find the mere thought of kissing another man on the lips to be highly repugnant! Go figure!

 

[fitandfresh]

Too many fabulous women to count but still waiting for my first guy!

 

[lazy_literotic]

Strangely enough, I don't consider myself to be 'gay' as I feel none of the emotional attraction to men as I do for women. With men, I'm strictly a Cocksucker, nothing else, nada, zilch. No anal and I find the mere thought of kissing another man on the lips to be highly repugnant! Go figure!

I'm sort of the same way - I'm not bi, but I've been with women.
I'm a reluctant pussy eater - it's mostly because gals want to go down on me.
and there's been times where I haven't had a guy in my life.
I doubt if I'll do any more. I found a way to get free cocks.

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

I honestly stopped counting at a certain point and I'm only 28 It started to feel weird to actively try to keep track, because connecting with people isn't like trying to get a video game achievement.

I think I can break down some numbers though because I do remember most of these people.

People I've been in a relationship with: 4
Solo backpacking trip to Europe: 13. Different city, different people. I did end up seeing the first guy I hooked up with a second time, in a different country.
While partying locally where I went to university: 7 friends, 4 acquaintances. I also once masturbated in front of a group of guy friends.
Dating/hookup apps: 5 solo, 4 people from 2 threesomes. I also once went to a sex club with someone from an app and another person joined in.
Festivals: 11. Most years I don't plan on it happening but somehow it still does. There was a threesome one time.

There are lots of good stories in there too I wouldn't be surprised if I end up coming back and editing this post if more memories come to surface. It's been a fun little jog down memory lane.

Edit: The shame of forgetting people! Add 2.

 

[hot hugo]

I honestly stopped counting at a certain point and I'm only 28 It started to feel weird to actively try to keep track, because connecting with people isn't like trying to get a video game achievement.

I think I can break down some numbers though because I do remember most of these people.

People I've been in a relationship with: 4
Solo backpacking trip to Europe: 13. Different city, different people. I did end up seeing the first guy I hooked up with a second time, in a different country.
While partying locally where I went to university: 7 friends, 4 acquaintances. I also once masturbated in front of a group of guy friends.
Dating/hookup apps: 5 solo, 4 people from 2 threesomes. I also once went to a sex club with someone from an app and another person joined in.
Festivals: 11. Most years I don't plan on it happening but somehow it still does. There was a threesome one time.

There are lots of good stories in there too I wouldn't be surprised if I end up coming back and editing this post if more memories come to surface. It's been a fun little jog down memory lane.

Seems I’m going to the wrong festivals and the wrong backpacking places

But I always knew: Canadians rule!

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

Seems I’m going to the wrong festivals and the wrong backpacking places

But I always knew: Canadians rule!

Gotta find the hippy festies, stay in hostels, and try to make friends with some locals.

When I was in Marseille, France, there were a lot of Canadians staying at the same hostel as me. One night, a group of at least a dozen of us ended up playing King's Cup together. The group quickly learned they could make one guy drink for "never have I ever" by mentioning anything sexually adventurous. Cue he and I exchanging looks and making out in the common area once everyone had gone to bed. I didn't want to go further because security cameras so we made plans for the next night, which is its own whole other story...

 

[hot hugo]

Gotta find the hippy festies, stay in hostels, and try to make friends with some locals.

When I was in Marseille, France, there were a lot of Canadians staying at the same hostel as me. One night, a group of at least a dozen of us ended up playing King's Cup together. The group quickly learned they could make one guy drink for "never have I ever" by mentioning anything sexually adventurous. Cue he and I exchanging looks and making out in the common area once everyone had gone to bed. I didn't want to go further because security cameras so we made plans for the next night, which is its own whole other story...

nice… i will try to follow your advice during my next hostel stay. Let me know if you plan to come to Europe again.

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

nice… i will try to follow your advice during my next hostel stay. Let me know if you plan to come to Europe again.

The key is just trying to get to know the other people in the hostel - including the often young front desk staff. Hostels often organize group outings, too, so do the thing! Do the thing, talk to the people, and don't take yourself too seriously, everyone is looking to have fun in those environments.

 

[hot hugo]

The key is just trying to get to know the other people in the hostel - including the often young front desk staff. Hostels often organize group outings, too, so do the thing! Do the thing, talk to the people, and don't take yourself too seriously, everyone is looking to have fun in those environments.

thanks for the advice. i hope the young staff and the young crowd will not mind some older accompany… without making them think “what a creepy guy”

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

thanks for the advice. i hope the young staff and the young crowd will not mind some older accompany… without making them think “what a creepy guy”

I had no idea how old you are in writing my post but I will note that a lot of hostels do have age limits. The staff know the good places to go either way - for fun, for meeting people, and especially for not-touristy food.

 

[Tallcajun]

I’m much older now and in a monogamous relationship.
In my youth, i estimate maybe 15 to 20 sexual relationships. Half serous, half not.