How many subs are too many????

[HottieMama]

All subs know about the others! And are fine as long as they get my attention when needed. So far it's fine and no problems.

This is where I think online/long-distance/real-time radically differ. It is much easier, in MY opinion to be "fine" with a poly relationship when it is not being played out right in front of your face. It's another thing all together to watch it happening right in front of you.

 

[Trakshvar]

I agree with hottiemama on this one. In my prevous relationship we started off online and i knew he had a boyfriend already and i was fine with it.. Even looking forwards to beeing the first of several pets.. I went to see the masters boyfriend first in holland before going to america to spend time with the master. So far so good.. No problems at all everything going swimmingly..

Then when we all gott together in at the masters house in america i realised something bad was going.. Cause i was getting severe jelousy issues and not really getting along with the masters boyfriend not helping..

Now i live with a former pup who became my Master/boyfriend and is as happy as ever but in the end i learned that if anywone else tries smooching up to my boyfriend ill need to tear their throat out.


Zyberspace and reality is truly two different animals as i realised from that.

You never know if you can handle beeing with several untill you tried it for real.

 

[HottieMama]

if anywone else tries smooching up to my boyfriend ill need to tear their throat out.

You sound like me with my girlfriends.

 

[the captians wench]

Ummm not quite sure what you're asking, like with a partner during petplay or everyday?
My ex bought me some ears, bells, collar, ect. Which I loved to wear for him, but did I NEED them to be cat-like in the bedroom? No, it's just how I am.
Would I RATHER wear my kitty things all the time, yes. In fact, I wear my ears during all October at work because I can get away with not looking crazy. I also go to clubs/events that have theme nights and I LOVE to dress up (not always kitty like either)

I also will send flirty kitten-like texts. But do I run around acting like a kitty in everyday situations... ummm no.



Figured me out yet? Hehehe rawr!

Ha! I would never dream of proclaiming I've figured anyone out, let alone one of the many complex kinksters about here.

But thank you for sharing with me. I feel I understand you better, even if I couldn't put you in a nicely labeled box.

This is where I think online/long-distance/real-time radically differ. It is much easier, in MY opinion to be "fine" with a poly relationship when it is not being played out right in front of your face. It's another thing all together to watch it happening right in front of you.

This is true. I think it's easier for me to deal with Jounar dating some one else (if he chose to) than it was for me to deal with being involved with a married couple.

However, the man involved was committed to me, and serious about our relationship. It has evolved greatly and I had to pull away from it for my own sainity, but I love him/them as much as I do anyone I'm involved with.

I used to say I'm a mono girl in a poly world. I'd love to be one person's one and only, but that would also mean giving up some one, and I'm not sure I want to do that. Would depend on the situation. Which is probably why I had back luck with dating. I couldn't commit to another person, and I was probably too upfront with my situations. *shrug*

 

[Loverskitten]

Ha! I would never dream of proclaiming I've figured anyone out, let alone one of the many complex kinksters about here.

But thank you for sharing with me. I feel I understand you better, even if I couldn't put you in a nicely labeled box.

Awww, I was hoping you could clue me in, hehe
I do want to be in a nicely labeled box, instead of a litter box, lol mew

 

[MissKelli]

Miss Kelli

I too have wondered as to how many slaves a girl can have. I have talked to other women who say they have more than one. I have this fantasy where I live on sort of a farm with about a dozen slaves, of both sexes. and I don't do anything, i don't even dress myself or clean myself. I am given tongue bathes by my slaves and of course they are kept naked at all times for the amusement of my friends and such.

Some of my slaves I make them dance naked and give me their tips. And they are to bring me slaves that I might like. So jealousy is out of the question of course for them. But if i am a Domme then why can't I have as many slaves as I like.

Even my boyfriend/slave could have a couple of slave girls if he wanted to, I see how the girls look at him. but then they'd have to be my slaves as well, hah. hah.

 

[Stella_Omega]

yeah, those fantasies... I love 'em!

In one of my favorites, I am some sort of super-strong gladiator-type sex slave who is kept caged for the safety of all concerned. The cage is gorgeous, of course, and has a beautiful soft floor. When I come out, I'm chained and walk in the midst of four guards.

Only I am also the Alpha slave, and I can beckon from behind my bars and have all kinds of people running at my beck and call, including right into my cage to give me service.

I like to have it both ways, in my fantasies.

 

[Jewdles]

Thank you

I do enjoy the humour shown in some replies.
Laughs make the world a better place to live in.

J

 

[MissKelli]

Miss Kelli

Well I have read that there are 10 subs for every Domme, of both sexes. I feel almost like I am doing these subs a favor by making them my slaves. I've never had that many slaves, hell I'd have to have the girl slaves give the male slaves their weekly relief. Of course they only get one orgasm a week. A girl slave can have all the orgasms she wants but she can't do it in private.
And of course all of my slaves are kept naked and collared, as well as pierced and the boys kept in chastity devices.
There is something though about having a round bakers dozen of slaves. And the slaves are expected to bring me new slaves if they think I would want them.
And all of my slaves are strippers and I get all of their tips of course and I love dancing naked too. I would own part of a couple of strip clubs of course and maybe an adult store.
I have worked in an adult store as well as been a stripper, just so I could meet kinky people and learn more about kinky toys and fetish clothing.
Well that is my view of things for now. I only have one male slave at the moment and my ex roommate who had my name tattooed on her ass.
My current boyfriend doesn't know about the other slaves yet and he won't do a threesome with another guy, a girl is okay but no guys. I think that is pretty one sided of him but I have been in love with this guy since we were in high school together, so I am going to have think about this one. I'm sure not going to give up being a Domme, though for him I'LL play the slave girl.

 

[MissKelli]

MissKelli

I have asked this question before and I never really get an answer. I think I could handle a stable of slaves, not all of them men mind you. I would have the female slaves take care of the male slaves.
I guess that brings up the idea of a polygamist relationship. It's a good thing a slave doesn't have a say in this. I think a round dozen would be alright and I could always trade them around. I would pick the men for their skills such as fixing things and then maybe a lawyer and certainly one that has money. And I would make all of them dance naked in bars and I would get all the tips. As well as posing nude for art classes. And by the way where to they get all their models for those femdom and cfnm movies and pics?

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

..42..

 

[Loverskitten]

..42..

Hehehe

 

[DVS]

I have asked this question before and I never really get an answer. I think I could handle a stable of slaves, not all of them men mind you. I would have the female slaves take care of the male slaves.
I guess that brings up the idea of a polygamist relationship. It's a good thing a slave doesn't have a say in this. I think a round dozen would be alright and I could always trade them around. I would pick the men for their skills such as fixing things and then maybe a lawyer and certainly one that has money. And I would make all of them dance naked in bars and I would get all the tips. As well as posing nude for art classes. And by the way where to they get all their models for those femdom and cfnm movies and pics?

Look for male dancers. I'd think a little affectionant touching in the right places could get you quite a group. But, don't go for all pretty boys. Some women don't care for pretty boys as well as the pretty boys aren't always that good at fixing things. You'll need at least a few construction types to please some women and to get things fixed.

 

[YourCaptor]

Ummmmmm... That's a tough question, hmmmm.... I'd say about 9.

 

[laceNlthrgrrl]

One more than you can satisfy.

Excellent answer! If someone is wanting, you're not doing your job!