How many people have you had sex with?

2, my wife and my ex.

Could have been a higher number I'm sure, but I was raised in a relatively religious family. Plus I was a bit shy and didn't come into my own until later in life. Kinda wish I'd gotten to have a little more "variety" before I tied myself down in retrospect.
 
Where sex = penetrative intercourse, like 15 or 16

Where sex = oral and/or manual, like 10 more
 
After reading all the posts, I think I must be a male slut.

I married early and divorced soon after, so chose to be unattached most of my life.

I stopped counting at 50 and that was 20 years ago. Being single probably gave me more opportunities than others.
 
50. - 60 PIV; many others that were just as intimate/good/not so good that didn’t go that route.

My wife and I tried to count one night and I think I landed about 55ish “intercourse” — maybe a few more
 
Before meeting my wife I fucked 5 or 6 other women.
Does just receiving oral sex count. If it does I am not sure how many to add. Probably another 15-18.
 
If I have multiple personality disorder does jerking off at different times in different moods count as various partners?
 
Honestly, I don’t know.

When I was young, I wanted to sleep with 1000 women …
Stopped keeping count a long time ago, but I’m sure I’m still far from the mark!
 
2, my wife and my ex.

Could have been a higher number I'm sure, but I was raised in a relatively religious family. Plus I was a bit shy and didn't come into my own until later in life. Kinda wish I'd gotten to have a little more "variety" before I tied myself down in retrospect.
You carried less expectations/baggage into your marriage. Look at it as a good thing.
 
You carried less expectations/baggage into your marriage. Look at it as a good thing.
In that sense, I agree.

However, there are many things I'd like to experience sexually that my wife won't do because "I already tried that with someone else, you're not missing anything." That has been incredibly frustrating.
 
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At 51 I have had sex with 6 guys and 4 girls.

Have not had sex in a year now.
 
No idea
(not because it is sooooo many, but because I've never kept track)
 
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