How risky do you like to play?

[StrongMaster7]

To each his own. I'm not here to yuck anyone's yum, but I don't find risk sexy. Risk, to me, creates stress and worry, the opposite of what I want from sex. I want to know that my partner wants what I want. I want to know we won't be interrupted. I want to know that there are no negative consequences of our sex. That way, I can relax and get as dirty as I want.

But, for those who feel otherwise, enjoy!

 

[zoso682001]

Public nudity and public play are an active part of my current relationship and one previous long term relationship as well as a few shorter term flings. The risk of discovery makes the situation far more sexually charged but the proliferation of CCTV and the certain knowledge that it would cause massive issues with our respective jobs means it's become more difficult to balance the risks over the years.

My experiences with the previous LTR partner were in the 80's through to early 2000's when CCTV was rare in the UK and where it did exist the resolution was so poor that you'd never be recognised which meant our exploits were more regular, spontaneous and we could take bigger risks. In addition, no one had a camera in their mobile phone so if you were discovered there would be little or no evidence and you certainly wouldn't end up on a porn site. During that time a couple of friends actually got caught having drunk sex outside of the city council offices (specifically in a fountain) by a policeman and were issued a warning for lewd behaviour, today it would probably end up in court and local papers.

Our exploits are now generally limited to changing rooms, quiet corners in pubs and clubs and remote parking areas although both of us are quick to grasp the moment when opportunity permits.

Sensitivity around location always prevails, if we're going to get caught it will always be by an adult who doesn't know us.

Absolutely correct . The consequences today , with all the CCTV and phones, make it harder to find the right locations .