Though my wife makes more money than I it's understood that the reason ISN'T because she's smarter or more decisive. It's because her natural talents and interests were more marketable from the moment we entered the work force after college. We realized early on as a couple that BOTH careers can't be an equal priority. That said, she never "pulls rank" or presumes her making more gives her more than equal say when contemplating big decisions like relocations, big purchases (cars, college decisions for kids, etc..). ..As for restaurants, it's like "ok, I decided last time, you pick this time...just not XXX again." Remarkably, it's chosing our next Hulu/ Netflix binges that seem to generate the most acrimony.
But there's a whole other thing being expressed in the original post that I don't get. ...Like, the idea that being pegged or eating a woman's ass is somehow feminizing, or something that diminishes a man. Ugh... I'm very glad my wife doesn't think that way. We don't view these activities through a gender-role lens.
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With regards to being pegged. I think it's actually my unflinching willingness to do it that turns her on. ..And she uses her dildo's, which look like actual dicks, rather than some smooth phallus thingy that is less apt to trigger a guy's homophobia. It's not something we openly share w/ friends but if my getting pegged was revealed during a drunken convo I wouldn't act embarrassed. ...I'd say, "Yeah?! So the fuck what! ..It feels good. ..If you're too insecure about your sexuality to try it, I think you're the wimp, not me!"
Anyway... the bottom line is to "own" who you are. That, more than anything, will impress your wife.
But there's a whole other thing being expressed in the original post that I don't get. ...Like, the idea that being pegged or eating a woman's ass is somehow feminizing, or something that diminishes a man. Ugh... I'm very glad my wife doesn't think that way. We don't view these activities through a gender-role lens.
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With regards to being pegged. I think it's actually my unflinching willingness to do it that turns her on. ..And she uses her dildo's, which look like actual dicks, rather than some smooth phallus thingy that is less apt to trigger a guy's homophobia. It's not something we openly share w/ friends but if my getting pegged was revealed during a drunken convo I wouldn't act embarrassed. ...I'd say, "Yeah?! So the fuck what! ..It feels good. ..If you're too insecure about your sexuality to try it, I think you're the wimp, not me!"
Anyway... the bottom line is to "own" who you are. That, more than anything, will impress your wife.
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